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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious??
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KEEP HIM! i am seeing here that u really like him! and it sounds like love to me. But if u r having this many thoughts about the relationship comin to an end, then talk to him about it. But i wouldnt end it. But u r just 16 (older then me but still) so i wouldnt get to far or deep into the relationship...there is a big chance in every relationship that it'll come to an end...But GOod lUCK,
*MElodY
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Definitely sounds like love to me!!!!I can understand how you feel like you need to be kinda guarded.I've been hurt bad before myself and have a little bit of that wall still up around my heart.But you have to realize that not all guys are the same.I wouldn't worry about falling too hard too fast,so long as you don't lose track of the things that make you YOU!Like your friends,any sports or activities you like/take part in,the things that you enjoy in life that are not related to him.It's important to always keep a good grasp on who you are and make sure to never lose that.Give this guy a chance,he's already got you sweatin after 2 weeks!!Hehehe!Enjoy him,and enjoy your relationship.Make sure never to let him use or abuse you in any way,but also make sure not to push him away!
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you are 16 you have you whole life ahead of you. I think you should let him know how you feel but don't put it on him to fast. he will get scared and want to leave you, just tell him that you have only been together for about 2 weeks but you really like him see what he has to say. if he says its going to fast then stop and say your sorry but this is how you feel IM me and tell me how it goes footballchicka06.
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well if your falling theres almost nothing you can do because thats life and you are gonna have to go through some hard times...remember you have to hurt in order to grow!!!! i hope everytihng works out in your favor!! XoXo sara
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definately don`t end things before they start... because then you will regret what you could have had ! and i think if your feelings for him are genuwine then the happiness you have now will make up for the hurt you have later.. if there is a hurt =) so don`t hold back from loving someone too much... because then all you will do is hurt yourself
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no i wouldnt end things now..yea u are falling to hard its not a pretty thing i have done it many of times and everytime i fell hard i got hurt worse than n e thing so take it day by day and see how things go..and yea i would tell him that ur afraid of losin him and see what he says..one thing do not accuse him of cheatin ive done that to..i have learned my lesson...so dont fall hard and dont end it
Good luck..hope i helped
Tracy
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i think u should stay with him cause u will never know if u would have gotten hurt if u don't wait and find out so i think u would be happier in the long run even if u get hurt when it's over cause u will atleast have a taste of what love is
good luck
Gabe
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well i have alway been taught you have to learn the way of life by yourself... weather its good or bad...soo you will have to make the dicison your self... all we can do i put in our imputs... but i personally think that you should go for it and put your guards down... becuz what if he is the love of your life? you will never know unless you give it a shot... well i hope i helped...xoxoxoxo -Kayla
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No don't end it,but it sounds like you're infatuated with this guy. If you think about him leaving you,then you're not really too confident about the relationship. Don't break up,but take it a little slower.
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I think u should stay with him!Jus cuz ur friends got hurt doesnt mean u will.I got hurt once but i have lived thro it and learned to love again.So dont b afraid hun!Hehe much <33
*BrittBritt
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Awww, that's cute. That's how I felt - and still feel - about my boyfriend. The only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me or cheating on me or whatever.
I fell hard, really fast, but we've been together for 8 months on the 14th and we're looking at a really long-term thing. Don't be afraid to open up. I was all guarded, then I finally gave in and let myself open up, and I've never been happier in my entire life. Don't end things. Sounds like you've got a great thing going. Keep him, keep the relationship, and open up a little bit. Love is great. Don't be afraid of it.
-Siren =)
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No don't break up with him just because your friends haven't had luck. You seem like your really in love with him. There is a such thing as love at first site which means you fall in love just the first time you see him/her. You need to be open with him and stuff. Don't be afraid to say "I love you"! It will make him feel special.
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ummm hello!!!!NO DONT BREAK ^ W/ HIM.if u feel this way bout him the obxiously u need 2 stay w/ him.
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jessica
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First of all..dont ever regret or be worried about feeling this way! Its the best feeling in the world..believe me..i know..i was in the same situation as you. i had a boyfriend and after about amonth or so all i could think about was him and i loved him so much and i'd get terrified of the thot of him breakin up with me..and he did..but now we're startin to hang out more and its cool..i guess the point is..even if he does leave you it'll all turn out for the best so dont worry about it..im still very much in love with this guy, but im not crying everynite like i used to...cuz i accepted what happened..and now we're good frends..maybe a lil more..but the way your feeling is perfectly normal and ur not falling too fast..but just be sure you dont fall to hard..and i dont think ur bein too gaurded..maybe its a good thing u dont open up until yall have gone out longer..but dont ignore him..and dont let him think that you dont love him..because he probably loves you too and he wouldnt want to feel like you dont feel the same way. So just keep doin what ur doin and dont worry..just let things go with the flow and it'll all be great in the end! And also..if any of ur frends who have gone through the same thing have any advice for you..accept their advice and take it into consideration...cuz i kno you dont want to get hurt, but i have had myheart broken before and all i can say is that you do heal..so dont be scared! i hope i helped! good luck sweety! i hope yall last for a long time! love always.. ally
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Aww, hun! You should love that you are feeling this way!! Love can definately be a scary thing if you let it get the best of you..but you just have to remember all the good stuff and all the good feelings. Don't doubt it. You can't doubt first in a relationship. Don't end things with your boyfriend because you think you may get hurt and/or you are falling to fast..you'll regret it..because you will always have to ask yourself..WHAT IF? You don't want to live your life in questions of WHAT IF! Just be happy with what you have in front of you..enjoy all the lovey dovey moments. And as for the being open thing, I know it's really hard..but just be open! Go balls out (haha). You really only live once and you never know what may happen tomorrow! No regrets girlie!! Just tell your boyfriend how you are feeling..speak from the heart ..but don't be so open like OMG I WANT YOUR BABIES!! You might scare him this soon! But definately tellhim exactly how you are feeling..sweaty palms, scared of being hurt and all! Chances are, he's feeling just the same..but you'll never know unless you take the risk..Love is all about what comes from the heart..and letting your heart make the decisions.....so go with your heart!! :)
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u crazy?!?! wut u mean end things?!?! listen i've been wit my b/f now for like 18 dayz...i feel the same way u do...n i would never in the world make that descision...i'm actually so happy that i met him n that we are going out...i'm the happiest gurl in the world...he makes me happy n i bet ur b/f makes u happy 2...i get scared 2 sometimes...but i'm takin my chances..i'd rather regreat something i did then something i didnt !!! good luck...1luv xoxo effy
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