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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
oh cute


There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice? (link)
definitely DONT get an abortion


i like this guy he's in 12th and im in 9th, 3 year age difference, i don't really kno him that much anymore but i want to get to kno him again. we used to hang out all the time, cuz our families are friends... wat should i do.... is he way too old? should i wait a lil while?? should i move on?? (link)
i feel your pain.. i had the same problem recently.. but the guy i liked was one of my sister's friends.. i think that you should start by being really good friends with him and just be like talkative n friendly to him.. dont be immature tho.. older guys like mature girls


alright here's the deal i really really like this friend of mine but the person is not the way i am and i've told the person about it and the person hasn't talkin to me in awhile what should i do?? (link)
by this person not being the same way.. do u mean that ur gay n the other person is not.. or the other way around.. cuz if so.. they may never come around


I was wondering... is it possible to kiss someone using your eye? Please respond ASAP!!! (link)
hmmmm kiss someone using your eye..... y would u wanna kiss someone using ur eye... if i was ur g/f or b/f i would be kinda thinking ur a freak if u wanna to kiss me useing ur eye.... well i wouldnt do it... maybe ur speaking figurtive and asking me can u kiss someone while ur looking at them .. well i dunno that kinda a weird question


is it bad if i accidentally put a tampon up my butt hole????????????? help please
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tampon in butt weirdo (link)
#1 how do u put a tampon up ur butt its pretty hard to accidently do that..... and if u did u might wanna take it out unless u want a tampon up there weird if u do and if u do the only reason i can think of that u would want it up there is so u cant poo and thats weird if thats ur reason


well i have this boyfriend, who like cuts my wrists for me n its scary n i need hlp! plz help me (link)
do u ask ur boyfriend to cut ur wrist bc ur having a hard time or something bc u shouldnt ask him to do that there r other ways with dealing with stress. but if ur boyfriend is just cutting u just to cut thats wrong and u shouldnt let him do it bc u could get hut or even die. its abuse and u shoulnt be a victim. u should tell someone or tell him to stop get help from an adult


I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you.. (link)
well first of all when guys abuse their girlfriends its not cool at all bc they could really hurt you. even if its not true u should find out the truth. i wouldnt ask your boyfriend bc of corse he would lie if he did and if he doesnt lie he could go crazy and hurt you. i would try to talk to some of his ex-girlfriends and find out the truth bc he need to get some help if he does and you need to be careful bc he could really hurt you i would learn how to protect youself and maybe only go places where there are other ppl around for a while until you know for sure he wouldnt hurt you.


im 14 almost 15 and i have never had like a real boyfriend should i be worried that im going to go to prom alone because i think about it a lot (link)
no dont worry!!! first of all your only going into 10th grade right? well you cant go to prom alone (w/o someone whos in 11 or 12 grade) until ur a junior if you didnt know that. and even if you dant have a boyfriend doesnt mean you have to go alone a lot of my friends didnt go to prom with their boyfriends bc they didnt have one but some guy just asked them even if they were just friends... soo you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend and even if you dont you can always go with a guyfriend... and i wouldnt suggest going alone bc most of the ppl there go with a date and that means theres no left over guys to dance with


okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
well first of all be CAREFUL... if hes a really good friend and you decide to go out with him what will happen if yall break up do you think you would still talk like you did before you went out. for me it would be weird bc you wouldve made out with him and there would just be a tension to be just friends. sometimes a friendship can be better than a romantic relationship bc u can just be youself and not worry about being pretty all the time for him. but also it would be kool to have a boyfriend whos ur best friend. idk thats something you would have to decide for youself


my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!! (link)
well first of all i wouldnt "break up" with him i would just tell him you think it would be hard to have a long distance relationship and that you think it would be hard to have one so you think you should be able to see other ppl but it think if you really like each other that much you could make it work bc i live in Louisiana and i know this girl who moved away to new jersey and thats way farther than long island and they were able to make the relationship work perfectly. yeah she said it was hard sometimes bc she wasnt able to see him a lot like she was used to but he would go up there for holidays and stuff and she would remember how much she loved him so they were able to make thing work she moved back down here after two years and everything is great now... so i think if you really like this a guy and you think you could make it you shouldnt break up with him


How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age? (link)
the most likly age is probable like 14 bc like half of my friend have already kissed and made out but the other half is just like me waiting for the right guy




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