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Need Advice ASAP
I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you..
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I would follow your heart . but just be careful .But yea I would follow my heart if i was u . your friends mite not now him the way u do.
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Do what your heart tell you.. If he is a player and you do love him.. then your heart will get broken.. but if ppl are making up these things and you stay w. him then you may be happy or he could hurt you physically or emotionally (break-up).. do what you want and don't give in to pressure :D
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Ask around. Don't go with what your friends say, but do some of your own investigating. Talk to the ex-girlfriends, if you can. Talk to their friends and siblings and maybe some people who know your bf but not well enough to tell him you've been looking.
If you find that he's hit other girlfriends, dump him ASAP. Please.
If not all the information you get fits together and some of it disagrees, stay with him if you feel like you can prepare yourself for something bad.
If none of what your friends say is true, then stay with him, because he makes you happy.
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First off, you should do what makes YOU happy, not anyone else.. It's not like they have to live with what will happen from your decision, so just do what you feel is right, if he makes you happy dont let anybody get in the way about how you feel about them...
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Just keep your eyes peeled and make sure nothing is going on that seems to fishy. And if he makes you happy then thats good stay with him just make sure you stay alert of whats going on.-trix
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Has he ever hit you, has he ever cheated on you? If he hasn't then these might just be rumers. But if you notice him gettin angry and raising a fist at you, or you notice he is a sleezebag, then dump him as soon as you can otherwise you may get used to being mistreated. But don't punish him for something you don't know if it is true. Hope i helped a little
Lizzy
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well if he makes you happy, for now, thats great... stay with him. but if he EVER.. i mean EVER lays a hand on you leave his sorry ass and IM me with your address and i will personally beat him with a baseball bat. just watch for warning signs of violence, and listen to your judgement, not everyone elses. :)
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if he makes you happy then stay with him and dont listen to your friends....you see a side of him that maybe they can't see!! BUT if he starts pulling that abusive crap on you...it doesnt matter how much you love or a like a person....you leave right away because something like that can only get worse!
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well first of all when guys abuse their girlfriends its not cool at all bc they could really hurt you. even if its not true u should find out the truth. i wouldnt ask your boyfriend bc of corse he would lie if he did and if he doesnt lie he could go crazy and hurt you. i would try to talk to some of his ex-girlfriends and find out the truth bc he need to get some help if he does and you need to be careful bc he could really hurt you i would learn how to protect youself and maybe only go places where there are other ppl around for a while until you know for sure he wouldnt hurt you.
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You don't want to be with someone who isn't going to be faithful and trustworthy. Sometimes the majority knows more than it seems. Do a little research, talk to his past girlfriends about what you've heard.
If he really makes you that happy and he seems like the kind of guy you want to be with, go ahead and try it but if you're still worried about what people are saying, do what I said before and ask his past girlfriends about it. You might be able to talk to his friends, too.
Let me know how it goes
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Hey, if you really like him and if he makes you happy then you shouldn't listen to what other people say, but if he's been a player in the past then you need to be careful. Also if you're friends are telling you this stuff, too, then you need to sit down and talk to them because they may have important things to tell you that may give you second thoughts. I hope whatever happens you're happy with and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
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