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Best Friends
I am 14/F..My best friend and I have been friends for two years, best friends for about a year. We used to talk every day on the phone for atleast an hour, just getting to know each other really well. Eventually it became him being very upset because his mind is so mixed up because of his drug and acholol use. This is where the problem starts..he drinks and smokes..i don't, I totally dissaprove of all that. But, I stuck by his side. No one else did. He has called me at two and three AM drunk and eventually he just gets into a crying fit after about an hour of us talking..Eventually about after 6months of me telling him and telling he needed to quit he realized what he was doing was wrong and he quit for almost two months. No ciggerettes, pot, or acholol. Just recently he has started drinking again. I told him I wish he would stop and he said no i'm 14 and I want to have fun, people change. I'm torn to pieces that he thinks this. I have read internet articles about acholics. Drugs and acholol have totally taken over his mind in the past two years. So in actuality when I talk to him , its sort of like i'm talking to the drug, or so thats what the experts say. I just want my Best Friend back. I'm not sure how to approach him that he will not get mad. If anyone has any advice or can relate to me iM me on AOL (bballxbaberzx33) i'd really really appreciate it!!!
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Just sit down and talk to him when he's sober, tell him that you are afraid that he might be messed up later on and you dont want that to happen, show him the outcomes of some of the things you searched it will show him and open to his eyes of what can happen to him, just let him see what you saw...
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Well just show him all the articles or maybe you should point out to him that he was doing so well at his 2 month period and by the time he is older he will be a burn out and wont be any fun what so ever and if you talk to his parents tell them whats going on yeah he may hate you then but later on he will defintly thank you! trust me i have really learned from this just trust me and hurry because something terrible could happan! do it for the sake of saving his precious life-trix
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Ever heard the expression You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. That's essentially the case here. How can you get your friend back? That's up to him. You may never get him back. You've already tried to tell him that it's bad for him and he has chosen not to listen. If he thinks he's grown up at 14,I hate to break it to him but,he ain't. He seems to talk to you a lot because he knows that you'll like him no matter what. There really is nothing you can do here.
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I'll IM you. It's so weird your boyfriend thinks having fun is to be totally wasted. You really need to tell him that. I have a friend whose dad died from marijuana and now he is taking it. It can be very harmful. Make sure your friend knows that. Good luck sweety
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Hey, you obviously care about him and want the best for him so you need to tell him that and why you're worried. If he doesn't straighten up then maybe you should tell your parents or his and then he could maybe go to a counselor/therapist. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
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ight i am the same way tell him if he doesnt stop he is gonna ruin life i used to be a coke head but i stopped i now am an alcoholic and stonner i regret this but im addicted u really need to tell him to stop or u might hurt urself cuz he wont listen also ty to get him into those drugs and booze programs that help u quit
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