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more than friends or not? HELP ME!
okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE!
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if its hurting you inside to keep it in then you need to tell him .. but if you think it will hurt your relationship as friends then maybe don't. you don't wanna lose a friend. it hurts.
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Ask him how he feels about you, tell him how you feel about him, ask him if he thinks you two will go anywhere, just talk to him relationship wise about how he feels about you
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well first of all be CAREFUL... if hes a really good friend and you decide to go out with him what will happen if yall break up do you think you would still talk like you did before you went out. for me it would be weird bc you wouldve made out with him and there would just be a tension to be just friends. sometimes a friendship can be better than a romantic relationship bc u can just be youself and not worry about being pretty all the time for him. but also it would be kool to have a boyfriend whos ur best friend. idk thats something you would have to decide for youself
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I would be careful about it all cuz you wouldnt want to risk loosing such a good friendship between you 2 but i would just try to find out if he likes you one time i did i just sort of left it alone cuz i didnt want to jinx anything and if he found out that his best friend (which was me) liked him he might be wierded out or something so i just left it alone-trix
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If your really into this guy.. chances are hes into you too. But remember thats not always how it happens. If your as good of friends as you say you are then you should be able to tell him you like him.. and if he doesn't feel the same way then it shouldn't make the frienship awkward at all. If he ends up liking you back then thats awesome!!! You could always start with hints before actually telling him ... and see how he reacts to these hints. If your going to tell a guy you like him i think its best to just come out and say it and not to play games. Just one day while your hanging out maybe after you watch a movie or sumthing you could just go for a walk and just start off by sayin i need to tell you something. (((hint don't say " i need to tell you something but its kind of weird and i don't know how to say it " ))That makes guys think your not really sure or that your not confident.. (and to guys confidence is sexy) Anways, Just say i need to tell you something andhe'll most likely say okay sure.. then you should just be like.. " i am pretty sure i like you as more then a friend and i wanted to know if you like me the same way" ... DO NOT pressure him to answer. it may be a shock to him since your such good friends. Give him a few days .. and if he doesn't answer then just forget for now don't keep asking.. maybe eventually in time it would work out! :)
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u should never go out with ur best friend because than if u 2 go out and u break up that ruins a a really good friendship because u get mad at each other and everything
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If I were you I would just hang out w/ him as usual and one day just b like have u ever looked at me as more then a friend. Gotta b careful though cause you don't want to ruin ur really really close friendship w/ him
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it seems to me that you guys would be a great couple because you have a really strong connection! but you should just be honest! and just let it out and hopefully he will feel the same way about you!! =) *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Hey, if you really think that you like him then just straight out tell him because if you don't then you'll never know if he feels the same way about you. But, I guess, it depends how shy you are around guys. If it were me I'd probably have a friend tell him, but you're not me so... lol. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
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Sounds like you guys already have a strong and great connection.Honesty is the best policy if you ask me.You may not know what will happen by letting him know how you feel,but later on down the line you'll regret not telling him and living a life full of what-if's.Whereas,if you tell him,down the line,no matter the outcome of it,you won't feel any regrets for being honest about how you feel.And honesty is the key to any friendship so even if it weren't to work out,your friendship should remain strong cuz,as you said,you can talk to each other about anything.Why start holding back now?Ya know?Since you guys are friends you know he must like you in SOME way.So,here's what I think:flirt with him,let him know how cute and funny you think he is,but be subtle about it,you don't wanna come off as desperate!That would be a disaster waiting to happen!Smile at him,don't make the fact that you like him a secret,but also don't push yourself on him,there's a thin line there.Just don't throw yourself at him,but also don't play all those hard-to-get games,cuz to most guys then you just come off as weird,they're not much for reading your mind!Haha!When the time is right,tell him!Until then,flirt,have fun and enjoy him.You'll know in your heart when the time feels right to let him know!!Best wishes!!I hope I helpe some!!! :)
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Why is this so hard for everybody? Just tell the guy you'd be interested in going out with him and see what he says. Don't give hints,just say it. The man isn't a mind reader.
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You gotta just keep it real for a while.. and wait for him to kind of hint it to you.. or else he might get a little creeped out.. because.. ive had a close friend that i like.. not give me hints.. and suddenly kiss me once.. it was kind of like kissing my sister.. i got grossed out.. in a way.. and was just confused.. soo id try to wait it see how he reacts around u more.. i do wish u the best.. and if its meant to be.. then it will happen!
KYLE
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U should start to ask him if he likes any one and then maby say u kinda like him and see wut he says!!!
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