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hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk
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dude.. then dump the mofo.. find someone who will make u happy.. theres plenty of guys out there!
whatever u do DONT cut urself.. if u feel like it talk with someone.. do something that makes u happy! go somewhere with ur friends, have fun.. and always look on the bright side of things sweetie!
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Don't cut yourself, that pain is horrible and its bad for you, just cry that's what i do, just take it out that way so you arent hurting anything or yourself, once you stop crying you will feel a little better
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if hes cheating on you dump him! u dont need anyone to make you feel like that! just please dont cut yourself its not the answer! if you keep feeling this way you mite want to consider seeing a professional tho!
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You don't need to deal with that kind of crap. If a guy is cheating on you, dump him. No one is worth your time that isn't going to want to be with you and only you.
Don't get so down though. Your life shouldn't depend on whether a guy likes you or not. Just go back to the feild and find yourself someone new that will care about you and won't cheat on you. Don't settle for what you think you deserve. Everyone deserves the best.
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well find out for sure if he is or not...and if he is then just forget about him!!! and dont put pain on yourself just because of a dumb boy!!!! its not worth it at all...spend time with your friends or get out and do something to take your mind off of him
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Im sorry that hes prob. cheating on you. But you need to find out for sure. And if he is then you should dump him right away! And Im sorry that you get used alot.. maybe thats a sign that you shouldn't be with anyone right now and just spend alot of time with your friends who are always there for you and won't hurt you. Cutting is not the answer. and if your feeling this way then maybe you should talk to a trusted friend or adult that can help you. And if your feeling down thats completely normal. Maybe you should write in a journal and express all of your feeling. Being open really helps alot. and if you feel like you need to get away for a while then go for long relaxing walks in your neighborhood. That will give you alot of time to think about how you don't need a guy who doesn't treat you with the respect that you deserve! And i think when finally the right guy comes along you'll know it and everything will get better
hope i helped..
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You can leave one in my inbox or im me @ oSoInLoveWithYou
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please dont cut yourself. ik that hurts alot..it has happened to me. i just want u to kno u r not alone. i am positive there r guys out there that u deserve and would show respect for u, it sucks to go thru all these relationships be4 finding them but just be strong. ppl like these untrustworthy guys r not worth you putting the pain back on youself. u didnt do anything, and one day these guys r gonna get hurt themselves. all u have to do is dont put up with them and keep your head high, xplain to them what they did to you and dont go bak out with them. next time a guy asks u out tell him what u want you two to be, and u want to be able to put ur faith in him and he can with you. it hurts but you can overcome these things, dont worry about it. these ppl r unimportant and u deserve much better. you will find someone who will make you happy. good luck and hope i help
*kelly*
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Why would you think about cutting yourself over some loser guy? Tell him to get lost and move on.
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That is really sad. The reason that they are probably using you is because you probably seem like the sweet inocent type who would never use them. They take it out on girls like that if they have ever been hurt. Just seem a little tougher and let the bois know who's the real boss
Lizzy
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hey well srry such things are happening to you. i realli hope things work out 4 the best. but hear is my advice, mayb find out about this and make sure it is fact that he is or isn't, and if he is talk to him and confront him and if he lies to you you should dump him. he isn't worth yoru time, and nxt time look for better guyz don't just jump into a relationship get to know each other better and all. if u get depressed and need someone 2 talk 2 turn to yoru family, frineds and if need b u have all the pplz here! im alwayz here!
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Hey. I'm really sorry this happened to you! =( Guys can be so mean. When I want to go out with a guy, I get to know them for a couple days and see how they act and stuff. Maybe you should do that too. But, don't tell them thats what you're doing because then they'll just put up an act or something. So, when you start to like someone, get to know them a couple of days, like a week or something and if you like what you see, then tell them they can ask you out or something. Everything will be fine though. You just can't think about it, which I know is hard, but if you just go out and have fun, that'll get things off your mind. And thats good that you didn't cut, if you ever feel like it, just put a rubberband around your wrist and snap it when you feel like you want to cut. If you still need to talk about it or something, just leave one in my inbox. =D
xoxo Kourtney
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well ask him wut he has been doing latey and try to get hints! and try 2 begain 2 get clues and hang out more with him 2 keep him from doing wut he was doing before! hope i helped
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Get better guys.. or just kind of tease them.. and see if they are worth ur time.. before you actually commit!!!!!!!
Kyle
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