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it use to be me my friend jamie 'nd my friend kaleigh 'nd cera.. all 4 of us.. now we split up and kaleigh 'nd jamie are best friends and me and cera are best friends. they found someone else (who i am also friends wit) an me an cera have someone new too (amber- but we been tight wit her for a while!) But see kaleigh - jamie - dont like amber cause they aint all friends.. so i guess that could b part of the problem . but here goes the main problem to the situation. I miss kaleigh an jamie.. i dont know if i might b jealous that i was always there for them and it seems like they pushed me away for each other.. but i get sad sometimes cause they always are together granted im always wit cera and amber an they get mad (they tell me!) but i miss them i guess.. and heres the other probelm - kaeigh ad jamie have always talked shit about each other behind teach othrs back and i was always the girl to never tell and b there for both but yet they end up leavin me? wut the hell is that shit?.. god i dunno. (link)
ok.. well relax and take a breath in. well.. so u miss everyong being together, but mainly u miss hanging out with kaleigh and jamie,am i rite? u should tell Jamie and Kaleigh about how u miss hanging with them, and then arrange sumthing where just the 4 of u guyz just hang out like old times, and then another thing where u invite eveyone and can work out all the problems with amber and everyone.
Just hang out with everyone, all yoru friends. there's plenty of u to go around.


hey
i was at the movies with this guy who i like..and well i wasn't shure if he liked me before..but when we were at the movies he jus put his arm around me and we were leanin our heads on each other and then he wanted to kiss me(my first kiss!) It was great..what do u think? also...do u think he likes me ?! Thanks!! (link)
HEY!!! YA I THINK HE DOES!! he did ask u out 2 the movies didn't he? and u did say "HE WANTED to kiss" you so ya!!! and good luck!!!!


hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk (link)
hey well srry such things are happening to you. i realli hope things work out 4 the best. but hear is my advice, mayb find out about this and make sure it is fact that he is or isn't, and if he is talk to him and confront him and if he lies to you you should dump him. he isn't worth yoru time, and nxt time look for better guyz don't just jump into a relationship get to know each other better and all. if u get depressed and need someone 2 talk 2 turn to yoru family, frineds and if need b u have all the pplz here! im alwayz here!


I want someone to talk to during the summer while im away from my friends. I have a pen pal but I would like another one. I am a 13 year old female. (link)
HEY!!!
i'll b your pen-pal!!!! i'm 13/f but i'm going to b 14 in october! ya i'll b bcoming a freshmen! ya my summer is all so boring!! and itz great 2 meet new friends! also talk to "missing-identity-seeker" YA!! she is awsome!!
my e-mailis : cyc_azn_angel@hotmail.com
and if u do decide to e-mail me make the subject penpal cuz i dun noe which e-mail on my thingy has a virus or not [ too much spam!!] lolx k and if u hab aim im me k! [ ask 4 it l8er] ya well
caio


ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM?? (link)
ya give him a call, catch up on old times, ask howz he's bin and so on. say u missed him and u wanna hang out, ya noe, i guess like old times.


I'm not sure i got this poem sounding right; anyone please gimme a hand.

Fallen Hero

I looked up to a figure
I once deemed to be the best.
But as time slipped to the second,
My faith was put to the test.

Me hero was declined
Of his powerful throne,
Shoved to the side
And deprived of all he called his own.

I stood with the disappointed
Who late looked him on,
And surprisingly found myself
Not nearly as drawn.

As I turned my back,
Shaking my head,
He uttered his final words
And the next second he’s dead.

I found myself thinking twice
Of what I had once thought.
After hearing his words,
My attention, he begot.

“Take care of your hate,
“For soon you’ll regret
“For not helping the one
“To whom your actions were once set.

“Don’t be afraid of difference-
“That’s what makes us all unique.
“If we copied and begged sameness,
“Then all would be bleak.

“Cherish what you believe
“And this is the last I have to say:
“Don’t turn your back again
Like you’d done today.”


**!~Denice~!** (link)
OMG!! DENICE I LOVE YORU POEMS!!!! THEY ARE SOOOOO AWSOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wow!!! [ how come i haven't read that one b4?? u shuld've put "valentine kisses" on!! k


hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!! (link)
hey
well say u totally "WANT" this guy rite but liking this guy might come between your best friend and you, so you ought to think of who u care more for, esp. since she since it sounds like she liked him first, as time progresses you probally will get over it. ya noe. so mayb just keep searching there are plenty others out there! and mayb u just might find the rite one, ya neva noe!


another poem yall

I look in the mirror
But what do I see
The person I look at
Isn’t the real me
No one knows
What I want to see
Someone that loves
Some one that hates
Someone who isn’t just the someone
That everyone thinks is me

another

Who is louder our hearts or our minds
When it comes time to decide what do we find
We listen closely but it is hard to tell
Almost as if they are two little bells
But which one masks the other
It is so hard to hear
Why should we even bother
It will only cause a tear

another

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right

one more

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right
(link)
omg! that is sooooo good!! wow there are just some pplz that have sooo much talent and your one of them!!!!!


im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
hey! well tell your parents! but break it too them easily, they are probally going to find out one day. so i guess the earlier the better, the earlier they get used to the truth and can accept it, but get the timeing rite!. itz not wrong to love some one as much as you do, esp because you can't help who u fall in love with, but mayb u shouldn't run away with her. esp @ this age. if u truly think u love her, make sure she is also into u tho u don't want her to get freaked. be proud of who u are, and don't let others get to u!!!


ok im a girl, 14 -- can some1 give me advice with what to do.. well me and my boyfriend been together for like 2 1/2 months and i havent relle seen him at all this summer bcuz hes been away and shit.. and all these girls keep i.ming me sayin madd shit about me and how he only uses me and idk all this shitt and tryin to ruin outr relationships and i relle cant take it anymore and he never calls me anymore on the phone sence hes been away and everytime i call him he seems to never pick up his phone! and i ahardly call him bcuz im afraid he doesnt like me anymore and wants to break up with me and id talk to him bout these girls that are i.ming me and hes like he doesnt no them and w.e there sayin isnt true and all this shit but idk what to belive.. i think its these girls just bein jelous and tryin to break us up but im not gunna worry bout that cuz ima find out who they are and theyll get it from me.. but idk what to do with him!? i never see him, talk to him and were goin to different high schools next yr and this summer im only gunna be able to see him all thru august and i wanna break up with him.. but i like him to much to do it and i relly dont no what to do and i need some help pleasee! (link)
those grlz just ignore them/block em/ warn em/ w/e just tell them 2 buz off. then talk to yoru bf and tell him how u feel and if he replys with a no care attitude or u think nothings really changed mayb things would b better if u two broke up. there are plenty other fish inthe sea, and itz betta to have loved and lost than never have loved @ all!! wish u all the best
hope i helped


ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...


The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet

Nothing

The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear

Nothing

The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red

Nothing

The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain

Nothing

The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful

You find no God
(link)
That is brilliant!!!!!!! but itz kinda depessing tho... but EXTREMLY descriptive!!! keep writing i would like 2 read more!!!


hey i didnt no wat to put this under. but i need help. is it wrong to wish that u wouldnt wake up in the morning. or widh that u were dead. and if so then how do i stop thinking like that. i feel like everybody hates me and that if i was gone would ne body care! i no i shouldnt but i do and rite now i just want to leave. plzzz help me how can i stop thinking like this? (link)
hey, well itz not good thinking like that!!!! life can b wonderful if u make it wonderful!! letz c here don't think of concentrate on how crappy life is. concentrate how full yoru hour glass is and think of how lucky u are!!! everyone goes through feeling like this @least a little bit. u say u feel liek everone hates u well this shoudl prove that nobody hates u! you see all thses pplz that answered your question well we care about u other wise we woudlnt' have answered yoru question. try occuping your self with somehting u like doing when u feel liek that. and if u continue to tell someone they mgiht b able to help, friends family!!



~*Hey I have this problem with my cuzin. She is now 14. She thinks she is better than every1 else...she even told me that once. She dresses like a slutt...most ppl call her 1. She wears skirts that don't cover her a**, and shirts that go just bellow her breasts. Every where I go wit her guys r always starring. She always brings me down, and told me that she was ready to have sex!!! She is turning anirexic(food disorder). I wish I could help her. All she does is tell me how much she thinks I wanna be like her. I just don't understand I love and care for her and she treats me like this. I've tried asking her whats wrong, and she just calls me a loser and walks away. Pls help wit my problem*~ (link)
i think yoru cuz either really wants to fit in and wants the guy's to notice her or really is [ no offence] stuck up. you got to talk to her!
it mayb really hard to because she might start to think your geting to be really jelous of her, but try and get her to understand how you feel and that if she keeps walking the path she's taking then things can go seriously wrong in her future and she will seriously regret it. you got to tell her that you love her and all but you are seriously worried about her. if that doesn't work get other family members involved! you don't want to see her flush her life down the drain now do u. if she doens't listen leave her alone, don't hang around with her and if you see her at family functions and all jsut say hi and walk away, she'll hopefully get watz going on.] you probally don't want her to alwayz be looking down upon you and other ppl.


~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~ (link)
hey ok well i don't really noe if this is going to help you [ esp. cuz i've never been in a situation like this] but i think to stop your self u got to have more self control. to stop it's out of your own free will. u say u cut becuase everything in your life is misrible, well try thinking on the brighter side of life don't concentrate on "how empty your hour glass" is, concentrate on how full it is. for example: how lucky u are to have such a wonderful boy friend that cares soo much for you! how many friends you have that love u!!!!. Life is jsut an obstacle corse that u have to run through. You meet pplz that leave those imprints on yoru heart, good or bad, but you learn from it. Once life hits rock bottom what else can it do but go up. If you really think about it you don't have it 1/2 bad. you have ppl that love u, u have a roof over your head. think about those ppl that barly have any clothes on there back.
just remember that you can stop if u really want to, WILL POWER!!! and the ppl around u can alwayz help u.
-carolee
p.s realli hope this helped!!! but if it didn't i really hope that u find someone that can. and don't try commiting suicide again because think of how misrible u would make eveyone else's lives




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