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boy problems
ok im a girl, 14 -- can some1 give me advice with what to do.. well me and my boyfriend been together for like 2 1/2 months and i havent relle seen him at all this summer bcuz hes been away and shit.. and all these girls keep i.ming me sayin madd shit about me and how he only uses me and idk all this shitt and tryin to ruin outr relationships and i relle cant take it anymore and he never calls me anymore on the phone sence hes been away and everytime i call him he seems to never pick up his phone! and i ahardly call him bcuz im afraid he doesnt like me anymore and wants to break up with me and id talk to him bout these girls that are i.ming me and hes like he doesnt no them and w.e there sayin isnt true and all this shit but idk what to belive.. i think its these girls just bein jelous and tryin to break us up but im not gunna worry bout that cuz ima find out who they are and theyll get it from me.. but idk what to do with him!? i never see him, talk to him and were goin to different high schools next yr and this summer im only gunna be able to see him all thru august and i wanna break up with him.. but i like him to much to do it and i relly dont no what to do and i need some help pleasee!
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those grlz just ignore them/block em/ warn em/ w/e just tell them 2 buz off. then talk to yoru bf and tell him how u feel and if he replys with a no care attitude or u think nothings really changed mayb things would b better if u two broke up. there are plenty other fish inthe sea, and itz betta to have loved and lost than never have loved @ all!! wish u all the best
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<3 carolee
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just break up with him. you dont talk. you dont hang out. and he might be sendin these gurls to talk to ya. tell him that you still REALLY like him but you never see him cuz its summer. get back together when you both have to be home. if you really really really really dont wanna break up with him. CALL HIM! he wouldn't be wit ya if he didnt like ya! dUh! tell him what ur thinking! keep trying. its worth it
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Hey grl,
been ther done that with the jealous girls! they really can hurt ya cant they?! anyways wat i think u should do... u need to talk to ur bf say that u need the complete truth or it might b over ask him and tell him anything thas on ur mind if u like wat u hear stik with him if u dont break it up. if not seeing him is a major problem then u probly need to break it off but mainly u jus need to figure out exactly wats going on between yall. good luck. write me sumtime!
<3 fran
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Just tell him you need to take a break because you dont think its gonna work because you never talk or anything, just try and move on because there are plenty of other guys in the world
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Well, as much as I hate to say, the relationship is through with. This is almost like a long distance relationship, and they're really hard, and you just don't seem like the kind of person that would be able to handle this. It is true that the girls could just be jealous, but trust is a big part of the relationship, and without that, it's just not worth it. Trust me, in high school, you'll find so many more guys that will steal your heart away just like he has .. you just gotta let him know it's over.
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