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ok well there is ths girl and i have liked her for a while and i finally told my best friedn that and then he went and asked her out and now the girl found out what happened and how my best friend did that and now she is askin me stuff like would i ever get wit her if they broke up im jus confused as hell
some 1 please tell me wut 2 do
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Depending on your age, some girls will say yes to a boy when they ask her out just so she can ahve a boyfriend. Or she might of liked you but didnt think she had a chance with you. So when your friend asked her out she might of said yes to get closer to you. I'm not sure I dont know that for a fact though.
I think your best bet would be to talk to your friend about that after you think about it yourself. Would you want to be with someone that was wiht your bestfriend? Would your bestfriend get mad? How good of a girlfriend is she? etc.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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tell her the truth that he shdunt have done that to u and u have had feelinqs for her.. its not fair to u or her cuz obviously she has had feelinqs for u .. just be honest say yes to her maybe it will change her mind about him .. maybe it wont
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ok, first of all it wasnt right for your best friend to ask her out....hes (or she) is not that great of a friend. second of all do u still like her? and do you know if she likes u? i mean if she does then and u still like her then i would think it would be ok to go out with her. talk to your friend about it first though and tell um that ur really mad about what happend
i hope it turns out for the best...
<3 Katie
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Okay I would say something like this to her "_________ is my best friend and I don't want to hurt him but I might...."
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well first things first.. ur friend is a jerk.. anyone who would do that to you.. obviously isnt a good friend at all~ sounds to me like the girl liked you too- but since you didnt tell her- she didnt tell you.. so when your bestfriend asked her out she figured it was a good way of gettin you.. but now that she knows you liked her all along.. she doesnt want to deal with your bestfriend.. she wants to deal with you.. So my best advice is to let her know how you feel.. girls always like to hear how you feel about them.. then let things *happen* from there and if its meant to be she'll go with you.. and by reading what you wrote im pretty sure thats what'll happen.. best of luck! xoLindsey
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Well if you went out with her and your friend got mad, that would be his fault and you would just be doing what you said you were going to do the whole time. But i have to say girls respect it more when a guy is faithful to his friend. But remember, he brought it on himself
Lizzy
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If you like her, try to hook up with her. That was wrong for you BEST FRIEND to do that to you and he probably doesn't even like her he's just trying to get you mad or something. So, do it right back to him, but that is if you like the girl. Only go out with her if you like her. When you two are talking (you and the girl) just be like "I told him that I liked you and he went to you and asked you out, that was what I wanted to do because I really like you and I wanted to hook up with you" And just tell her how you feel and that you like her and you want to know if she likes you too and if there is a chance you two could hook up. Hope this helps, if you still need help just leave a message in my inbox. Good luck!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well if he did it to you do you feel the need to do it back? Just tell her how you feel and see how things work out
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well wut i think is that either she likes u (wich is rly wut i think) and/ or she feels bad about wut ur frend did 2 u. so i mean, if u like her u shud go w/ it, but if u dont ne more, thats fine 2. lol. but there isnt rly that much u KEN do cuz its ur frends fault in the 1st place for backstabbing u and goin withthe grl u liked. so, i hoped i helped and if u hav ne more ?'s u ken rite bak or IM me on dragofli1020
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