ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM??
RokkStarr420 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:14 am: Of course you should call him. All you have to ask is how he is and how he's been. Ask him if he wants to chill just like the old times. You'll do fine. Good luck :) [ RokkStarr420's advice column | Ask RokkStarr420 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:06 am: Call back get in touch and im sure you could just pick off where ya left off and just talk like everything is normal. Just ask him if he is busy and wants to hang out and jokingly ask him how being grounded treated him.-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:57 pm: Sure call him back girl!!Ask him how he's been and what's new with him.Then after you've talked for a little bit mention how you miss hanging out with him,and ask him if he'd like to go see a movie or grab a bite to eat,whatever you want to do,whatever setting would make you most comfrotable.Then you take it from there!!!Let him know you had a lot of fun hanging out with him,and suggest doing it again soon! ;) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
Mandee answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:23 pm: <span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Loosing contact with someone for so long and then suddenly getting a call from him is hard. Because you haven't seen or talked to him in so long and it's hard to pick up where you left off. I would call him back if I were you. Just because some people may be offended if you don't and it may seem that you don't want to talk to them which is untrue. So give him a good impression and call him back. You could say "Hey, what's up? I haven't talked to you in so long, so I just figured I'd call and see how you're doing. " And then just ask him if he wants to hang out. Or if you want to you could just talk to him for a while, and then the next day ask if he wants to do something. And hunnie, why are you so nervous? I'm sure he loved hearing from you as much as you did for him. You guys really need to catch up on things. So don't be nervous just be yourself, because he probably wants to remember you the way you were. So try not to act so nervous. He's your friend! Good luck with everything. And don't owrry it will be okay! Hehe. Love you! -Mandee</span> [ Mandee's advice column | Ask Mandee A Question ]
texangirl01 answered Monday July 19 2004, 9:44 pm: yes call him back!!! just starting makin conversation...ask him whats been goin on...what he has been up to lately...how his family has been doing and stuff like that!!! just catch up on old times! before ya know it...things will just coming pouring out to talk about!!! good luck sweetie!!! oh and dont be nervous!!!! just take a deep breath if you feel your getting choked up and just talk slow and be calm! [ texangirl01's advice column | Ask texangirl01 A Question ]
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