I am a lover of music. My favorite music is rock, alternative and metal. I like Marilyn Manson, Slipknot, Korn, etc. I like to read. I also sing and write songs. Someday I hope to start a band. I am a recovering Drug and Narcotics addict. Some drugs included Cocaine, Ecstasy, Speed and LSD. Narcotics for those of you that don't know are pills and medications, like Vicodin, Perks, Zoloft and Seraquil. If anyone needs advice about drugs or alcohol you've picked the right person. I may only be 16 years young but I know my way around the block and hope to help you.
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i love my friends and bein the person i am its the only thing i have, i dont have much family and what i do have.. well thats a whole different thing.. i feel like im never good enough. i feel like im bein push away fromt hose i use to b close to but the ones i am still close to says its just me.. i dont know why im always like this, im think im about to turn physco ova here. i know its not rly a question but.. yeah.sorrie. (link)
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It sounds like a classic case of growing up to me. Your at the age when everything feels so akward and you have little confidence. Rest assured babe, it's not just you. It's everyone in their teenage years. I'm still trying to battle with feeling good enough and becoming distant with friends. It's just part of growing up. Talk to someone you trust, an adult maybe? They can tell you how akward and unsure they were as a teen. Good Luck and chin up hun :)
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ok well there is this kid i like i think i dont know im having a really hard time figuring out whether i like him or not because we kinda talk but then he ignores me for a long time of will randomly talk to me after not talking to me for a while or he will be a jerk to me for no reason and im like what is going on? i mean i didnt do anything to him and he makes me like him then he makes me hate him or he will ignore me and talk to other girls around me and look at me the whole time and i kno this because i see it out of the corner of my eye and then after they leave he will talk to me and its just weird and i have no idea wut is going on! please help
signed - confused =/ (link)
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Well he seems like a real charmer. Don't even bother to pursue his ass. He's not worth your time.
Good Luck :)
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is it bad ive slept with alot of people
Randomdude PZE (link)
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It's bad if you didn't use protection and if you don't know them that well. Be careful who you sleep with or you may find yourself sleeping for eternity at a very young age. Good luck and sleep safe :)
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me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do? (link)
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Hun, you have to realize that she has other friends and she's not always gonna hang out with just you. What you need to do is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you miss hanging out with her and it hurt that she ditched you for her old friend. Maybe you should even suggest that all three of you hang out sometime. She may not be all that bad. Good Luck :)
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im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
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Hey hun. This is a subject I know all too well about. I am openly bisexual and I had the same problems growing up. I remember the first time I found a girl attractive I was about 8 years old. Of course at the time I didn't realize why she was so pretty to me. When I was 13 I had a school counselor tell me I was too young to be thinking that way. She didn't tell my mother and my mother didn't find out until almost a year ago. I grew up in church and was always taught that homosexuality was evil. And my mother always said she didn't agree with it. Now unfortunately she came across something I wrote online about bein bi. Needless to say she wasn't too thrilled at first. It took some time but she got used to it and now me and her even joke about it. Now what I think you need to do is tell your parents. They may not like it at first but they will have to get over it. You are their child. And I also don't recomend running away from it either. If you're not ready to tell your parents then wait till you're older and have thought about exactly what you want to say to them. A good website to go to that may help you out is www.glaad.org
Sorry for the long story but I wanted to show you that I was on the same boat.
Good Luck hun :)
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My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
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First of all, if your so called 'friends' are pressuring you into making out with a guy they are not real friends to begin with. Especially if your not ready. Don't let the pressure get to you. And don't do anything your not ready to do. When the time is right everything will go just fine. Good luck :)
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ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM?? (link)
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Of course you should call him. All you have to ask is how he is and how he's been. Ask him if he wants to chill just like the old times. You'll do fine. Good luck :)
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ok i went out with this guy i regret it and i made a mistake by breaking up with him. we still like eachother things r good we r still friends and i want to go out again (he doesnt kno that tho). he just told me how he thinks we should be friends with benefits. do you think this could lead into a relationship or does he want to keep it this way? help. thanks xox (link)
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Ok hun, what you need to do is sit down with him and discuss this 'friends with benefits' thing. Ask him if he is interested in going back out with you. If he says that he just wants to screw around with you then there is a good chance that he is just using you for that. If you just want to have fun with him then go for it, but remember to stay safe and use protection. Good luck :)
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