ok well there is this kid i like i think i dont know im having a really hard time figuring out whether i like him or not because we kinda talk but then he ignores me for a long time of will randomly talk to me after not talking to me for a while or he will be a jerk to me for no reason and im like what is going on? i mean i didnt do anything to him and he makes me like him then he makes me hate him or he will ignore me and talk to other girls around me and look at me the whole time and i kno this because i see it out of the corner of my eye and then after they leave he will talk to me and its just weird and i have no idea wut is going on! please help
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:09 am: Geeeez boys are so confusing! I hate when they do that! But, when you guys do talk just tell him what you just told us, how you feel and stuff. Just be like "Why do you always do that to me, like one day we're talk and then you won't talk to me for awhile, and then you'll talk to girls and look at me, I can see you doing that in the corner of my eye, I just want to know how you feel about me, because you're so confusing, I dont know how you feel because you do all that stuff to me." Just say something like that and what you just told us tell him that. Hope this helps and good luck. Just leave a message in my inbox if you still need help.
EsseNeminem answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:12 am: I cannot tell you the motives driving his actions, but I know that the actions themselves are unacceptable. If I were faced with this challenge, I would do my best to get out of the situation and try to forget the young man ever existed; this is because your current relationship with him seems only to lead to pain.
Try to cheer up, males tend to do strange things, though some of them simply arent worth your trouble. If you honestly are willing to take the risk of being hurt, you might try talking to him about it. It could be something as simple as a misunderstanding of feelings!
Either way, try to be honest with yourself, and Good Luck! [ EsseNeminem's advice column | Ask EsseNeminem A Question ]
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