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ok i went out with this guy i regret it and i made a mistake by breaking up with him. we still like eachother things r good we r still friends and i want to go out again (he doesnt kno that tho). he just told me how he thinks we should be friends with benefits. do you think this could lead into a relationship or does he want to keep it this way? help. thanks xox
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wow! ok? first of all you need to make up your mind .. "do you want him as your b/f?" "do you want him as friends with benefits??".. and if you do want him as your b/f again then you need to talk to him understand where he is coming from and make him understand where you are coming from. and if he still doesnt want to make that extra step and be your b/f then you need to eaither move on (sorry) just be friends or be friends with benefits.. but you need to make up your mind and not always bow down to him..(remember all guys LOVE benefits!!!) good luck <3
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Most friends with benefits lead into relationships yeh, but if you are un sure ask him how he would feel to be together again or something
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Ok hun, what you need to do is sit down with him and discuss this 'friends with benefits' thing. Ask him if he is interested in going back out with you. If he says that he just wants to screw around with you then there is a good chance that he is just using you for that. If you just want to have fun with him then go for it, but remember to stay safe and use protection. Good luck :)
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Well talk to him about it and see how he feels and make sure you tell him how you feel but the whole friends with benefits is kinda mean i know alot of people have a friend like that but its like he is using you but if you like him enough that you would let him use you then so be it just be careful!!-trix
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oh honey.. that could either be VERY good, or very very very bad. if its good.. he's waiting for u to say yeah and then eventually ask u back out. its very bad if he's " FWB" with more than just you and you just turn into a booty call. i think you should discuss dating with him instead of the "FWB" thingie because its kinda degrading.. :) peace out
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Well, you really need to talk to him about this. You're only going to get yourself hurt if you want more in the "relationships" and he just wants to be friends with benefits. Talk to him about it, and regardless of how scary it may seem, tell him how you feel. If he's really worth your time he'll stay your friend or maybe go out with you again. Maybe he likes you the same way that you like him and he's just trying to make it seem like he doesn't? Take a little time to talk to him about it and find out if he really does want more to the relationship. Don't settle for anything.
To answer your other question, it may or may not lead to a relationship. This could be his way of staying close to you or he may only be looking for fun. You need to talk to him about this.
Tell me how it all worked out! Good luck!
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he wants some booty!
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I think it's high time you tell him how you feel!! A "friends with benefits" relationship almost always leads to heartbreak and trouble,especially since you have deeper feelings for this guy.If you allow your relationship to be just that,you're not only setting yourself up to get hurt,you're sending the wrong message to him.You're making it seem as tho that's all you think of him.Let him know how you feel!!!
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