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SO CONFUSED!
My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how!
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dont do ne thing that ur not ready for!! just explain to him that your not ready! and if he tries to pursuey (sp) you to do stuff ur just not ready to do..then get rid of him!! u will find a guy that will respect ur boundarys wayy more! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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grl u dont have to do every thing ur friends say to do just tell ur bf that ur not ready hell understand
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First of all, if your so called 'friends' are pressuring you into making out with a guy they are not real friends to begin with. Especially if your not ready. Don't let the pressure get to you. And don't do anything your not ready to do. When the time is right everything will go just fine. Good luck :)
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aww.. its not difficult and you cant really screw up at it. if your boyfriend is any kind of man tell him you are unexperienced and playfully tell him you need some coaching. oh and as for the honkin' nose, tilt your head. and good people kiss. no one is going to think you are some slut because you made out with someone you are steadily dating.. promise. and hit your friends for pressuring you! thats really crappy!! boo to them!! good luck :)
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You cant really screw up on something like that its just something your born with and you know how to do it! trust me! And if you dont think your ready tell him that My bf nathan knows that i want everything to be perfect so he takes his time with everything cuz he respects and loves me! Just brush your teeth though! as me and nathan say "fresh breath" (yes with a A) Well just dont tell your cousins.. and im sure some of your cousins made out weather you know it or not. And the nose.. i wouldnt worry about it and im sure if he has made out before then i really wouldnt worry. And if you love him dont hold the nose thing against him. But just go at your own pase and tell everyone to shove it :) you want it to be speacial when it happans so you are waiting-trix
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Well,first of all,making out doesn't make you a "bad girl"!!So there's no reason to feel ashamed or dirty about it!!But if you're not feeling ready,or having doubts about it you definetely shouldn't do it.You only get one first kiss,let it be when you are ready and willing.Just let things happen naturally,don't force it,or let anyone else force it.As for not knowing how,we're all scared about our first kiss before it happens.We all have that same fear,"OMG,what if I'm not good at it,what if he/she doesn't like me anymore afterward??".So you're not alone!! Kissing is a wonderful thing if it's done with the right person for the right reasons.There are no rules or special magic ways to move your lips or tongue,it's a real natural thing.Don't try and act like you've done it before,you don't have anything to prove!Just relax and know that this is a great thing you're sharing with someone else!!
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u should do it but it doesnt make u not a good girl ne more if u make out wit someone.. or atleast i hope it doesnt
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just do wut u think is rite
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dont listen to your friends..it isnt true, i just got my first kiss on 4th of july, and im 15 and goin to be a sophmore this upcommin year, plus i know plenty of other people who havent had their first kiss yet. You just wait 'till you're ready...oh and about not knowing how to, you just go with the flow...lol b/c i was scared and didnt know how, but it just comes natural to you once it starts happening...BEWARE OF AN OVER PRODUCTION OF SALIVIA! lol hope i helped.
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heyyyyy. your story reminds me of my friend amanda.... actually its the EXACT same story but who knows? anyway, i think its a good thing if you take your own time and make out whenever ur ready. if your boyfriend or ur friends dont accept that then maybe they really arent worth your time. you do what you want when you're ready, no matter what anybody else thinks. its your life, your decision, your mouth, so do what you wanna do.
p.s. not everybody in high school as made out, but probably the majority
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Making out should not make you feel dirty. However, people seem to have "making out" turn into something more and more all the time. If you love someone, and it seems right, kiss them. There's nothing wrong with kissing, even deep kisses that last for hours... all that said, don't bow to peer pressure, all because some people like to take something personal and meaningful like intimacy, and turn it into a circus act or status symbol. Those people have no clue what love is, and won't for a very long time.
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well guss what nether have i dont worrie i get scared to do it when u are ready. tell yur boyfriend that u are not ready but u will be eventully. and dont be presured to fallow yur heart.
luv vanna PeAcE
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You're not ready to make out? Hmmm well I was 11 when I made out the first time. Problem was I didn't do it again until I was 18. You're not going to screw up and even if you do,your guy will still wanna practice with you a lot.Your problem isn't the good girl image,you DO need to ditch that,and it's not his monstrous nose. It's just that you're nervous. Don't be. You'll find a lot of people in high school don't know how to make out. I didn't,but that didn't stop me dammit. How can you look at your cousins again? With pride.
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thats not true not everyone in high school has made out and if u get made fun of then there just a bunch of jerks anywayz. u'll kno when ur ready but if not and ur b/f is pressuring u then u need to dump him or tell him ur just not ready! hope i could of helped and if u need any other advise dont be afraid to come to me personally.
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if your not ready then your not ready!!!! peer pressure is a bad thing so dont let that make your decisions for you!!!!!!
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TO: SO CONFUSED!
all im sayin is dont make out till your ready... peer oressure is kill pressure esp if you fall in it..i mean so wat if (quote unquote) "everyone" has made out?dosnt mean you hab to too..and beginners nebe noe buh youll experience it latta on...(hehe ima beginner to just so ya noe thah your not alone) ya noe?
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