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worried about things going too far
hey i am a 13 year old female and i have been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we have made out and basically had dry sex, but ive always asked him if i could see his penis and he would always be too shy to show it. i was over at his house yesturday and i asked him if i could see it and he un-zippered his pants and almost brought it out. i wasnt sure that he would do that and now im worried that he might catch me by surprise again. im thinking that he would try to make me have sex with him, but i dont know what to expect, b/c he talks about it all the time, but im not sure what to do if he tried it. i mean i havent done and i think its too young...what should i do about it?
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if you don't really want to have sex, then why are you teasing him and asking seductive questions like that?? no matter what age.. a guy is a guy and they want sex.. a lot.if you are against it, then tell him you dont want to. if he pressures you, knee him in the balls and leave; you dont need that. and worst case senario- if he rapes you... call the police and go to a hospital. but really, if you dont want that then dont ask him questions like that!!
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Just tell him your not ready for it but by talking like that you could give him the impression that your ready so watch what you say-trix
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Well,if the guy is too shy to let you see his private parts,it's pretty doubtful he will FORCE you to have sex!Of course he's going to talk about it,all teenage boys do!!Just be firm and stand your ground.Like you said,you're way too young to be dealing with all the things that come with a sexual relationship.Never ever let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do and are not ready for!!You're body is sacred,treat it that way!!!
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Dear "worried about things going too far",
I think that when your around him, you need to always be alert. If he tries it, go with your instincts, dont do anything that doesnt seem right, and use protection.
-Hayden
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Why ask to see his dick? thats just asking for trouble.. not a good idea..
KYLE
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talk to him about it first off, tell him you think you are still too young and if he cared he would wait til you were ready
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I know why he didn't show you his dick. Like most men he suffers from Short Dick Syndrome. Or at least he thinks he does. He's afraid that his size won't impress you. If he tries essentially raping you,making you have sex with him,then beat the shit out of him. Don't have sex with him at 13. That's way too young.
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follow your heart and do what you feel is right.if u r scared he might try to talk u into doing it sit him down and tell him how u feel about all this. dont be afraid to talk. in some areas it could save your life.peer pressure is an enemy dont let it overpower u.hope this all works out.luv nikki
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TO: worried things will go too far
ok if you dontwanna hab sex then why do you keep askin to see his penis? just outta random curiosity...anyways if ya think your too young and ya dunt want to yet then wait it off...ya noe?
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gee... maybe you shouldn't be asking to see his penis, then... In all honesty, it sounds like you've at least in part brought this upon yourself. If you aren't ready for such things, you should not play with such things.
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tell him your not ready!!!
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