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Member Since: July 15, 2004
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Last Update: July 20, 2004
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i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?

i need help! (link)
well if shes ur best frend and u confront her to tell her what u think and she gets mad then shes not a very good frend.. frends are ppl to lean a crying face on thier shoulder.. or sum one to lean on wen ur hurt or down.. shell eventually get over it.. but tell her what u feel..
i hope i helped!!

xOo.ashlee


my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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look.. its dusnt matter if ppl r blue gray pink gay strait or ne thing.. where all the same in one way.. and i think that its good that she is atleast tellin u now that shes liking girls.. and i hope i helped bcuz a lot of ppl loose frends bcuz they tell them that they are suttin other than "normal" ppl r.. every ones the same and everyone shood b treated the same.. u shood jus take it as u wurr ur frend and u told her.. if she treated u differntly then u wood b soo upset.. so jus think b4 u act and remember.. everyones the same!! i hope i helped!!
xOo.ashlee


ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help? (link)
well i think that its right that u care for her enuff to share ur feelings.. but wen u tell her trii to scare her a lil bit.. because sumtimes its best to scare the crap out of ppl to make them relize what there doing is rong. wen u confront her jus sit down wit her and tell her that she needs to get help 4 her problem and whats shes doing is rong.. and at first she mite not admitt it but tell her that urs and hers frend ship is soo strong that u wood never want to loose her over a horbile deisase that she gave herself. i hope i helped and remember its never rong to confrumt any one to help them out with thier problems!
xOo.ashlee


I like this kid ALOT but he likes my BEST FRIEND and sometimes it makes me feel kinda weird. i wanna go out with him badly and he has called me pretty and nice and fun to hang around with but nothing else!! i envy my best friend. I dont no what to do whether i should ask him out or keep it the way things are?
Ps. She doesnt like him but he like hers and i like him but he doesnt like me and he noes that i like him!

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not tryin to be the barrer of bad news but i dont think he lyks u. but he might he might just be sayin that he lyks yur frend cuz he doesnt want u to know. so be brave ask him if he lyks u.

sry vanna


My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
well guss what nether have i dont worrie i get scared to do it when u are ready. tell yur boyfriend that u are not ready but u will be eventully. and dont be presured to fallow yur heart.
luv vanna PeAcE


hey
i was at the movies with this guy who i like..and well i wasn't shure if he liked me before..but when we were at the movies he jus put his arm around me and we were leanin our heads on each other and then he wanted to kiss me(my first kiss!) It was great..what do u think? also...do u think he likes me ?! Thanks!! (link)
this guy has probly liked u 4 a long time but he was waiting for the perfect time. if u like him u should date but not do any thing till you r older and know him well. never get too far into a relationship because it could hurt.i know it was done to me.it leaves a scar in you life.he definitally likes yOu.

luv nikki


hey i am a 13 year old female and i have been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we have made out and basically had dry sex, but ive always asked him if i could see his penis and he would always be too shy to show it. i was over at his house yesturday and i asked him if i could see it and he un-zippered his pants and almost brought it out. i wasnt sure that he would do that and now im worried that he might catch me by surprise again. im thinking that he would try to make me have sex with him, but i dont know what to expect, b/c he talks about it all the time, but im not sure what to do if he tried it. i mean i havent done and i think its too young...what should i do about it? (link)
follow your heart and do what you feel is right.if u r scared he might try to talk u into doing it sit him down and tell him how u feel about all this. dont be afraid to talk. in some areas it could save your life.peer pressure is an enemy dont let it overpower u.hope this all works out.luv nikki


hey. i have no friends becuz my x best friend got the whole elementry school on me becuz i talked to her boyfriend on the phone becuz i asked him wut the homework was. i have no life. wut should i do? (link)
well i think that u shood stick upp 4 ur self and say heyy. i dnt think that its rite that ur sayen stuff thats not true about me.. and i think that u shood jus chill out and think about what u did.. cuz i asked the kidd 4 home work help.. and if i liked him i wood tell u cuz thats what best frends do..
well. i hope i helped..
RaTe mE
xOo.ashlee


A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint? (link)
look.. well if u really dnt wanna b her frend.. then jus tell her.. but dnt do it in a mean way.. cuz that is not the easisest thingy to hear frum ne one.. i dnt think that u shood ignore her cuz then that will jus get her upset.. so i think that one day u shood get togehter and do suttin fun.. and jhus b like hey.. ur really nice and all.. but sumtimes u can b a lil bit hyper.. soo if its okay wit u can we jus b neighbors and not to much of frends.// and tell her that we can still hang out but not be the best of friendss peace to the core !!


hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips? (link)
well if u feel that u dnt need to loose weight fast.. jus take ur time and do what u think u shood.. but cut down on the sweets if u eat em.. and tryy to get out and walk a lil bit more.. it really helps.. also if u have like free time go to the gym or if u have stuff ion ur house work out wen ur not busy.. i think that 200 punds isnt that bad 4 ur hieght and age,., and u can loose the weight if u want to!
i hope i helped!!
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xoo.ashley


hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~ (link)
okay well i think that u shood tell him all of the reasons y he shood stop.. not only that hes hurting his self but that hes hurting his loved ones... jus explain to him that u love him and that u wood never forgive ur self if he died from summin like smoking..
i hope i helped and that it's not to late!!
xoo.ashley!




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