A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ashley1392 answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:21 pm: look.. well if u really dnt wanna b her frend.. then jus tell her.. but dnt do it in a mean way.. cuz that is not the easisest thingy to hear frum ne one.. i dnt think that u shood ignore her cuz then that will jus get her upset.. so i think that one day u shood get togehter and do suttin fun.. and jhus b like hey.. ur really nice and all.. but sumtimes u can b a lil bit hyper.. soo if its okay wit u can we jus b neighbors and not to much of frends.// and tell her that we can still hang out but not be the best of friendss peace to the core !! [ ashley1392's advice column | Ask ashley1392 A Question ]
Mel answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:17 pm: Talk to her. Be like "Look, you're a cool kid and all, but i don't want to hang out with you everyday. I have a life outside of our friendship, and you need to accept that." just tell her the truth. She'll be more hurt if she finds out you've been lying to her rather than you just telling her the truth. [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
0rangeTape answered Saturday July 17 2004, 1:53 am: I would in the nicest possible way tell her you dont want to hang out with her cuz being mean is just not nice lol or if you know any other people that live by u hang out with her 1 day and introduce her to a few people so she wont always be wanting to hang out with you and she'll no a few more people [ 0rangeTape's advice column | Ask 0rangeTape A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:35 pm: I think she should be getting the hint by now tell her nicely that you just are pretty much booked for the rest of the summer and if there is extra time you are resting because you are so busy-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Kali7890 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:29 pm: Hey, I know that you don't want to hurt her feelings and I wouldn't want to either. Maybe you need to gently tell her what you're feeling or just give her a chance and maybe ya'll can become friends. That's really all you can do. I hope eveything works out and I hope i helped. *~*~KaLi~*~ [ Kali7890's advice column | Ask Kali7890 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 10:27 pm: give her a chance maybe she gets better i mean you just met her she just wants friends and stuff
Kissxme1121 answered Friday July 16 2004, 10:11 pm: Just tell her that you really enjoy hanging out with her but you do have a life and you can't be with her everyday. She should understand. But make it clear that you DO enjoy hanging out with her to make her happy. Rate me plz! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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