hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~
xbellaxobambinax69 answered Monday July 19 2004, 4:23 pm: this sounds serious! you need to tell him that he cant smoke no matter how bad the cravings are! buy him the patch or something my mom used it before and it worked ((but then she forgot to put it on and started up again)) and make sure he wears it everyday! keep a close eye on him! xox Emily [ xbellaxobambinax69's advice column | Ask xbellaxobambinax69 A Question ]
spoiledx3shortii answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:57 pm: i doubt very much that he will die w/ one more cig. but to help him stop take his cigerettes and put soap and water in the packet then throw them away...ci did that with my mom and then she had to go waste more of her money buying more but she got the hint.. if he doesnt have enough money to waste then tell him that you really and true;ly worry about him moking and that you want to make sure he lives.. and maybe you will get thru to him
hope i helped
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ashley1392 answered Monday July 19 2004, 11:00 am: okay well i think that u shood tell him all of the reasons y he shood stop.. not only that hes hurting his self but that hes hurting his loved ones... jus explain to him that u love him and that u wood never forgive ur self if he died from summin like smoking..
i hope i helped and that it's not to late!!
xoo.ashley! [ ashley1392's advice column | Ask ashley1392 A Question ]
Mel answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:46 am: Okay, first off: he's NOT going to die right then and there. it takes YEARS for something to go wrong inside of your body from smoking. Just know that much already. If he wants to smoke and he has sources to get the smokes from, then you're not going to be able to stop him because you're not around him 24/7. all you can do is ASK him to stop... for you. other than that, there's not much you can do. does his mom or dad know he smokes? if not, another option is to tell them to be aware of what he's doing. <3 [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Monday July 19 2004, 8:42 am: just keep on supporting him! and let him know that he cant smoke anymore! and you could also say..that if he smoked again..hed be losing the best thing in life! (his gf) *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
DruidX answered Monday July 19 2004, 6:37 am: It depends on what the doctor said would kill him. You could try weaning him off on nicoret patches/ gum. I would also suggest going back to the doctor for advice on how to help him quite. I don't know about the US, but in the UK there is a part of the NHS dedicated to stopping people smoking. Their website is: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
Good luck :) [ DruidX's advice column | Ask DruidX A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Monday July 19 2004, 5:18 am: Addictions are impossible to stop by yourself. You need to get him a doctor or a professional who can give him other ideas inseard of smoking! ACT FAST..FIND A PHYCOLOGIST! rate me plz and GOOD LUCK! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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