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takin my best friend


Question Posted Tuesday July 20 2004, 2:19 am

me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do?

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Jacky14 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:17 pm:
Well not to be mean or anything but you dont own her even though she made a mistake on leaving you like that mayb your just to close to her she is allowed to have m,ore than one best friend and old friends are missed alot so maybe you should let them have their time to reconciliate and maybe that old friend can be your friend too

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blondekisses answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:55 am:
oh my I had the same thing happen to me! you need to call up this chick and talk to her about it. tell her how much it hurts YOU to see her and this other girl together and being best friends. tell her how you feel. if you feel that this other chick is takin your place tell her that! and if she doesnt change or do something to make you feel better then you definitly need to jus forget about her and move on. Letting go doesnt mean your weak it means your strong enough to let go! keep that in mind...good luck and let me know how it goes! xoxo-blondekisses

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spoiledx3shortii answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:30 am:
This happened to me too... :( well you need to call this girl and be like okay.. you were my best friend and ever since you started hanging out w/ -_______- I feel like were not even freinds.. you were supposed to go to florida w/ me but you didn't to be with her and like you never hang out w/ me.." and if she still doesnt change then shes not a good friend.. you should ditch her and get new friends who actually care..
hope i helped!
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S_C answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:14 am:
she probably missed this old friend A LOT, maybe see if she'll let u hang with them

do you like her old friend?
if so, hang with them

tell ur friend that lately u've missed her and are feeling jealous, she'll probably understand and spend tyme with both of you

sry this ain't the best
Hope all works well for you and ur friend :-)

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RokkStarr420 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 4:42 am:
Hun, you have to realize that she has other friends and she's not always gonna hang out with just you. What you need to do is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you miss hanging out with her and it hurt that she ditched you for her old friend. Maybe you should even suggest that all three of you hang out sometime. She may not be all that bad. Good Luck :)

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RainWindFireIce answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 4:12 am:
Talk to your friend about the situation and explain to her that you feel like you're losing her. I'm sure she doesn't want that to happen. The best thing to do is to talk to her and get it off your chest.

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randomdude answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:36 am:
u should tell her how u feel and try to get along with her friend u 3 should all chill together and work it out
if u need advice ask me Randomdude PZE

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:31 am:
Well she probably missed this old friend very much. Just go talk to her and tell her how you feel and give the girl a chance and talk to her and maybe you could all be friends-trix

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 3:25 am:
Tell your friend how you feel, try not to be jealous, try and hang out with all 3 of you together, maybe you'd be jealous for no reason because maybe her other friend is cool or something, i dunno just try and hang out with both of them

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