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hey! well me and my friend are wondering if collared shirts are in style. Alot of our friends dress a little less conservative then we do, and they think that collared shirts are preppy. Even if u unbutton them and wear them with cute low rise jeans, is that still too preppy? or should we try a differnt outfit?. thanx (link)
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Wear w/e you want to wear. It really DOES NOT matter what they think. Especially if theyre ur friends..they shuld respect ure style and ure clothes. Wear what u feel good in.!!..
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For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks (link)
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i was 13 ..And well ure first time is usually the BEST but then again its really not lol. Mine was with some special and some i truly cared about and it was at his house (on bed) But if ure thinking about having sex for the first time make sure its with someone u kan trust and that u care about and things will go alot smoother!!
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hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal? (link)
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yeah itll hurt for a while.. but the swelling will go down..!!.. and the couple next times it might hurt but once ur body gets adjusted to having sex itll be grreeaaat!!!
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if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman. (link)
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Dont jump to any conclusions..Yea there's a possibility he could have cheated on you but just ask him where he got the new 'ideas' from and who taught him or if he just thought of it on his own. Just be open and honest with him about what ure feeling!!!
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A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
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..Well No..Not really People are always going to have something to say about you or ure friend. but when people talk junk about others or make fun of them it just shows how insecure they are about their own lives and how jealous they are. Dont let it get to you because it doesnt matter what anyone thinks. Just be happy and be thankful for what u have and blow off the haters. !!!..
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ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something? (link)
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sometimes it doesnt take that much to break the skin ..espcially right there. Because ive been a cutter and sometimes id just get carried away and wuldnt even know it. Even tho its really not a healthy way to take out stress no one can make u change its up to u if u want to do that to ureself but if u ever cut a vein u need to get medical help IMMEDIATELY ..
always here, jessy
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ok, im pretty sure i like this guy...he goes to a different school than me but i met him through a good friend... and we talk ALOT and we hang out alot and stuff..and we like eachother..and around when we first met and talked alot and liekd eachother we went out... but then broke up to get to know eachother more but now that we know eachother alot more ive come to like him a lil more... but hes out of town right now but he trys to call every night..but whenever i dont talk to him for a long time..i come to think "do i really like him" and not so sure if we should go out since hes in a diff school and we wont be able to hang out and talk nearly as much as we would if we went to the same school :-/ so is it a good idea to like him and go out with him still? ir should i not even bother :-/
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I think u should date him!! because ull never know how good something could be until u go for it!! Dont be worryed about the Diff. schools thing because even tho u wont see e/o every day u kan still go out and do stuff on weekends..Thats wat me and my b/f did!! We'd spend the weekends together because he lived like 30 mins. away! sumtimes its better to have that time and space apart..!!..So when u actually do get tha chance to be together itll be SwEeT and ExCiTiNg!! :-D
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How can I get real good revenge on my ex boyfriend? He dumped me b/c he got too horny and we started to do stuffthen "god" told him to break up with me... which is a load of shit... someone help plz.. thanx a lot.and nothing that will kill him or hurt him too too bad :D thanx (link)
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dont be immature like he was .. just let it go and be the bigger more mature person in the situation..because ive tried getting back at 2 of my ex bf's and it has worked b4 buuut later on i didnt feel so good about what i had done and i felt very stupid and childish (which it was) Just move on and remind ureself that it wasnt meant to be..
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Hey!! Ok My best friend like getz jelous or mad or sumin wen i hang out with other ppl and stuff n she fights wit my bf like sayin we should be tighter n that me n her should hang out more than me and my bf but i think thats tru 2 a point but wenever i do sumin wit sum1 that doesnt have her in it but she leaves me out sumtimes but i dont say nuttin so wut should i do?? (link)
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..I think yall are just going thru a PhAsE..because ive had like 2 'BEST FRIENDS' in the past and i came to realize that we really wernet the best friends i thot we were.. But sometimes fighting b/w friends means u need time apart or u need more time together.. Just tell ure bestfriend where u stand n how u feel and how she makes u feel....!!...Dont let her boss u around either ..u are ure on person!
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i was wondering it seems my dick is a lil smaller than it should be and i've heard of something that make it bigger but i was wondering if you knew of anything that could help me out ... and also i want to have sex but its like no girls want my dick or something what do i do ? (link)
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You can take some growth pills...theyre available.. But how old are you?!..i mean if ur really small then u prolly dont need to have sex..But, depending on ure age. If it REALLY bothers u then yeah you can enlarge it..!!..
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hey im a female and please dont think badly of me but i've tried fingering myself and i thought it felt pretty good and all but i was wanting to try something bigger and more pleasurable .... i was thinkin about a dildo and i was wanting to know if you think i should try to get one and try it or if anybody had one they could let me try out ... what do i do ? (link)
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it's not bad to want to pleasure urself!!...it's alot safer than having sex! its a good thing u shuld be proud of ure body and what it has to offer.!!..But i wuldnt use neones else's sex toys Its just more personal and better to have ure own.. !!!...
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alright i have a huge problem me and my boyfriend recently started trying to have sex and we did it and all and his condom came off inside me and it took a while but i had to pull it out ! .... do you think i might get pregnant ! please help me im terrified ! (link)
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Ok well first of all make sure u get the right size next time!!!! But yeah netime u have sex, theres always a possibilty of being pregnant.. If you inform someone at a health department within 24hrs. then they can prevent STD's ..And Pregnancy!! U need to go and get a pregnancy test ASAP dont wait.. it just makes things worse and ull worry about it 24/7 if u dont find out right away!..get ure b/f to go with u to the drugstore and health department its always better to have ure partner with you...!!..
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okay i dont really want a bf right now cuz i luv to b single but then when im singlei never get ne! so im wondering how do i get a guy to make out wit me if we're not goin out? i mean there are soo many hot guys around but i never have the courage to just go up to a guy and tell him wut i feel so help the gurl out asap!
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HAVE FUN!!! haha! Just ask the guy for his screen name or his phone #..and just tell him ure not really looken for a b/f just someone to hang with and talk to and to maybe "CHILL" with every once inna while...!!..hehe DONT be scared because you've got nothing to lose..!!..Go for it..!!..
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hey girl...i have a problem...im really into this guy...we juss started Talkin but he seems like a guy i would REALLY be interested in..and a few friends said i should go for it...but one said no..he may play me...al my friends have always told me lifes all about risks..should i go for it or not...hes soo sweet...he plays football and we met up in the gym to say goodbye and he was juss soo sweet and hugged me ah..i like him..should take a risk or what HELP (link)
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..ITS ALL UP TO YOU!!! hehe. IS HE WORTH IT? hmm, :-P But i think u shuld..theres always the chance of getting hurt but its like that with ne guy You'll regret wat u DONT DO sooo much more than what YOU DO do...Life really is about taking risks but after that first step its alot easier...But follow ure heart and everything will turn out okay! and remember if things dont turn out for the good (but i hope thay do) Theres awlays more guys out there!!!! :-D love ya grl !!
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i have always had really short hair. it's been a dream of mine to grow it out, but right when it's a little past my shoulders, i always chicken out and cut it again! i think it's because there is no good styles for shoulderlength hair, but i still really want to grow it out. is there a product/way to grow it out more quickly so it can be long? (link)
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yeah there are alotta products that makes ure hair grow faster and thicker.. i cant remember what its called but go to a beauty supply store and look there..
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My boyfriend told me that, when you have sex your first time, there's no way to get pregnant.
I can't remember -exactly- how he explained it but it has to do with a certain thing, that cannot be penetrated by sperm, coating the male organ. And this -only- happens when a girl has sex the first time.
Is that true? Or is it equally possible to get pregnant when you have sex for the first time? (link)
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YES!! it doesnt matter which time u have sex...you can get pregnant! if he is telling u something rediculous like that then maybe he doesnt know too much about sex himself!!!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for months and we've decided to take our relationship to the next level by having sex.
I'm hesitant, though, because friends have told me that it hurts. I understand quite a bit about sex for my age. I know that if he goes slow at first, it won't hurt quite as much. But I still feel scared.
What should I do? (link)
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if you 2 really love e/o...then ull both take ure time. You both need to be open about what feels good and what doesnt.....if he starts to hurt u then tell him! dont be scared or ashamed...its good to be open about sex with ure partner...
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are glasses a throw off to girls? (link)
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NO! hehe SoMe glasses kan be cute or even sexy looking ...hehe BUT if it bothers u or lowers ure self esteem...try contacts!!!
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what r the symptons of being pregnant? (link)
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...Well i do know a few... but i know a website that could help u out ALOT more .. WWW.TeenWire.COM ...
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u look wayy older then 14 ur very pretty :) Do u know any ways i could make myself look a lil older, i tryed new make up things but that didnt work out that well, im starting high school in a few weeks and i dont even look like im a high school i look more like 7th grade haha if u know any ways plz help (link)
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Hmm..well u could start off by doing ure eyes make up a lil bit darker but dont over do it lol User black eyeliner...wear clothes that fit you well but that arent like squeezing you lol!! alotta places like *rave*, *579*, h0llister has gr8 jeans!!...Other things that might help (if ure short) are high heels..but wear too big of shoes lol u dont want to look like a curcus clown!! Plain shirts are older looking too..dont get nething with pictures or words on the shirt Skirts are very nice and give u a more grown up look! If u need more adivce juss ask me, thanks girl!!!
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