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Teen ager wif a baby
A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
thanks!
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If you see your friend being harassed or anything like that, stick up for her. Tell the meanies to shut their mouths, because they don't know what they're taling about. Tell them how they wouldn't even have the strength or courage to raise a child and keep going with school. I hope i helped. Good luck!
~Cayd
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well there isnt much you can do but what about when someone actually is making fun of her, just stand up for her as much as you can without getting in a fight. When you do that, your friend will see how nice you are and how much of a friend you are to her. I cant tell you that the teasing will stop but your friend will feel a little bit better knowing that you will stand up for her.
Let me know if there is any more trouble!!!
Evan
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Everytime someone says something mean when you're there, stick up for her. Apart from that there's nothing you can do. She's not letting it bother her and once the bullies see that, they will stop.
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Well you can't stop people from saying things, they are going to say it, if they want to. Well I can understand that it bothers you, stuff like that would bother me to! But theres nothing to you can do, people are going to say things.
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Tell them to mind their own business and stop worrying about other pplz livez and worry about their own ..
wenever they start to make fun of the girl..jus start being sarcastic and say "yeh (girlz name), my god yu have a kid..wut the hell were yu thinking?!" and then yuz 2 start laughing..
it will show the ppl that it dont bother yu and theyll eventually stop...
they jus need tah grow up a lil ..forgive em for bein soo immature and having no life that hey have to jump into yur friendz life !! ;)
hope i helped!!
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good luck!!
*ash*
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Tell them its none of their business. Its her life not theirs and they need to get over it if it bothers them so much.
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..Well No..Not really People are always going to have something to say about you or ure friend. but when people talk junk about others or make fun of them it just shows how insecure they are about their own lives and how jealous they are. Dont let it get to you because it doesnt matter what anyone thinks. Just be happy and be thankful for what u have and blow off the haters. !!!..
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just stand up for her. if you hear people snickering about it in the hallways, just be like "you dont know her, and atleast she is strong enough and brave enough to come to school everyday and want to do something with her life"
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This adivce is going to suck. lol. But if I was you, and anybody started talking shit about my friend who has probley had a really stressful life, i'd tell them to shut the fuck up! I mean, it's none of their buisness, and really, in all truth, it's normal to go to a high school, and there be teenagers with children, and a possible husband/wife.
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Tell them to stop becouse its very un repecpal and judgemeal and say something like every body makes missttes and learn from them.. try to reason with them.. becouse nobody souldnt judge something that could happend to people who judges.. hope u know saying.. Pople who judges they get something worst happend that they will regest.. just say there going regeat it.. hope I help
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You should tell them that its her life. How would they feel if they were called a hoe? I'm sure that they wouldnt appreciate it! Also, the world could do without ppl who judge. If they say the same thing, then they are actually hipocrits. She may regret what she has done, but firstly, she deals with it, and secondly, she did commit abortion, which they might of done. So, actually, you can point out to them that she is a role model.
Hope I helped!!
XoxO ALissa
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Don't become overly protective. It's never a good thing.
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Ugh, I hate it when people do that to other people. There isn't anything you can do but if you stand up for her the next time you hear someone making fun of her, maybe everyone will start to cool down with making fun of her. It's none of their business knowing that this girl had a baby at an early age. Hope I helped :)
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Ahh I take that crap offensive my sister had her baby when she was 15:-x
Well I don't really know how to cure this problem but when hear crap like that stand up and say something to them. It's none of their business so they should stay out of it. So the next time you hear someone say stuff about it you should say something to them about it and tell em its none of their business.
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