I really like my best friends bf. they just started dating today.. but i have liked him all summer. i hang out with his sisters all the time, so im ALWAYS with him. we have dated in the past too. Do i tell my best friend i like him? Do I tell him I like him? or do i just wait and see how things go between them and just keep my feelings to myself?
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:44 pm: Well did she kno that you liked him before they started going out? Because if she new you liked him but went out with him anyways then thats kinda rude. But for now, i think its best to just keep it to yourself, because you dont kno how she would react, and you dont want to loose your friendship over a relationship that might last like only a week. [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 4:27 am: ok first..ask yurself why it never lasted with the 2 of yu before..
and second...i really do think that you should let your friend be with him..and wait until something happens with the 2 of them and THEN talk to HER about it FIRST ..and see wut she sayz..bc a friend is MUCH more important than a boyfriend..never let a guy come between yu 2..so let her have sum fun for now and if they seem to break up..consult HER first or else it may end up in yu 2 not being friendz if yu go to HIM first!!
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WiseMan answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:50 am: Well waiting is the safest thing, but if no one ever took risks then where would we be in life, u do what ur heart points u too, if u think u should tell someone, then tell ur friend first, see what she thinks. She will probably understand ur feelings and then say, well stay away from him until we break up, lol. hope i helped. [ WiseMan's advice column | Ask WiseMan A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:33 am: I think im not saying what you are doing is wrong because its not at all its normal but if ur bestfriend really likes him then i bet most likely she will hold a gruge against u 4 a while but if she understanding ur lucky and she doesnt then keep it to urself because whats intended to be will happen if not then something better will come your way im sure of that.well good luck i hope i helped at least a little.. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
IronyHelps answered Friday August 20 2004, 11:12 pm: Just wait. they'll break up, you'll snatch him up, and your best friend will brutally attack you. OR things could all work out and you can wait until you find someone else... or she find someone else. [ IronyHelps's advice column | Ask IronyHelps A Question ]
mr_frisky_lemur answered Friday August 20 2004, 11:06 pm: Well, if I was in your place, I would just say to hell with the best friend and just tell the guy you like him. Chances are he likes you more any way. If you let them go without saying anything bad things could happen 0_o [ mr_frisky_lemur's advice column | Ask mr_frisky_lemur A Question ]
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