if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman.
xo_dream answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 11:38 pm: Nah -- unless he's given you a reason not to trust him in the past, I wouldn't worry about it. He could have learned them from a ton of different places that don't involve any other girls. Just be glad he has some new ideas =) [ xo_dream's advice column | Ask xo_dream A Question ]
snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:42 pm: hey hun, i can't say if he cheated or not, cuz I don't know him, but he could have picked them up from somewhere else. Like a porno magazine, internet, or a friend told him. You should trust him a little bit more if your having sex with him though ... [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:26 pm: I think your paranoid. He might of gotten those tips from his friends or from watchin "movies". It depends how long though if it was anything more than 2-3 months then I would say you will have to ask him if he is. If you have been with him for a while and if he a trusty person than he will tell you the truth. Hope this helped! [ SeXyLaCi_XoX's advice column | Ask SeXyLaCi_XoX A Question ]
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:20 pm: Well, if you really love him then just trust that he didn't. I kno that theres like tons of magazienes that have all kinds of tips on new things. Just ask him where he learned it all from. And if you really trust him and really love him and are pretty suer he lvoes you then have faith in him and believe him. And just enjoy it lol [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
beatlovedown answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:03 pm: Isn't the internet a wonderful thing?
You can learn so much just by checking out a few web sites. I know it may seem like he's cheating on you, but if you love him you'll trust that he isn't. Maybe he talked to some of his "male" friends and found out new things. I dont think you should go off and think that he's cheating right away. He might of just talked to somebody, or looked up on the internet a few tips. Trust him, i'm sure its nothing. And enjoy while the new things come up, they might be very....hmm...pleasing? =)
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SwEeTii14 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:53 am: there is a HUGE possibility that he is cheating on u because if u guys havent been having sex for a while then he mite b with someone else..but there is also a possibility he got these off of a porno movie or magazine.. but dont always think of the worse..mayb u should ask him about it if u feel up to it..
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napalm3400 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:47 am: Well sorry to say but u could be right. I didnt say u were right, its just a possibility, or u are right and that other women he learned it from was from a porno movie, he could of just wanted to see how it works out also, just to try new things. Dont always think the worst. hope i helped, drop me questions anytime u want.
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BartDude414 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:40 am: Hey there hes not cheating on you.He must have safe all that time while yall were not having sex and pick up a few tips on the internet or something. [ BartDude414's advice column | Ask BartDude414 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:34 am: No,he probably read them in Maxim or something or Cosmo has sex tips,too. I know becuae it's one of those magazines I read when I'm waiting for the clothes to dry. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
sweetjesska182 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:22 am: Dont jump to any conclusions..Yea there's a possibility he could have cheated on you but just ask him where he got the new 'ideas' from and who taught him or if he just thought of it on his own. Just be open and honest with him about what ure feeling!!! [ sweetjesska182's advice column | Ask sweetjesska182 A Question ]
soljette answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:44 am: have you ever asked him why you guys havent had sex in awhile? i dont know what to say to that.. i guess if that ever happens again, and he comes up with new things to do in bed, ask him whered he learn that from.. but not in a suspicious manner, try asking it excitedly. if hes been with another woman, you might catch his bluff. [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:33 am: it is possible he might have learned these things from another woman but most likely he learned it from a porno or sumthing. my boyfriend is always offering new things to do in the bedroom and it's only bc he watches pornos or looks things up on the internet and then shares them with me!! you should be happy hes wanting to do these new things with you and noone else!!
ask him about it just to make sure he isnt cheating.
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