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My boyfriend and cutting
~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~
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K well it think u shouldnt be all into the smoking pit and sex thing. Your parents love you and there just trying to have the best fro you but whenm you do things like that its hard for someone to love that person. And ive been in your parents position and its hard to deal with and sometimes you just have to lay your foot down even if it is getting kicked out of the house. But i have been in your postion too because ive cutt my wrists ind wished i wouild die but ya know how i got over it , i found something ..like a goal and set my mind to it and now im doin really good but i know alot of people like you and i treuy to talk them, out of it because i know they can do better things with there lives then smoking pot and getting married at 17!!!!! wel it was nice to tell someone who has a problem and try to help thewm..
~Dsaramina's Friend
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girl u relly need to sto[p all u relly got do is get every shrp thing u can cut ur self wit away from u
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I would check yourself into the hospital and have your current bf right now with you through the whole thing to help make it easier-trix
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babe well i know that u know this is serious and im so happy that u want to stop. i know it may not seem like it but u have so many people that care for u. i dont even know u but i wanna do everything that i can to help. obviously there is alot to ur life that is making u stressed out and makin u feel like this. i used to try to kill myself bc nothing in my life was going right. by the time i was 15 i was an alcoholic, addicted to pot, taking speed,having sex, got pregnant, had a miscarriage, lost all my friends bc of my bad habits, and i lost my bf and 4 of my closest friends in a car accident. it seems like i didnt even have a life nemore so i would always over dose on pills, one time i ended up in the hospital and was in accoma for like 3 days. thats when i really realized how screwed up what i was doing was. so i just tried my hardest to find new friends and i talked to a councelor about it. my bf really helped too. when ever id get the urge to take pills hed make me talk about how i was feeling and why i wanted to do it. so what helped me is keeping friends around me and not putting myself in positions where there would be alot of the stuff i was trying to get away from. with ur ex idk wut to really say bout him except hes a jerk. just stay away from him he treated u so bad and u deserve so much better. so let me know how things r going and i hope i helped and i hope im not too late.
sorry if this was late i was gone all weekend.
kristi
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Omg sweetie you need help, you need to also tell the police about the rapping thing. You need to go and get some help! Cutting gets soo addicting and you dont want to scar yourself over at such a young age. Also you need to get help with the eating disorder. I know things are rough but your boyfriend seems to really like you, have him help you get better! You've still got a long light ahead of you! Good luck keep me posted!
-holly-
hope i helped
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First of all,you've defied all odds already!!You're a very very brave young woman!Allow yourself to feel proud of that!A lot of people would've completely folded,but you're still here!!Step back and take a look at the positives,you have a wonderful boyfriend who loves and stands by you,you've been given the gift of waking up to see another day,another sunrise,another day full of possibilities that are GOOD!!! And look at this,you haven't committed suicide because deep down inside of you,you don't want to die,you just want help.Also,you didn't go thru with it because that's not what's meant to be.God has a better plan for you.Your best bet would be to seek help at an eating disorder clinic,and they can help get you set up with counseling and therapy that you need for other areas besides eating.It's going to be a tough road,but look at the road you've already been on,and you made it thru that.I have faith in you that you will beat this and go on to live a wonderful and full life.Please write me back and let me know how you're doing!Much Love & Support,Whitney
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Hey hun!!!
omg u r such a brave person!! if i wer u i wouldnt b living but u r and u need to keep living! ur bf is absolutely right u need to stop cutting and doing all that shit. in my opinion i think u should tell ur bf everything and talk to him about everything he sounds like he really understands u and could help. also i think u should go to a support group or sumthing and try to get bak on terms with ur parents. ur life really sux right now and u need sum help and thas not a bad thing as long as ur willing to get it also mayb rehab would b a good idea. o wel i hope u get better and i hope i helped! write me sum time.
<3 fran
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Hey.. well if u ever wanna talk u can look for contact info in my profile or anything like that.. i would kind of need to hear more about your story.. and your life.. but i would love to help someone in such trouble as yourself.. because i care.. and the loss of your life would affect soo many.. please look me up if u wanna talk or anything!!!
KYLE
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ok 1st lets start with im sorry but 17 is just way 2 young 2 get married! and it was meant for a reason 2 find your fiance cheating because now it looks like u found much better! look at the good side (its looking like ur bf loves u) i think u should go to therapy or something n get help (not to sound rude) and chill on the eating disorder u r really tiny and try getting help for smkoing pot and try talking to ur parents good luck...please rate me
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hey ok well i don't really noe if this is going to help you [ esp. cuz i've never been in a situation like this] but i think to stop your self u got to have more self control. to stop it's out of your own free will. u say u cut becuase everything in your life is misrible, well try thinking on the brighter side of life don't concentrate on "how empty your hour glass" is, concentrate on how full it is. for example: how lucky u are to have such a wonderful boy friend that cares soo much for you! how many friends you have that love u!!!!. Life is jsut an obstacle corse that u have to run through. You meet pplz that leave those imprints on yoru heart, good or bad, but you learn from it. Once life hits rock bottom what else can it do but go up. If you really think about it you don't have it 1/2 bad. you have ppl that love u, u have a roof over your head. think about those ppl that barly have any clothes on there back.
just remember that you can stop if u really want to, WILL POWER!!! and the ppl around u can alwayz help u.
-carolee
p.s realli hope this helped!!! but if it didn't i really hope that u find someone that can. and don't try commiting suicide again because think of how misrible u would make eveyone else's lives
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You should get help. Try to find a mental institution. They're very private so nobody will know unless you tell them. You sound very pretty and I'd hate to see your life go to waste.
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