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k so i've liked this guy since 8th grade(i'm going into 10th)...we've actually been really good friends for almost a year and a half now. I would never tell him how i actually really feel because he's going out with one of my OTHER really good friends,but the other night i snuck out and met this guy at his house...we ended up getting drunk and one thing eventually led to another and we ended up having sex.His girlfriend was out of town for 2 weeks.The next day i went back over there and we ended up drinking again and messing around again. we haven't really mentioned it to each other since...does it sound to you like he was using me since she was out of town? we agreed not to tell her anything. I don't really feel guilty for what I did to her, but for what HE did to her! should i talk to her? or maybe him? please answer this! i need advice!
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ok 1 you shouldnt have gone over there in the first place if she truely is one of your good friends..2 yes both of you should feel bad him for cheating and with her friend and you for being the friend..she deserves to know. 3 yeah he probably was using you if he had to cheat on his g/f to be with you and had to wait for her to be out of town and you had to be drunk..come on now hunny youve helped one of your friends get cheated on and youve been used..idk bout you but id b mad at him and myself for that much.
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well, it sort of sounds like he was using her, but moslty if, does he only do this when she's not around
and yes, i think first u should try to confront him, wut if u got pregnant, or got sum STD's
u also need to tell ur friend
she mite get REALLY pissed at you, but she needs to kno wut kind of guy she's goin wit
and i kno this is really up to you, but i wouldn't want to date him, think of wut he'd do if u were outta town or sumthin
Hope this helps, if not then try to ask sum1 else, i'm not totally good on this subjec, but i think im allright!
Hope all is well!!
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