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Ok i have an issue
There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?
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hunny i lost my virginity in 2nd grade dont feel bad because i regret it so much but some times you have to move on with life and enjoy life while you can....the past will never go away!!but you can always change your future.
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he "took" your virginity? was it rape?
if so, bloody well report it.
otherwise, congratulations on being empty and irresponsible! good luck finding a place to stay!
but, anyway, you did it to yourself by letting some stranger eff you.
also, try and talk to your mother. tell her how lost you feel, and that you really need her. explain that it was a mistake and you would do anything to take it back. if you've been close to your mother in the past, try your best to repair the relationship. if she's always been a bit bitchy, then i wouldn't bother.
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same thing happened to me except I didnt get kicked out of my house.. the guy took my virginity and then came back for more and i thought i was pregnat and he got scared and now im nothing in his life except someone he had sex with and left... just try talking to your family and tell them how sorry you are.. dont worry you are not gross and yes you were used but hey it happens I know excactly how you feel so hey if you have any questions feel free to leave them in my inbox
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yea that does suck and i would feel the same way...but what can we say some guys are pigs...maybe you should talk to someone about this and tell them how u feel...im not saying to forget it happend but try to move on and feel better
xoxo leelee rate me!
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Hey ive heard u can neva feel the same way again bc ur lyk a garbage can now bc every1 the messed with is lyk going into u to bc thats the way it works but adultts told me that they also sed u can neva feel the same way bc ur not virgin nemore n ur lyk neva gun feel the same
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well i think you need to try and get ahold of this guy, and knock some sense into his head, and yeah you shouldn't have just had sex with him the day after you met him...but if it is ruining your life kinda, then you learned a very valuble lesson, and you can share your mistake with your friends and ppl you know so then maybe you will save them from doing the same thing....but so times people make mistakes, its ok!
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Unfortunately there is no way to change what happened. Everyone makes mistakes and it doesn't make you a bad person, unless you make a habit of it. Just make sure that your actions from now on, reflect the kind of person you want to be. In time you will feel clean again.
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u hav 2 talk 2 him and get things squared between u 2
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ok well 1st of all u shouldnt have done wat u did but thats ok now that was all in da past nd now u arent like that. now try talkin to ur mom, start over with u life you can do much better! talk to ur mom how u made a mistake nd that every1 makes mistakes..NO ONE is perfect. try to put what happened in da past, ya it`ll be hard to do but u can try. think positive nd remember that u can make it thru, u can also try talkiin to someone thats older then u that ur close to soo that u can take all those emotions out..iight babe?
i hope i helped!
if u need more advice feel free to ask =)
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Be mature. Talk to both your mother and this guy. Explain how you feel and try to sort out the problem. It might even help getting the two together. If problems for you and everyone else worsen you might try getting a facilitator (third party, nuetral friend) to sit down with everyone and work this out. You will feel better once the problem is solved. Don't look down on yourself. Mistakes happen. Without them how could anyone learn or improve or even grow. You are a person. Don't kick yourself in the head for not being perfect, just prevent the problem from happening again. Make wiser decisions and trust yourself. Things will look up.
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You've already done the best thing possible, let out your emotions. What you can do is still try and explain the circumstances of what happend, and maybe he will be a little nicer to you and not totally avoid you, and for the most part, that guy sounds like a jack-ass. The third thing you need to do is deffinately the hardest. Put it in your past, because nothing will change it, absoloutly(sp?) nothing. I know that sounds completely difficult to you about now, but you dont want to dwell on your past, focus on your future and your goals. if you ever need to vent, drop one in mi inbox n ill get rite back to u
much love (and good luck)
DrEw
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Well, I don't know if you can get rid of the feelings. That's a pretty awful experience. To be blunt, you need to get over it. I don't say that to be mean, but you need to move on past that and get on with your life. That's something of the past, so put it there! Plus he sounds like a jack ass anyway! You need to look in the mirror and say, " I screwed up, but it's okay since noones perfect." And don't think of yourself as dirty either! You could have done a lot worse, believe me.
Hope I helped! xoxo
Lyss*
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start fresh. start over. a new begining sort of thing, it sounds liek u did have it pretty rough after tha getin kicked out of your moms hosue, but you shouldnt dwell on the bad things, let ti b in the past, also mayb get involved ins tuff liek in your Church or sumthign ya no let people see what a good person you are. hope i helped-plz rate =)
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Don't go sleeping around.
-xXoBrianna
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definitely DONT get an abortion
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