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Um... Well, my name is Alyssa, but all my friends call me Lyss or Lyssie. I'm 15 years old and I LOVE to Dance. I've been dancing for 11 years. I also cheerlead for my Branywine High School, which is nothing special let me just tell you, lol. I also like hangin out with my best friends, Lauren, Rachel, and Liz, and all my other friends. I'm single, and love parties and fun stuff. Holla atcha girl!

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I really like this guy but he is older then me and i dont even think he knows really who i am what should i do should i go up and talk to him but i dont think i even have the guts to?

I think you should just casually bump into him and drop what ever you're hold. I swear it works everytime, lol. And if he doesn't stop to help, he's not even worth it girl! And if he does, make conversation. Like your name, stuff like that. Good luck with that girl! Older guys are the best!

Mwah!

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Ok.. I've got the most amazing boyfriend ever.. but my friends don't like him. They haven't even taken the time to get to know him. and another thing.. his younger brother is in my grade, and he likes me- but he's a total geek! i want him to just leave me alone but i'm not the type of person to be mean to somebody for no reason, and i don't want to hurt the poor kid! about my friends.. how do i get them to just give my boyfriend a chance before they judge him?

Well, for the younger brother problem, I say just tell him how it is. You don't have to be mean to him or anything, just tell him that you only see him as a friend. For the boyfriend problem, you should talk to your friends and tell them honestly how you feel. Tell them he's a great guy or else you wouldn't be going out with him. Tell them to just give him a chance. I hope everything works out for the best!

xoxo

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There's this girl that I kinda do really like. I wont say her name. But anyways, shes really cool, kind, sweet, and pretty. SHe goes to my school. Heres the thing, I dont know whether I should talk to her or not bout sum stuff. Also, how do I go about approaching her and like kinda showing her that I like her and whether or not she likes me back?

"Hearts are often left broken by words left unspoken..." I hope that makes something to you. If you really like her then tell her. You have a 50-50 chance that she will like you. If you like her, flirt with her, hold her hand, just make it obvious that you like her. If you don't make it obvious that you like her, she may not respond. Also, reality check, she MAY not like you back. Good luck! Hope I've helped.

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Ok....I have my girlfriend. She's really kind, sweet, and just amazing. But I have one problem, I kind of like another girl. Okay, I dont knwo if I'm being a bad boyfriend or not but I dont know what to do. I need advice, what do you suggest I do?

Well, who do you like more? You have to figure that out. And if it does end up being the other girl, you need to be honest with you're girlfriend. Try just being friends with her. If you love your girlfriend more, then you're just going to have to get over the other girl. One question, does the other girl like? If she doesn't then I wouldn't advise you to break up with the one who does. Does that make sense? I hope I helped.

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ok heres my problem. I'm a nice person, except that sometimes I can be an ass with people. I had/have a really good friend. Shes really nice, and sweet and everything. But I've humiliated her, and Ive made her feel so bad, that now she doesnt wanna b my friend anymore. Ok, and she says I cant fix it, and Ill just hav to wait until I learn my lesson if I ever do. How do I make her udnerstand my apology, adn that Ive truly learned my lesson?

Well, you've obviously hurt her, and she's not willing to forgive you. That's all her decision. Sometimes, you can't fix mistakes. You just have to learn from them. If you've tried to prove that you're sorry, than that's all you can do. She has to come around and forgive you herself. Hope I've helped.

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hey...
well i have this friend I have known for about 2 years...we've never been really close but I have caught her in numerous lies. she said people have egged her house when i find out she was on the couch at home...she told me her mom and dad were divorced...not true! then she makes up all these boys who like her but i've never seen one of them...another lie! is she just lookin for sympathy? is she fuckin psycho? i am afraid to confront her what should i do?

Well, I had a friend like that. I don't understand her about the divorce thing, but I do understand about the boys. Have you been talking about your "men" so to speak? Maybe she just wants to have boys to talk about like you. If that is the case. I think you should be open with her and tell her you don't believe her. But be non-confrontational. You wouldn't want to get into an unnecessary fight with her. Good Luck with your situation! Don't hessitate to drop on in the in box babe!

muah!

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There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?

Well, I don't know if you can get rid of the feelings. That's a pretty awful experience. To be blunt, you need to get over it. I don't say that to be mean, but you need to move on past that and get on with your life. That's something of the past, so put it there! Plus he sounds like a jack ass anyway! You need to look in the mirror and say, " I screwed up, but it's okay since noones perfect." And don't think of yourself as dirty either! You could have done a lot worse, believe me.

Hope I helped! xoxo

Lyss*

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my friend has been going out with her boyfriend for about 9 and a half months....he always promises her things and tells her that he loves her so much and he would never ever like his ex ever again but then he was tellin his friend how he might wanna hook up with her.. when he goes to visit his ex girlfriend because he said she looks so much better ... so those promises her made seem like they dont exist anymore..like he broke all of them..and he is sticking up for his ex. girlfriend..nd its making his girlfriend upset..what should she do?

She should tell him how she feels. She needs to let him know that she isn't going to compete with some other girl for him. If she isn't good enough to meet his needs, then he isn't the right one for her. You should have this discussion with her. Personally, I would be pissed and break things off with him, but that's just me. Hope I've helped!


xoxo

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i cant get it up i tried every thing in the world and it wont come up do you think its a problem ???? the only time i can get it up is when im doing something in public its so embrassing are you the same way do you think i should see a doctor or at least tell someone OH and when eve he gets up i have this intention of stabing it do you think thats right??? and another Q. why is it purple????? should i take the rubber band off i mean it really didnt stop my girlfriend from getting pregnant

WTF?! Who the hell are you? You got some sick hummor...

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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox

Wow, lol you are SOOOO right! That happened to me EVERYTIME I go out with someone! It's probably cause guys like a challenge, and wher you're single you're not much of a challenge! Hope that answers your question! ADD ME! I just made my column and I haven't gotten any questions yet!

xoxo

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How do i tell a guy that i dont wanna do sexual things with him?

Just say no! Tell him that you're not ready for that yet. If he keeps pressuring you, he's not the right guy for you. Hopefully he understands. Hope I've helped!

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Is the meaning of life 42?

Whaat? Lucy, you are truely a special one... Lol.

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