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Mixed emotions...
ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks
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go out wid him but just keep it on da DL ( downlow)..That way noone will know you 2 go out and you'll feel free to do whatever with him without it getting around. Hope i helped ya =)
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If you want to do stuff with him then you should. And you should just tell him that you dont want everyone in school knowing what goes on between you 2 because it is no one elses business. Hope i helped!
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If you're worried that people will start to talk about you, don't get back together with him. I find that a good substitute to friends in a time of loneliness is chocolate. Preferably in cake form, or possibly ice cream. It might not seem satisfying at first, but if you eat a whole cake in one sitting I promise you that you'll suddenly feel completed.
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Well...ive had this done to me sooo many times because well you don't really wanna be known as well a slut not that it is or just about your personal life...so wat you do is just don;t tell anyone unless it is someone you trust or you know wont tell anyone and if you know he wont tell anyone then dont tell him not to but if you think he would jsut before you do it talk to him on hte phone say something like if we ever hooked up and did stuff togetheri dont want it to be all around the school so can u keep it between me and you
I h ope it helped! Love always Jacki
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Ok first dont tell ANYONE what you do.i know that that hard way..and just tell him you dont want anyone to find out and if he really cares he wont tell..i hope i helped.
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well the only problem w/ this is think is the attachement... cause if u get attached he could break ur heart u kno... which is the worst pain in the world... so id be real cautious about it. and if u do go ahead w/ it then just have him promise he wont tell anyone.. and u wont either.. then it wont get around
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Well is this guy like trust worthy? then i'd tell him the truth about the fact that you want somebody to hook up with...he's probably going to be fine with this b/c wat guy would turn it down? lol neways..ask him if he would consider goin back out or at least being friends with benefits..in other words friends who would do stuff together...hope i helped..IM me online..<3 :)
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If you don't want it spreading, then is it really worth it? Like, you know it's going to spread somehow. And then what will you do after it does. Deny it? What will he think?
I think that you should wait to get a real boyfriend. Maybe then you won't be so afraid of spreading news.
<3
~A.Good.Lie~
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if you wanna smash and he wants to fuck then why not? fuck what other people say, its not like youre grabbing a random guy anyway
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Well it's your decision what you do and it's really nobody's elses business but your own. If you and the guy choose to go back out then thats yalls choice. No matter what happens people are always going to talk! Just don't listen to what people say! Do what YOU wanna do and if your worried about stuff getting around school.... just tell the guy not to say anything if yall do anything/if yall have done stuff! You should at least be able to trust the guy!
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Why do you wanna sneak around? Ask the guy if he wnats to give things another try. But if you do just wanna sneak around then tell him to keep what yal do on the low, and if anything comes out, the minute it does, cut that shit short.
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