Wow, 3 inches is pretty long to be putting up spikes, but that's okay. Cutting it would be a definate solution, because hey, the shorter, the easier it stays up.
I also spike my hair, and it's probably about 2-3 inches. About a week ago, I went out and got a certain hair gel. BedHead is always a good brand of hair gel, but they have a certain style called "Hard Head". It's specifically for mohawks and spikes. So it's strong as hell. The only problem is, is that it IS strong as hell. It hurts to get out. And when I say hurt, I mean it. It turns your hair like, rock hard.
If you don't mind that, then I'd suggest Hard Head. If not, then they also have another brand that I use, and I like a lot. It's called "Creative Genius". It doesn't work as well as Hard Head, but it also doesn't hurt. It also smells really good, haha.

Good luck

Hm
Well, I always like to match my eyeshadow with what I'm wearing, but I'm just a freak, lol
Most people would say match it to your eye color, because that ALWAYS makes your eyes stand out.

And MaxFactor has this little eyeshadow thing with like, BRIGHT colors in it. And I have one that has neon green, bright blue, and bright purple. If you wanna match your eyes, I would get that one. The green is really bright, too, almost yellow. So I would try something like that if I were you.

When people break up, it seems like the end of the world, even if they really did want to get out of the relationship. See, when people go into relationships, you being to become best friends with the partner, and it's like they always have your back. And when people break up, it's almost as if that friend isn't there anymore. You miss them because they were always there before, and now suddenly they're not.
Now, honestly, I didn't read the story that you posted yesterday, and I'll probably go read it after finishing this, but if all your friends said leave him, then girl, THEY love you more than he does. Friends are always there over relationships. And just imagine how it would be if one of your friends was in your situation, you'd be telling them to break up with the guy, too.
This is getting long, so what I'll end up saying is, people always miss the other person at first. But people always get over it. Everyone has been through this. So you are definately not alone. My best bet would be saying to hang out with your friends as much as possible. Get your mind off of him. Find some new eye candy if you have to, but don't think about him. It'll be so much easier that way.

Um...I actually have no idea who this is. But sure, keep believing that I do...
Anyway, I wouldn't try to move the "relationship" any further. I mean, you guys aren't even that good of friends yet. Do you even know anything about her? You should try to become closer with her before you try to make any move. Then, maybe after you get to know her, you should try it. If it doesn't happen, then it doesn't happen. But at least you tried.

How do you know her answer will be no? Can you like, read her thoughts or something?
And I mean, haven't you been dropping hints? If you haven't, then no wonder why she doesn't know.
If you're really that shy around her, then yeah, drop some hints, I guess. But I'd say just try it. You never know what you're gunna get.

Personally, I have no idea what you want to hear, so scrath out that part.
Um, well, it seems like a lot of girls like him, seeing as though he has a girlfriend, you like him, and I'm guessing that Brooke girl likes him. But he does have a girlfriend. Maybe he's doing this because he likes the attention.
Or maybe he does like you. But if he liked you more than his girlfriend, then he would've dumped her already.
If you guys are friends, then I'd hold off until he dumps the girl. That way, you don't spoil the friendship. But after she's gone, you could try all you want to get him back, if you'd like...

Make them understand how you feel about them. I mean, if they don't know, then how do you expect them to realize it, and act back? So what I advize is to tell them in the best way possible.
Oh, and don't try to get to their best friend, either. That'll just piss them off.
Hope I helped

Um...flowers, candies, maybe a little inexpensive charm bracelet.

DEFINATLY not a diamond heart necklace, for obvious reasons ;)

I'm guessing that this was Bob, and if not--then I'm screwed. But because you and Ashley haven't been together for too long, then I'd say either flowers or candies...or both, if you really want to.

Heh heh--Hey Glenn.


It's going great. Lol.

Hm, you might want to try getting back together with him. Only because I agree with you, and everyone deserves a second chance. But if he does do this to you again, then forget him. You deserve better. But, try it our again first, if you truely do love him and know that he'll respect you.

I say you talk to him about it first. Because if you really liked him, then you wouldn't wanna put him in a position where he's uncomfortable. And if he doesn't wanna do it just yet, don't force him to. But hey--chances are he will, just because he's a guy--and all guys are kind of like that.

You might not like what I have to say, but I'm going to say it anyway:
You have to get rid of that playstation. Not like, completely trash it, just maybe put it a box somewhere out of your sight. Just to keep the temptation of playing it dimmed out for a little while.
As for computer games--You have to get bored of them sometime, don't you? And even if you don't, money has to be getting tight after buying all those games, right? If that's the case, then it's not only about the grades, it's about keeping enough money to get around.
So I'd say, maybe delete some of the games that you have on your computer, just for now, just for enough time to get back in the game at school. And I mean, if you have the games, you can always download them back onto your computer after you're back up there. I'd say that may be the only way you can focus on school work again.

Hm...This one's hard. Because you hate seeing the guy that you like with another girl, it kind of deprives the brain of any thinking. I think you should tell him that you fansy him, only because life is made up of risks. I know that if I was in your spot, I'd rather be disappointed now because I told him and he MAY have let me down, than be disappointed later at knowing that I never took the chance at talling him. And who knows, he may fansy you back. It's a 50/50 chance. And just remember, he could have told you that he still had the girlfriend, but there's obviously a reason why he calls her his ex around you. So I say go for it.

I'm a girl.
My name's Airicka, if you were wondering

I say you stay friends with her. Because there's just nothing better than a great friend. And you know, if you two went out, that might break up the friendship. And then you may never be able to get it back.
The most important thing to remember is that boyfriends/girlfriends may not always be there. But friends will.

Hm, I'm in a situation much like the one you're in. I say talk to him before you tell him. Make him promise that no matter what happens, or what you have to say to him, nothing will ever break your friendship. Then tell him. Unless, of course, he doesn't promise to still be friends after you tell him. Then it doesn't seem worth it. But most likely, he'll say that he does still wanna be friends, so it should work.

Guys want what they can't have. Simple as that. Most likely when you find out that you can have them, the crush won't be as strong. It's like the hunt. It's fun to chase a rabbit then shoot it, but when it just doesn't try to run, it's not as fun. All it is is a game.

First off--Thank you very much for your kind words at the beginning.
Alright, when I used to cut, I made the mistake of telling my guidance counsler at school about it, and he sent me to a mental instatution. Yeah--don't do that. Because no matter what people tell you, I don't believe that those places do anything for you. I suggest telling your parents about it, or telling someone who can drive (ie--Older sibling or older friend) about it, so maybe they could bring you to a theropist. Theropy is a GREAT way to get over something like this, because it's just a simple way to get out all of your emotions, and at the same time, get suggestions on how to solve them.
Maybe, to help stop the cutting, you could get a stress ball. Those things are always fun. And if you get pissed at it, you could stab it with a knife or something. Just as long as your not hurting yourself or any other breathing thing. You could have like, this stuffed bear or something of that matter with a picture of a person that you hate pasted onto it, and you could stab that if you are really mad or in the mood to cut yourself. [It might sound stupid, but it's creative ;)]
If you really don't want to emotionally hurt anyone, then don't cut. Because in the long run, you'll end up hurting more people than you plan on. Especially because some cutting can lead to deaths; imagine what that'll do to them.
I hope it all works out for you!

That may bother you because you probably think that now that they're dating, they'll spend more time with eachother and less time with you. And if that's the case, then you should bring it up with them. Maybe you guys could double or something.

I believe that the only way to get over someone is to find someone else (or to find the evil in him). And seeing as though you've already found someone else, it should be a done deal, right? Yeah--It's not that easy...
I think it's good that you've found a new guy, because that keeps your mind off of the ex. But I also believe that you shouldn't ask him out right now. My reason for saying this is because if you date your new guy before you're completely over the ex, then you might compare the new guy to your ex. And comparing those two would lead to a fight, and then the whole relationship would go to hell.
So my best advice is to keep your mind set on the new guy, until you feel like you just don't care about the ex anymore. And then, ask him out. It'll give you something to do in the meantime, right?

So, I decided to start this up again after having it idlized for over 2 years. I would have made a new site, except I really like the name that I had. So yeah. Here I am now. A.Good.Lie is back.


I'm a cosmetology major. I love art. And music. And..yeah...

I'll update this later.

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