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hm nasty little crushes annyoing a 13/m
hey im a 13 male and since 6th grade (im in 8th grade now) i've been getting a few annoying crushes. so let me striaghten this. i hate having crushes. why? because they're on people that play no point in my life. 6th grade was an ok crush, at least i talked to the girl often, but 7th grade, i must have heard 20 words from the girl towards me all year, she was a tom boy and i played no point in her life, and hers in mine, though i had a crush on her. now, in 8th grade, i do believe i have yet another on a girl that hasn't said ONE word to me. dont tell me to talk to her, i just want it to go away. why am i getting crushes on girls that i havent even spoken 2. this girl is in 3 of my classes, and i dont know i just like her. like i dont even have to hear her voice and i like her. its strange, just people with a certan air about them, i favor. mods dont delete. its just bugging me. is this normal?
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ok well yes it is very normal ... in fact many ppl have crushes on ppl that they havnt talked to ... all u have to do is find some one u actually talk to and that u kno has somthin in commen with u ... not some one u kno nothing about .... if this makes any sense ... what im trying to tell u is that u either need to get to kno her ... i kno thats not what u wanted to hear and all ... but if u get to kno her u might stop liking her .... then u wont be anoyed by the crush u had on her ... and if that doesnt work just egnore her ... act as if she doewsnt exsist ... sense what ur tellin me is that u dont exsist to her ....
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Ok course it's normal. I go through it all the time. It just means yr physically attracted to her. I have a crush on this guy in my first period and i haven't talked to him yet I just like him, just cuz (by the way I'm a girl). O and this feeling will never go away. It's just something u will have to live with. U will get used to it after a while. O and it's ok to just like this girl all of a sudden. I knew this guy that had a crush on me and I thought it was annoying, but after a few yrs my feelings changed and now were going out. It will all work out in the end. Good Luck and I hope I helped u!
~*Michelle*~
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Dude...i know totally how you feel! I get those all the time! But you can't stop them....i would get crushes on these gurls my freinds always talked about...and insulted! It is very normal...either you like the way they look or their personality it will happen!! and i know there ANNOYING...but you can't really do anything. They'll come and go! just live with them...and try talking to the ppl you have the crushes on! Thats what i did and now one of the gurls i had a crush on im in love with....so just wait them out and hold on for the ride!!
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Well in short to answer your question, yes this is VERY normal. Everyone in junior high has tons of crushes! And even beyond junior high you will find yourself crushing on people that you may not even know that well or at all. It's often that we crush on people we don't know as an insecurity thing. I'm not calling you insecure, I'm just saying EVERYBODY likes poeple for some reason or another that is often unexplainable to them they don't know just because they don't have to be worried about being confronted with them. Although you saiud you don't want me to tell you to talk to this girl, I think you should...you said your crushes have usually played an insignificant role in your life, but if you want that to change than make an effort. Do whatever you need to so that you are happy. I would talk to the girl, ask her a question about homework or something to break the ice..or compliment her..You have nothing to lose..besides this is your 8th grade year, live it up..you'll get a clean slate in hs. :)
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It's perfectly normal. You're 13 -- the hormones are raging.
But it's very good that you can accept that crushes mean nothing.
It'll all go away eventually, you'll have crushes on different girls, forget about old crushes (and think: Why did I ever like her?). In about two years you'll stop having crushes and be more interested in relationships.
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yeah this is normal...if ur atracted to them...but u may need to talk to them, ull get to know em better and if u still like them then go for it, but if u dont then ur crush will be over with.
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It is in fact just puberty. All us males go through that at some stage...this is where women get the idea that all guys are just after looks, because of this one stage...and due to everyone going thru puberty at different times, women think that we're ALWAYS like this, it does get annoying. Don't worry, by 10th grade you'll be looking past the looks, and in 11 you'll start realising the looks arent everything. You just need to go through this stage like the rest of us do. You'll be fine. Good Luck mate :-)
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I believe that's called puberty.
And I want to point out that the only thing that makes me want to delete this question is the little part at the end saying "mods dont delete". So in the future do not put that in your questions.
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Guys want what they can't have. Simple as that. Most likely when you find out that you can have them, the crush won't be as strong. It's like the hunt. It's fun to chase a rabbit then shoot it, but when it just doesn't try to run, it's not as fun. All it is is a game.
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