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I'm Michelle. I'm turning 15 soon!!! I live in beautiful Florida. Ask me about almost anything and I'll answer it, except things about computers. I mean i kno like everything about them but i don't like talking about them. So ya.

*One day you'll come to me and ask me whats more important: you or my life. I'll say my life. then you'll walk away never knowing that you are my life.*

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My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
Thanks

the same thing happened to me. i was devestated. Try listening to some good music, or hang out with ur friends to get it off your mind and have a good time. the feeling won't go away for a while but keeping yourself busy with stuff can help.

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15/f I get really chapped lips, but they don't crack or anything, they just get sore and red and sometimes itchy. They flake too. So anyway, I've tried loads of different chapsticks and stuff, even blisteze which is a really good medical thing to use. It's really annoying me cuz I can't wear lip gloss or anything, plus they itch and I get red bits around my lips too. Does anybody know what's up with them?

try carmax.. my friend is ur kind of situation and it works for her so try this stuff it works like a charm!

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hi im really confused because me and my boyfriend got into this really big fight and its all because he thinks i like this other boy and i kinda do but i dont wanna hurt him by dumping him because i really like him two and theres these to other boys i also like so this makes four boys that i like i dont wanna like that many but i cant help it there all soooo hot i only want one tho what can i do to try to just like one boy???

well... make a list of all the things that each guy does (like pros and cons) and then see which one ranks the best. i have been in your situation before...just think about which one you adore the most and really like, because i mean there has to be one of them that you favor.
just IM me if you need any more help!!

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all of my friends are destructive.

friend #1-cuts and gave head.
friend #2-drank shoplifts and sneaks out of her
house
friend #3-does pot and shoplifts
friend #4-shoplifts

this is so annoying. what do i do?!i still want to be friends witht them but they're all mad @ me anyways. that's a diff. story though. help!
signed,*cAuGhT iN tHe MiDDlE*

To tell you the truth, find new friends. They rn't gonna change just cuz u don't like it. People who have to deal with this deserve better, so find some better friends who won't be so destructive. hope i helped.
~*Michelle*~

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i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?

Maybe they do notice u and they r just afraid that maybe u will reject them becuase they say ur so pretty. try just having conversation with them and u never kno maybe it will get u somewhere. Hope i helped.
~*Michelle*~

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Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this?

Well personally, I think him saying "I love u" is a little too much. If u both like each other than thats great, but i mean do u really like each other that much that u would say I love u? Maybe he's going a little too fast. if u need n e more help, just contact me.
~*Michelle*~

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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx

Definetly flirt! Flirting is a great way to attract guys and it works all the time. I'm sure there is plenty of people w/out b/f's and would probably want a g/f too. So do some flirting and see wat it brings u. Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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I just saw that movie How to Deal with mandy moor. and i have a qestion. i dont spend time with my family that much because. im never around i always on the go. and only 13. what can i do to stay away but see them?>
cuz when im around things get little diffficult.

---Manda LEe--

Every so often talk to them about something thats going on but just little things, nothing too big that they would think that yr trying to cling to them rather then just staying away and keeping up with them to stay in contact. I hope i helped.
~*Michelle*~

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Theres this boi that i like a lot .. well we went out for a month nd i knew that i loved him .. he was a really great BF nd the only reason we broke up was cause of a rumor .. well i cry sometimes over him but ive gottin better but i still cry .. i kno that i love him .. then theres this boi that i talked to nd well i found it was one of his friends nd i was talkin to him bout the boi i like nd all nd he was like i kno him nd i asked omse questions nd hes like my bff now nd we talk a lot nd hes awesome nd all but then he told the boi i like that he talked to me nd the boi that i like said awesome tell her to kall me .. nd i was on the computer nd he got on nd i get scared wen it ocmes to tlakin to him cause i never kno if i should or not cause he might be busy or not wana talk to me or w.e but he didnt say anything to me nd now im afraid to kall nd i need help on whether i should or not .. please help i rate !!

[ cOn FuSeD ]

Call! Go for it! It's ok to be scared, just take those chances and well, it will turn out good in the end. Have fun!
~*Michelle*~

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sometimes i feel like i feel things to much. not physically, emotionally. i feel like some things have bigger inpacts on me than they do on others. i dont know. it really bothers me sometimes. i just want to know if this is normal, and if it happens with other certain people. you've probably guessed it, but im sensitive. i mean i don cry all the time, but you know sometimes i will. like maybe one every 4 or 5 months. at least recently things have been good for me so it has been a long time. i dont know i think i sound like im coming off as something im not. i have a bunch of friends, and i think it might sound like im a weak im not today i had a soccer game i play dirty i dont really care i tripped to or 3 different people and i can do it in a way i dont get called for it. so im not i guess you would call it the classic nerd. so am i normal or what? im not going to rate you. if you really care about the advice, you wont care about it if i give you a 5 or a 1

Yes there are peopple just like u and I am one of them. I am sensitive and I do cry every once and a while just cuz i am emotional person. I mean I have a really dirty side of me but I also have a sensitive side. Personally I think all people have a sensitive side, it's just some people express it in different ways. So ya, it's plenty normal!
~*Michelle*~

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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out

Well try and make yr moves slowly so u don't freak him out. but ya go for it! Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

whenever u talk with them next time, just say in a serious tone, that it was nothing and u would like them to just drop it.
~*Michelle*~

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When I logged on it said I had 1 thing in my Inbox so I clicked then when it loaded it said that I didn't have any unanswered questions. So does that mean I don't have any questions or it is a mistake with the site?

The site just probably went through some kinda of error.
~*Michelle*~

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okay its long but please help ..
i've been talking to this guy i kno from school for like a year now and he asked if i wanna hangout with him sumtime and i said yea but for like a week we were both busy .. this new girl came from rhode island and she got people screen names and started to talk to them and stuff .. she talked to him and was like do u wanna hangout sumtime (( like just as friends) .. but he fell for her .. they didnt go out tho ,, now school started and she doesnt like him anymore but i dont kno if he still likes her becaus we still talk .. i am really confused and i keep telling myself to just ask but i dont wanna ruin anything between us if we're just friends .. i really like him .. what do i do ? =( please help me

well try to somehow tell him yr feelings through body language. Maybe he will get the hint and realize and u never kno things could happen. I hope it works out!
~*Michelle*~

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Last year I met this amazing guy. We never went out, but i knew he liked me. We had a lot of fun together in class. This year he is in none of my classes. On the first day of school at lunch, our eyes met for 2 seconds. I felt so hurt. Then this year my friend told him I liked him. He said "Yeah I thought she liked me" He is hanging out with a guy who smoked pot last year. I'm afraid the guy I like will start it too, but I know he isn't into that and never will be. Lately I've been having so many dreams about him. I thought he was just a crush and I would get over him, but I can't. He means more to me than any guy has before. Should I forget him or keep on trying?

That ones hard to say. Wait until something happens and u will just know wat the right thing to do is. I have been in the exact situation as u r. So i kno how u feel. let time tell wat will happen next. it works out most of the time.
good luck!
~*Michelle*~

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[Sorry about the lengh, but I need some advice=)}About a year and a half ago, I met a guy who changed my life. When one of my best friends introduced us, I didn't really think anything of it. We hardly ever saw eachother, but talked often and had the most deep, intriguing conversations that would last for hours on end. We had a connection, somthing I had never felt before...but there, of course, was a problem...He lived an hour away. We were 14 at the time, and, me , being an only child, continued to be extremley protected by my parents when it came to dating. I saw him literally once every 6 months, and it would always be someplace public, with each one of our friends involved. A year later, and a year older, my parents agreed to take me out there for a few hours so we could finnaly be together. After that visit, we started seeing eachother more and more often, and our love grew stronger and stronger. My parents started allowing me to spend the night, and I have made so many new, interesting friends. The summer, amazing, every weekend me and him would spend together. Now that school started again, it came to realization that we have different lives, and a lot of things are going to interfere with our relationship. I am in love, and every minute i spend thinking about him...but I'm afraid that our distance, even if it is only an hour away, is going to damage our connecton. I see couples in the hallway at school, around town, and other places, and it makes me so depressed, I never take any time spent with him for granite. Some people really don't know how lucky they are to have such a great person becasue they're always with them. So I guess my question is, how do I keep this relationship strong, despite the fact that I am not around to see his actions. I mean, I trust him, and he trusts me, but all the girls I know from his town love him. He's a ladies man and I am so very jelous. I wish i could do somthing, but he always brings up how far away i am, thats why we held off going steady until the summer....please i really need some intelligent advice.

Thank you for reading this...

Hey Girl. Well this story kind of reminds me of my parents when they met. They were really far apart and didn't see each other that much but after they got out of high skool they moved in together and now they're married. So u never know wat the future might hold. I do understand where yr coming from when u say he is a ladies man and yr jealous. I would be too. It's true, It's hard to have a distant relationship but if yr love is strong enough, the bond between u guys will stay forever. O and to maybe try see wat some of his norm,al actions are, is to talk to some of his everyday friends. O has he told those girls that he has a girlfriend? cuz maybe they don't know, and think that they still have a chance with him. Ask him. Talk to him about where he thinks the relationship is going and see if that helps any bit. Well if u need n e more help, just contact me. My contacts are in my column. Good Luck and I hope it all works out!
~*Michelle*~

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well.. I'm finally with Kevin. We've been together a little over 2 weeks. The more I'm with him. The more I fall in love with him. and I'm really comfortable around him. and I really love him. I don't know what to do. because like in school we hardly see each other. Im a senior.. and hes a freshman. hes suppose to be a Sophomore but he got in a lot of trouble. But yeah ne way.. we see each other in the hall way.. and we say hi.. but thats about it.. Then after school he has football practice. Then after that he goes with his friend.. and I absolutley hate him. It seems like he never has time for me.. and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night. and Tonight is the first night I havent been with him or talked to him. and he tells me all the time he loves me.. but.. I'm afraid hes... I dunno.. falling outta love with me.. or planning to break up with him.. What should I do? I really dont want to lose him. I really do care about him alot.. :( Help someone!!

Sorry soo long.

Hey Girl! Try sitting him down and talking to him or call him on the phone and ask him where he thinks the relationship is going. Tell him u don't mean it in a bad way, just that u want to know his feelings. Make sure to tell him how u really feel, u know, like not just saying I love u cuz thats just wat people say when they r going out with someone, but like u really mean it. My contact info is in my column if u need n e more help with this situation. Good Luck and I hope everything goes well for u two!
~*Michelle*~

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OK guys.. A really cute guy likes me and invited me to go to his football game tomorrow since he's one of the starting players. I know to cheer for the team and when he does good, etc.. But I dunno if I'd be able to see him after the game. I want to see him but I don't want to wait around for him if he only wanted me to be there for support. So should I wait for him or just leave after the game ?

Well if he invited u wait for him after the game and then complement him on his good plays. Plus if he likes u, I'm sure he would want to see u and ask u how he did after the game. So have fun!
~*Michelle*~

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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months?

It depends on if yr good with pain or not. It has a stinging feeling fer like a few seconds and then it just kind of gets soar. After u sleep on it the pain will be gone. On the scale, the first few seconds is like an 8, but then it's only like a 3 or 4. Then the next day it's gone. If u don't mind the pain the first time go ahead and get it the second time. Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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hey im a 13 male and since 6th grade (im in 8th grade now) i've been getting a few annoying crushes. so let me striaghten this. i hate having crushes. why? because they're on people that play no point in my life. 6th grade was an ok crush, at least i talked to the girl often, but 7th grade, i must have heard 20 words from the girl towards me all year, she was a tom boy and i played no point in her life, and hers in mine, though i had a crush on her. now, in 8th grade, i do believe i have yet another on a girl that hasn't said ONE word to me. dont tell me to talk to her, i just want it to go away. why am i getting crushes on girls that i havent even spoken 2. this girl is in 3 of my classes, and i dont know i just like her. like i dont even have to hear her voice and i like her. its strange, just people with a certan air about them, i favor. mods dont delete. its just bugging me. is this normal?

Ok course it's normal. I go through it all the time. It just means yr physically attracted to her. I have a crush on this guy in my first period and i haven't talked to him yet I just like him, just cuz (by the way I'm a girl). O and this feeling will never go away. It's just something u will have to live with. U will get used to it after a while. O and it's ok to just like this girl all of a sudden. I knew this guy that had a crush on me and I thought it was annoying, but after a few yrs my feelings changed and now were going out. It will all work out in the end. Good Luck and I hope I helped u!
~*Michelle*~

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