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destructive friends
all of my friends are destructive.
friend #1-cuts and gave head.
friend #2-drank shoplifts and sneaks out of her
house
friend #3-does pot and shoplifts
friend #4-shoplifts
this is so annoying. what do i do?!i still want to be friends witht them but they're all mad @ me anyways. that's a diff. story though. help!
signed,*cAuGhT iN tHe MiDDlE*
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You dont want to be hanging out with criminals! { well not number 1} Why would you want to be friends with shoplifters? And why would you want to hang out with someone who does pot, YOU COULD GET IN SERIOUS TROUBLE BEING BY HIM/HER WHILE SHE DOES POT!!!!!Think about it...
~Brina~
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giving head isnt destructive n neither is sneaking out. but off that subject if u dont like wat ur friends are doing maybe u shoodnt b friends wth them
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woah..all your friends might end up in jail or grounded for life...
Sorry but all that the are doing is ONLY going to get them in super big trouble...
To me..i hate to get in trouble..the only person i end up hurting is me...
So you have a decsion..either hang out wiht these guys who will someday...get YOU in trouble too..or make new friends...
i know this is hard...I wish i had an easy answer for you..you have to decide what is more important their toxic friendship or you not getting in trouble.
Am thinking of you....
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watch the movie thirteen then youll regret being friends with these people
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you can still be friends with them but get other friends too...and if you dont want to be like that then if they decide to do that stuff when you are around be like no i dont do that stuff and leave...soon they will figure out not to do that around you and maybe some day you can help to get them to stop
good luck
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dont completely STOP being friends with them.. but i would say to become better friends with ur just 'ok' friends if you know what i mean..still say hi to ur old friends and everything but dont be caught dead doing any of that!!--rachael
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let them know that your not interested in the things that they do but you still want to be there friend
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get new friends that dont do bad stuff
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To tell you the truth, find new friends. They rn't gonna change just cuz u don't like it. People who have to deal with this deserve better, so find some better friends who won't be so destructive. hope i helped.
~*Michelle*~
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well... ur a teenager right? this is pretty normal... drinking, hooking up with guys shoplifting etc... but then again... i totally know where ur coming from..! u want 2 remain friends.... bUUuUUt.... u dont agree with what they are doing. talk 2 ur friends and tell them how u feel. in 9th grade i used 2 shoplift all the time... like unbelievely... i would go 2-3 times a week to the mall of america and get tONnNNs of stuff! my best friend had a face 2 face talk with me and told me that it was wrong and i shouldnt do it... cuz she dosent agree with it... and it makes her uncomfortable but she still wants 2 be friends... i totally took it seriously and stopped almost immediatley... because if their actually ur friends... they will stop/get help or whatever! GoOd LuCk!
xOxO aLeX
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Well, everyone has something wrong that they do like a small white lie that can't get out, but if there is no way that they will change, yuu just have to get over it and live with it or just make new friends. Otherwise, get them some help and see if they change at all. Good luck. Hope ii helped.
xOxO . Katie
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