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Worried f/17 sorry its so long
I don't get it. My best friend we'll call her Jane, is insane nowadays. She used to be like this dork that went to church every Sunday and was so nice and sweet to everyone. Now shes off giving head to every guy she sees and flipping out in class when she doesnt understand what the teacher is saying! She doesn't make sense. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just won't listen. She's crazy now and not too fun to be around. I hate the person she's become. Now she drinks, smokes, and does pot. I HATE IT. I mean i don't like any of that but i don't dislike people because they do but Jane....she pisses me off. Every time I talk to her it seems like she's either flipping out about something or crying about how "terrible" her life is. I just want to like leave her and not be friends with her but i know that this is the time where she probably needs a friend the most. I've been beside her through everything and she thanks me all the time but then turns around and flips out on me. I can't stand her anymore and I don't know what to do. Right now im Just lokking forward to graduation to get away from her. I know it sounds mean but im really not mean, just wicked desperate. Please help me figure out what to do.
-Melanie
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Shes mad at someone or something and shes acting out. All she wants is love. And the only way she can get love is if she does stuff to guys. Well thats what she thinks. Shes doing these things to escape all her problems...she needs to talk to her pastor/priest or a counselor. Thats the only way she'll get better. Tell her about talking to someone and go with her to the meetings or whatever so she has support.
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Hey Melaine .. wow im really sorry to hear about that. People change and it really sucks. Your right this is the time where "Jane" needs you the most. You should have a girls night and just talk with her about it and tell her that you still want to be friends with her but you dont know what to do! If it doesnt change she should talk to someone like a counselor or someone else if its enough. Its hard but in the end she will appreciate you for helping her. If you need anymore advice on this just IM me on xsunkiszed3x or post on my advice column. Hope I helped and hope this leaves one in the inbox!
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Well this Jane girl is a real freak....ok well try to sit her down or get her alone on like a weekend or something and tell her whats up. If it dont work then i wouldnt walk away from her i would go and get help for her b/c it sound like she needs it. Dont get her like mental help but mayb u could tell her parents and let them know but thats a bit embarrasing to her. Or get a counsler....not a school one b/c they will tell the parents b/c she is harming herself or w/e. soo...get someone to talk to that knows what their doing and mayb telling her parents is the right thing. Do it now before it gets ever worse....and ik she pisses you off but just stick with her to get her help.
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