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SORRY ITS SO LONG.. BUT I'LL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.
ok so my ex ((james)) broke up with me in April and we had been going out for 4 months.. i really liked him alot.. he was probably the one guy i liked the most.. well i really missed him for a while and i would talk to him online and we'd be friends.. but then he started to become popular and snobby to me... then we were fighting and he called me a slut.. so i blocked him and he's been blocked.. and now its summer and i never see him or talk to him.. but i still have feelings for him.. i mean i don't like him as much as i used to but thinking of him makes me sad and i miss him.. i can't tell if i really still like him.. but i wanna hate him so badly!.. so then i have my other ex boyfriend ((pete)) who i broke up with in novemeber.. and he's still in love with me.. he really likes me a lot.. and he's such a sweet guy with a great personality and he always makes me laugh.. so here's the deal.. whenever i see pete.. i like him.. but then a few days after i see him im like.. well i don't know if i like him.. but he's like the perfect guy for me.. but there's not a big spark.. so my questions are.. do you think i still like my ex james??.. do you think i should give pete another chance and go out with him??.. and what can i do to get over james quicker?? sry its longg (link)
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It seems like James has moved on...remember hes the one that broke up with you and then he became popular and called you a slut. Now that is not what a boyfriend or even a friend should do. You still have feelings for him and they cant just "go away" but to help the situation you should look into Pete and other guys.
Pete sounds like a really nice boy but remember no one is perfect. If you still have feelings for Pete then i think you should give him another chance, but if not then its time to move on.
Dont think about James as your ex boyfriend...think of him as the guy who called you a slut. If the choice was between James and Pete you should deff go with Pete. But dont forget to keep your options open to other guys too. A sexy guy just might come into your life.
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If i walk 1 mile a day and do about 100 crunches a day, how long till i see or feel a difference? (link)
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Walking a mile and 100 crunches isnt much of a variety. Try jogging the mile and then work up to 2 miles and go a little faster. Crunches are a different story...a regular crunch only works your upper abs. If you looking to flatten your stomach then do different ab workouts. You could try the leg lift, flutter kick, and backward crunches to work different muscles and flatten your stomach.
you DONT need to eat less. Never stop eating or eat less to lose weight or look better b/c when u eat less you body realizes its not getting the normal amount of food and starts to store the food you eat as fat...and once you start eating normal again you body wont be use to it and it will store all of that food and you will gain weight.And also eat healthy...like lay off on the fattening stuff and eat fruit for sweets.
If you want to tone your whole body you could also do some pushups and squats too. Its always good to keep your heart beating fast so you could also do some cardio workouts like on machines or something..
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You see, I'm developing feeelings for this guy who lives near my friends place. Whenever I'm around him, I act like a fool. My friends (girls) can do sporty things he does, but I totally cant. I think he refers to me as "girly", which I am. But I feel left out when I'm with them. I can't run as fast as they do, and I really don't know what to do. I won't be going to my friends place anymore, so I don't know how I can talk 2 the guy who lives near her. I want him 2 like me, but I feel so ashamed to even see him again. What do I do?
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start talking to him little by little and let him know you like him...but just be calm and not all laughy and such...be normal just not crazy.
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I don't get it. My best friend we'll call her Jane, is insane nowadays. She used to be like this dork that went to church every Sunday and was so nice and sweet to everyone. Now shes off giving head to every guy she sees and flipping out in class when she doesnt understand what the teacher is saying! She doesn't make sense. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just won't listen. She's crazy now and not too fun to be around. I hate the person she's become. Now she drinks, smokes, and does pot. I HATE IT. I mean i don't like any of that but i don't dislike people because they do but Jane....she pisses me off. Every time I talk to her it seems like she's either flipping out about something or crying about how "terrible" her life is. I just want to like leave her and not be friends with her but i know that this is the time where she probably needs a friend the most. I've been beside her through everything and she thanks me all the time but then turns around and flips out on me. I can't stand her anymore and I don't know what to do. Right now im Just lokking forward to graduation to get away from her. I know it sounds mean but im really not mean, just wicked desperate. Please help me figure out what to do.
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Well this Jane girl is a real freak....ok well try to sit her down or get her alone on like a weekend or something and tell her whats up. If it dont work then i wouldnt walk away from her i would go and get help for her b/c it sound like she needs it. Dont get her like mental help but mayb u could tell her parents and let them know but thats a bit embarrasing to her. Or get a counsler....not a school one b/c they will tell the parents b/c she is harming herself or w/e. soo...get someone to talk to that knows what their doing and mayb telling her parents is the right thing. Do it now before it gets ever worse....and ik she pisses you off but just stick with her to get her help.
*lola
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I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate! (link)
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you could try these....take 2 tylenol when they hurt...stretch rite after you run and when you get home everyday because that helps the muscles you worked out....eat healthy and drink a lot before you run to keep hydrated.....on days that you have off dont sit around do a little jog and some other stuff so your muscles dont tighten up again.
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ok im going into 9th grade and im trying out for varsity...we already had one tryout and i didnt do very well i dont think...i need to be tougher going to the ball....any suggestions??? im a fast learner and im willing to work hard! leave your AIM sn if u can help and also leave advice!! (link)
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ive been playing since i was 7 so yhis is my advice....
1)want the ball and don't wait for it, be first to it
2)be aggresive but use your skills instead of your pushing.
3)make your shots on goal frequent and accurate.
4)also create space by moving into open areas.
5)call for the ball and COMMUNICATE..coaches love it. Say things like i got ball, drop, square, hold, cross, through.....
6)be a part of the team..dont be a outcast so that they know you'll be comfortable on the team
7)keep the ball on the ground with controlled passes.
8)work on juggling and nice tricks and show them off....
hope i helped...
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okay, this is a weird ? but here goes, i shave um..down low now but i have to wait at least 5 days before i can shave it again cuz if you dont it hurts, razor burn, lil bumps from infected hair folicles, grows back faster, you can see the hair under skin, etc. anyways i want to wax or something so it will stay smooth for a good while, but i dont have the $$ to do it professionally and thats kinda embarrassing so what should i do? i was gonna try veet but it says dont use down there so..and i could get wax and do it myself but will that work and how much will it hurt and stuff like that?? thanx! (link)
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i wax down there and after a while it doesn't hurt anymore. I tried doing it myself and it didnt really work as well. Go somewhere to get it done and dont worry. If you find you dont wanna wax then get a new (sharp) razor and shaving cream. But before you shave was with an antobacterial soap. You could wash twice a day (it works better). Good luck.
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Okay, i liked this boy right. And he supposedly "used" to like me too [thats what his friends all told me] cuz we used to flirt cuz our lockers are right next to one another. But anyway, i went to this party with one of my best friends and she was like "are you gunna talk to him??" and i was going to and i could hear his friends all saying when i got there "go talk to her!!" but i dont know what he said. But anyway, later on at the party him and a different one of my friends were hanging out a lot and ontop of one another [not literally] and stuff. And they ended up going out. I didnt talk to him for a while but im talking to him now like normally. But i kinda never gave up liking him. Now him and this girl broke up about 2 weeks later [no surprise there] but i kinda still like him. But i dont know what to do? (link)
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well you could go out with him if u want. Or you could hide your feelings and not go out with him. He did kind of diss you by going out with another girl but if your still crazy for him then find out how he feels.
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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused. (link)
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well you could wait and give their relatioship time but when they do break up Lori mite get pissed if you go out with Bob. If they dont break up i say move on and stop waiting. Theirs plenty of guys out there.
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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ? (link)
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pubic hair is not attractive to guys so i would say yes shave it but not all of it. If you really dont want to then trim it shorter. When you do shave tho you might see red bumps appear. If that happens then get a new razor blade and also wash the area with antibacterial soap b/c the bacterial gets into where the hair grows and it gets infected. Good luck.
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Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!
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well i say that he is a jerk and i guess he doesn't want to get to know you. If your really want to still get to know him then do it when his friends aren't around and yours are so that if he does it again you have back up. He probably did it because he was trying to impress his friends, he heard something about you, or he has a girlfriends and thinks your trying to hook up with him. If i were you i would stay clear away from that ass and find more friends. And yes it does hurt but just try to forget it b/c there are some people that think they are so cool b/c they can diss you but they are just immature. If the same situation happenns and you have no back up and he does then eather get right back at him with a lot of shit or just walk away and tell him to grow up.
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i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people? (link)
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you can meet new people anywhere. Getting a job would keep you busy and you could meet new people there to hang with. If you live on a crowded street you could hang out with them. You only say you have a few real friends but mayb you could hangout with your non real friends and get to know them better than before. It is hard to introduce yerself to ppl but thats how to have fun.
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Okay Today I went off on my friends because I thought they were going to say "you are copying us" because they do this and i wanted to so i said i have wanted to do this since i was in 4th grade and i am not copying you. so now they are mad at me and i really wish that they werent. they think i copy them and that I do not know how to deal with people and that i am stupid well at least right now that they are mad at me....
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you shouldn't have went off on them so say sorry. The reasons they are mad at you for like copying them and being stupid are gay reasons. Say your sorry and when your friends then tell them its not 2nd grade so dont get mad at me for "copying you", but say it in a nice way.
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