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well.. I'm finally with Kevin. We've been together a little over 2 weeks. The more I'm with him. The more I fall in love with him. and I'm really comfortable around him. and I really love him. I don't know what to do. because like in school we hardly see each other. Im a senior.. and hes a freshman. hes suppose to be a Sophomore but he got in a lot of trouble. But yeah ne way.. we see each other in the hall way.. and we say hi.. but thats about it.. Then after school he has football practice. Then after that he goes with his friend.. and I absolutley hate him. It seems like he never has time for me.. and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night. and Tonight is the first night I havent been with him or talked to him. and he tells me all the time he loves me.. but.. I'm afraid hes... I dunno.. falling outta love with me.. or planning to break up with him.. What should I do? I really dont want to lose him. I really do care about him alot.. :( Help someone!!
Sorry soo long.
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call him up or when you are with him one night ask him where he sees your relationship going. tell him how you feel. pretty much everything you just told me. tell him how you dont want to loose him and how your afraid that he will break up with you. if he does love you like he says he does then he will understand. and then just try to make more plans woth him more often. But it is only one night he wasnt with you. Its no big. So i hope this has helped you. if yu need anything else, drop one in my inbox. Good Luck to ya hun!
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Hey Girl! Try sitting him down and talking to him or call him on the phone and ask him where he thinks the relationship is going. Tell him u don't mean it in a bad way, just that u want to know his feelings. Make sure to tell him how u really feel, u know, like not just saying I love u cuz thats just wat people say when they r going out with someone, but like u really mean it. My contact info is in my column if u need n e more help with this situation. Good Luck and I hope everything goes well for u two!
~*Michelle*~
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You are making yourself think you love him too soon. Give yourself some space, you sound cluttered with feelings. Maybe staying with him isn't good for you, making you stress so much. See where it goes, and if nothing improves, I advise to end it.
Good luck!
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You two need to spend more quality time together, to bond. No time together=no relationship. I know that you don't get much time, but when you see him in the hallway or something, pull him aside and ask if you can hang out. When you DO hang out, tell him you want to spend more time with him. Also, a way to show him you love him, go to one of his football practices and cheer for him!! Or even just go to watch him. Just ask him if maybe he could split the time after football between you and his friend. Ya just need to talk to him hunn!
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From what it sounds like, it's the same as most guys. Guy's just have trouble handling everything, and just because we go and have football practice or go out with a mate doesn't mean we're falling in love. You need to accept that he has a life of his own, you've only been together for 2 weeks, he's just trying to do everything, after a little while longer he'll realise that he can't and you'll see each other alot more. Don't worry, this is just a normal start to a relationship, it'll get better. Good Luck :-) (P.S. If you always talk, then he isnt falling out of love for you)
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SOunds like he likes U though OR loves u u know I may not be like any help because hello stupid 14 year old but O well its ok Ask him about it Or go to one of his pratices and wacth him then hang out with him afterwards or something
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"and I really love him" ... "and I absolutley hate him" ... "It seems like he never has time for me" ... "and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night"
ok... you love him, but you absolutely hate him. He never has time for you, but you are with him most every night?
I'm just dumbfounded with this deep love that you think you have after two weeks with the guy that you absolutely hate.
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