Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 12:09 pm
well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx
FloridaBabe answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:45 pm: Definetly flirt! Flirting is a great way to attract guys and it works all the time. I'm sure there is plenty of people w/out b/f's and would probably want a g/f too. So do some flirting and see wat it brings u. Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~ [ FloridaBabe's advice column | Ask FloridaBabe A Question ]
Bethers5143 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 5:24 pm: ok. im sure some guy likes you, hes just too shy to talk to you. even guys with girlfriends may like you. just make guys notice you..like go buy your fav perfume and wear it. (Lucky and Love Spell are GREAT!) wear make up that brings your eyes out and shake yo @$$, and when you wear your hair down, always play with it a lot (like twist it around your finger or flip it back)make sure you smile a lot!! talk to all of the guys! and start hangin out with them! ull have a guy before you know it! go gurl. keep me updated! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
jetaime answered Saturday September 18 2004, 4:20 pm: Personality is the sexiest thing, if you have really low self esteem or no confidence guys see that and it sends them in the other direction. You have to love yourself before someone can love you. If you have a great personality guys will fall in love with that. [ jetaime's advice column | Ask jetaime A Question ]
imbad90 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:37 pm: Oh my gosh, that is so weird. I feel like that too, I am like, "why does everyone else have a boyfriend, and no one has even asked me out?!" I am in highschool, so ya know... But, if you want guys to pay attention to you, just be yourself. If there is a particualr guy that you have your eye on, just say hi to him. Because that tells him that you're interseted in him. Well, good luck! [ imbad90's advice column | Ask imbad90 A Question ]
osiris-kitty answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:28 pm: Dear Guest,
Well, it took me time to translate this into normal grammar and spelling, but I finally did it. Okay. Here I go. Yes, everybody seems to have a boyfriend. Being a despie drives guys away! Trust me, you don't need a boyfriend. If you did, you would have one. I'm 13 and I'm happy being single. Heck, my 19-year-old cousin is happy to be single! You only need a boyfriend if a guy likes you. I know a guy who likes me, and I'm a little interested also. That would be my only chance at getting a boyfriend. As for you being 'not exactly pretty,' I wouldn't suggest slathering on a bunch of makeup. That just doesn't look good. For attracting some nice, confident, and calm guys, I tried for myself a very pale purple lipstick and black eyeshadow. It's kind of a yin-yang thing. You can also try a black lipstick and pale purple/blue/pink eyeshadow. It kind of leaves an "I don't care what people think about me, I'm being myself!"
Good luck,
Osiris
P.S. Don't call your BFF ugly. That's just rude. [ osiris-kitty's advice column | Ask osiris-kitty A Question ]
coolblue1014 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 1:31 pm: well first of all you never want them to see that your despret or too needy, calm down and be ur self. smile alot no one wants ome one who acts like a looser so be a winner smile andlaugh alot they will notice your beautiful smile. in time you will have a line of guys waiting for a date with you. good luck
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Short_N_Punky answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:48 pm: Just be yourself. I ts a proven fact that not most guys look for a gurl because of looks and if they do thern there only wanting sex. They look for personality and how pretty there smile is! so give it some time and youll get one. And hell like you for you dont be someone your not. Thats just not attractive. Well hope iv helped a little good luck and dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
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MissIiVannaH answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:45 pm: I know what your going through thats the same exact thing with me.And dont say that ur bff is ugly cause she's most likely not if she has a hott bf but i bet u arnt either.but if u dont have a bf then y dont u try to make friends with guys that are single or even have gf but be friends and if every thing goes well then start saying something or show that ur interested.well i hope i helped good luck! [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
AnDiE answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:40 pm: hMm.. well.. okay.. l0l.. i asked one of mai guy friends *hoos FrEaKyN fYnE* and he saiidd.. "someone who is hot and a nice personalily and thats a virging..and that doenst do drugs..unless the guy does drug.. then is ok" l0l.. so yeahh.. :D [ AnDiE's advice column | Ask AnDiE A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:37 pm: OMG gurl you shuld be more confident in yourself. wake up every morning and say im beautiful and i dont need a guy 2 tell me that! guys only bring heartbreak newayz but if you say a hott guy or whatever go up to him and start a convo! ;) hope I helped! [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:18 pm: When you're walking down the hall, just compliment a guy that you think is attractive and hot. Just be confident and be yourself. Guys like that. When you are talking to a guy, flirt with him! Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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