Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 12:10 pm
Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.
Before I left the game.. I asked him if he wanted to go to our school's homecoming dance with me. He said yes to me.
During the car ride home.. my friend told me I shouldnt go with him because he is white trash. She probably knows him better than I do.. but I really like him. Should I listen to her and tell him I dont want to go to the dance. or go with him and get to know him better?
karlyndarlin05 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 6:01 pm: well i think that your freind might be a lil jealous...just go to the dance with him, and if he turns out to be a jerk, then break up with him or what ever...and make sure that if he does turn out to be a jerk that you apologize to your friend and tell her that she was right [ karlyndarlin05's advice column | Ask karlyndarlin05 A Question ]
Bethers5143 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 5:20 pm: ok..first of all she is jeleous. that is obvious! second of all..u dont need to let her tell you that you could do better than anybody..u may be able to do better then him, but if you like him, go for it, because nobody said you were gonna be with him forever. it may turn out to love, just to be as friends, or yall may never talk again. so either way..dont listen to her! keep me updated! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:03 pm: i think that you should still go with him to the dance. if you really like him, you cant just change your feelings. its not quite that simple. She isprolly just trying to protect you tho. so take her words to heart and just go to have fun! [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
mehbe she thot you wouldnt reallie go for the guy and got upset/jealous wen she saw the two of you makin out and stuff...she could be hiding somethin or something like that...you should go talk to her and ask her...itll prolly help...ya noe?
MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:34 pm: It sounds like your friend is jealous to me. After all, SHE IS the one that wanted 2 hook yall up! I'd say you like the guy then go out with him!
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manda44 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:33 pm: you know some things u need to find out for urself. maybe ur friend still likes him.. or maybe shes just looking out for you bc hes not all that greaet. but maybe hes grown up a bit in his actions that hes not who he used to be. but personally i think u might just have to find out for yourself what this guy is like. [ manda44's advice column | Ask manda44 A Question ]
AnDiE answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:30 pm: oMg!! oMg!! oMg!! thats tha saaame thyng that happened to me.. okay.. mai friend was tryin to hook me up with her ex.. and i did.. and then after i did.. she was tellin me how horrible he is.. and how he was probably cheating on me.. and all that CRAP.. and so.. you kno... i figured she was mai best friend.. and she knew him better... so.. i shuud listen to her.. sooo.. i broke up with him.. well.. it turns out that she was full of crap because like.. a month later.. she was goin bak out with him.. so.. i thynk that u shuud give him a chance and not listen to ur friend.. cuz if she tried to hook you up with him in tha first place.. then he cant be that bad... she prolly just is jelous.. so.. yeah.. dunn worry bout what she said :-D!!
Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:18 pm: Maybe its jealousy. Even though she was trying to set you up I bet she didnt actually think it was going to happen. So shes just mad. It'll take a while but she'll get over it. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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