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hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
luv jess (link)
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hey Jess,
you could say something like this:
[his name here], can i talk to you, I 've heard things and I'm a little confused. can you be COMPLETLY honost.. Have you been seeing another girl? I'm not mad, we just need to figure this out..
then take it from ther i hope i helped
JAckie
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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean? (link)
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Lets see your crush is still in to you, subconciously. He still cares about you, He wants to know more about your life. No effence or anything and I dont know him or anything but maybe if hes a little crazy over you n u wont take him back maybe he wonts to kill you along with your crush? stay away from him a little bit at a time dont take it too quickly, he might figure somethings up.
I hoped I helped Xox
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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months? (link)
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hey, dont worry about it it dosent hurt alot at all! its like a 2 dont worry it feels like a pinch for like a minute go for the duble percing, (dont forget to twist the eerigns while theyr in and dabb rubbing alcahaul o them occasionally, i have two earings one on the bottom one at the top its cool, youll look great go for it giirl!
hope i helped =)
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Hey glad u liked my advice, i edited the answer with tips on hair on the bottom so if u didnt read it already..read it (link)
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o ok i didnt see that, u just imed me so ill talk to u there bye
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Ron just asked me to go to the movies with him and his friend, Alex. Im bringin my friend Cayla too, so its like a double date. But Cayla doesnt like Alex and I think she's a little jealous of me and Ron. SOo0 should I say anythin to her or just wait n see if she likes Alex ? (link)
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you dont have to make it seem like a date to her, just a group of friend going out for fun but you can still have fun and "date" ron while ur friend is hanging out with alex.its a win win situation cut if u dont like that idea leve a message in my in box
hope i helped please rate me : )
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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx (link)
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well first of all you never want them to see that your despret or too needy, calm down and be ur self. smile alot no one wants ome one who acts like a looser so be a winner smile andlaugh alot they will notice your beautiful smile. in time you will have a line of guys waiting for a date with you. good luck
if thers anything else u need or any questions put one in my inbox! :) please rate me
hope i helped
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I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help (link)
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ok, since he was your first love and u were his, your bond can get really tight but you guys have to work on it. sit him down and talk to him about what he did and what he can do to redeem your love(pay back!!!) them lay down some ground rules and finally forgive him. by the way u describe your compassion twards eachother it wwill work out, try not to let you eyes off him for too long in the beginning, and let other giirlls know hes your and to mback off. defent whats yours you can do it
you go giirl!
hope i helped good luck :)
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Well, ive been a cutter for about..1/2 a year now. And i cut on my wrist..(i was pissed) and i went out without my wrist band on, and i think my mom saw! what if she sends me away to a mental hospital!?
Please help!
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aw honey are you okay?
its gonna be okay just calm down take two deep breaths. just sit down and talk to her about it im sure she will understand. She prabably wont send you to a mental instatuttian, the worst shell do is a counceler for the both of you to sit down and discuss why you are getting angry or "pissed" this is a healthy way to vent all of your problems, dont stress about it you are gonna be okay!
hope i helped good luck :)
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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
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you go giirl!!!
make the first move there is no use for you both to be shy, if you like him that much there is no shame on acting on it! ahow him what your made of. This way you can finally control your relationship, it will go at your pase. you DOnt even need get his friend involved anymor its up to u, go get 'em giirl!
hope i helpes:) please rate me
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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my ex boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!
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Hey girl, I know what you mean. It's a great feeling to be with him. But you need to try to be strong. You don't need him! When ever you think you want to be with him, remember the pain that he caused you when you realized he cheeted. Find some one who will treet you.
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what should i do, my best friend has a new one. I'm afraid that I'm eing replaced. What should I do? (link)
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here we go, if ur a friad you are getting replaced by your best friend think to your self are they spending enouogh time with me? if you think you could do better dont totally diss your "bestfriend" just find a few other people to hang around with when she is busy. also try to get your self invited or perpose that all three of you could hang out together so as no one is left out.
hope i helped
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hey i was wondering..im home alone and i just got my period..how do i handle it?..sry this is a really embarrising ?...=( (link)
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o hunny this is your first time right?
all you have to do if get a pad or tampon, i sigjust a pad for your first time(im sure your mom or a big sis has some located in the bathroom) dont worry everything will be okay if u have anymore questions leve one in my box or instand message me at coolblue1014 hope i helped :) good luck and congradulations
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Its almost 1 year for me and my bf and I have noo clue what to get him. Hes 14. Any suggestions? (link)
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ok, here we go, you have had quite a while to get to know him and his hobbies, i know they change but try to find his longest lasting intrest. He may have hinted what he wants somewhere along th way and its your job to pick that up. If he likes football take him to a game if hes into vidiogames take him to the arcade ur treat and let him play to his hearts desire.
hope it helped:)
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My apartment is really dust. I'll vacume and dust my coffee table, and 10 minutes later there is a thin layer of dust again. I don't like the idea of breating all that in.
I am thinking of getting a hepa filter but I know little about them. Does anyone have any experiance with one or any other tips to rid myself of this dust? (link)
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yep i have expeiance with them since i have athesma. I have them in liek evry room and they are not noisy at all. they really work they are kindof expencive but totally worth it trust me1
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My mother and I went to Sam's Club where you can buy everything in bulk, including a one gallon jug of syrup. When we got home the syrup jug had cracked open and spilled all over the inside of my trunk. We tried our best to scoop up what we could, but it is just soaked into the carpet, and is really sticky. My car smells like a pancake house! What can I do to clean up this mess? (link)
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dont wory you dont have to spend alot of money or anything just take a little bit of bleach and mix it with a pot of watter get a scrub brush and scrub ur trunk it should do the trick
hope i helped
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This is kind of long, but I'd like advice. I have a friend, and we've been buds since first grade. Ever since we met, we fight about the dumbest things! Like, I became best best friends with someone, and hung out with that girl a lot. I hung out with my other friend a lot too. She always emailed me saying, "You blow me off!" It gets me soo mad! Then like a day later she totally acts all sweet and like my best friend. Then a month later she pulls that crap again! We fight a lot, and she always starts it and acts like I did. She's always been like this, and if I talk to her, she'll totally bring up little mistakes I've made and act all rude again! What should I do?????? (link)
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these kinds a things happen all the time, dont worry shes not as mature as you, lay down a couple of ground rules about ur friendship and if she dosent like them then you might wanta slow down the friendshp a little, also try hanging out with both at the same time. shes just jelious of u hanging out with aa new best friend like ur replacing her shes just trying to defent what was hers first
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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
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ask a couple of random girls out on one date each, then choose whitch one you enjoyed most see how far you got with each one, did u kiss? more? less? this will show you how instrested she is in you give ur fave a try if ur into her keep her!
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I just moved from my home in Louisiana and now I am really homesick I am crying like crazy and don't know what to do. People in my school are nice but their not my type. Can you give me tips on how to make friends and make my happier?
Elizabeth girl 13 (link)
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ok, moving can be really hard on a persons social life. keep in touch with your friends back home. as for making new ones join a club at school such as debate club or cheerleading. have a sleepover party with all the girls in ur class this way they will have a chance to kno the real you and your bakground. change ur look, giving ur self a make over will maake u feel more beautiful.
hope i helped :)
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(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
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dont worry!!! I went throu this last year. My mom was depressed, and my dad kicked my brother out of the house, because of that stuf i was feeling low and my friends were treating me different. i think this is why your friends are ignoreing you, act happy not depressed and they will want to be around you! go to the mall and get a makeover this will brighten your sperets, and talk to your family. it will be okay!
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