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I Wish I Could Rewind Time...=(
I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help
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gotta get some while the gettins hot! j/k.....but seriously, did he come back to you? if he did, that shows you that your number 1, this other chick is just some hoe. just watch him closely. if he screws up again, cut the cord, baby! this playa cant play worth shit yo
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well .....do wut ur mind tells u first and you will almost never go wrong.....but honestly....now its a trust issue....can u rele trust him... did u noe he and the girls were friends b4 that incedent?....if u did u were they always close friends...is there relationship like a brother/ sister relationship where he was just worming her up or a brother sister relationship with benefits? a u need to evaluate the whole situation accordingly...but if u love him and he truely loves u then u guys will probably work through it...but how did drew noe the girl was gunna be there? it sounds a lil fishy to me?
hope i could help
SekCbabygyrl007
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Yeah I know how you feel . Your mind want's to give it a shot because, your heart feels that it's true love. Your heart want's to take that risk because, you feel it's right . Your heart doesn't want to give it a shot because, your heart knows it's a possibility of getting hurt . Well , whenever dealing with a relationship , you'll have to deal with compromise . I think you should tell Drew how you feel and ask him how he feels about you . Ask yourself," Is Drew the kind of guy who settles for one girl ? Can he be trusted ? Do I trust Drew ? Why do I feel this way for him?" . Take time before you ask him the question I told you to ask him . You need a little time to get things straight in your mind . You need time to get content with yourself about a possibility of a relationship and the possibility of a rejection . I don't know what'll happen . Think and trust your instincts . Don't rush this because , if he cares he wouldn't rush you . Don't be mad with him about the girl . You should really use that incident though to see if you could actually trust him . Trust your instincts and be strong . Only use the incident with the girl if Drew actually knew how you felt about him . Well, I hope I was some help .
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ok, since he was your first love and u were his, your bond can get really tight but you guys have to work on it. sit him down and talk to him about what he did and what he can do to redeem your love(pay back!!!) them lay down some ground rules and finally forgive him. by the way u describe your compassion twards eachother it wwill work out, try not to let you eyes off him for too long in the beginning, and let other giirlls know hes your and to mback off. defent whats yours you can do it
you go giirl!
hope i helped good luck :)
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You believe the "warming her up" thing? Wow..just forget him obviously he didnt love you if he was doing that with a girl and who knows he could have done it w/ other girls before..forget him you deserve better..
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ThiiS guy seems like a LOSER 2 me!! I suggest you move on and find a new homecoming date!!WhAt he did was very disrespectful and Im sure you deserve much better.
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I wouldn't forget him totally because the way you describe it your really not able to just let him slide. Talk to him. Tell him you know what he was really doing and how it broke your heart. Tell him you wanna gain some trust back with him if he still wants to be together with you. Dont be afraid to express your true emotions. Call him on the phone alot and keep in close touch. Good luck sweetie!
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Just forget about him. Guys will come and go throughout your teen aged years. Trust me.. if he cheated on you know.. he will probably cheat in the future too if u get back with him. Thats what my ex did to me. My first true love..and he had sex with another girl... and I still went back to him.
Except I was so mad.. i stooped down to his level and cheated on him..
Just dont waste your time going back to him.. its not worth it.
Jeanine
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You can't let him go? When it comes to logic, your mind kicks your hearts ass. Rarely should you ever follow your heart when your mind disagrees. Your first love is just that, a first love. Since he did this, I can almost guarantee you that the destruction of this relationship is inevitable. Get out now and save yourself the pain of having to do it later.
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