Member Since: August 26, 2004
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Last Update: September 18, 2004
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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tell her
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I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help (link)
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well .....do wut ur mind tells u first and you will almost never go wrong.....but honestly....now its a trust issue....can u rele trust him... did u noe he and the girls were friends b4 that incedent?....if u did u were they always close friends...is there relationship like a brother/ sister relationship where he was just worming her up or a brother sister relationship with benefits? a u need to evaluate the whole situation accordingly...but if u love him and he truely loves u then u guys will probably work through it...but how did drew noe the girl was gunna be there? it sounds a lil fishy to me?
hope i could help
SekCbabygyrl007
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Hello! I was recently told by one of my teachers that we have to do community service. Since I love basketball, I decided to either create a youth basketball organization where I can teach young kids, about 5-7, basketball basics and skills (I'm almost 14 by the way.), or join a place like YMCA where I can help out the youth basketball teams? And if it helps...I live in Michigan.
-- First of all, which one do you think is a better idea?
-- If it's the first one, how would I be able to start this, and am i old enough?
-- If it's the second one, what other place would i be able to go to help youths in basketball (besides YMCA)...I already googled and I still can't find anything.. (link)
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I think the second one is better because to start an organization u would have to authorized and go through your town and ask for permission, and that will be a hassle... so go with the second but im rele not sure.... ur best bet is to go help a a senior citizens home or clean a park or find a youth center to help at.
hope i could help
SekCbabygyrl007
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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of course not....move on.....yes it will be hard.but we've all gotta do it sometime....obviously he's content playing ppl...you'd jus but another girl added to his list... he sed he'd change to make sure he had u under his thumb.... u gotta move on....ppl like taht deserve hoes...and it sounds like ur a good person who desevers much betta... and the only way ppl like him change is by being hurt by some 1 that they actually might...dare i say "love"...and im sorry to say but obviously thats not u so u have to move on...dont talk to him agen.....have more pride than that...i rele hope i could help.....i hope u come bak to me 4 more advice
~courtney~
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Well I met this guy we'll call him "S" and i started talking to him online about a week or so ago i met him through a friend of mine and i recently hung out with him about 5 days ago and I'm really into him but i feel like its too quick and i don't want to tell him and scare him off... i've been through some tough times with guys and i don't want to screw things up i don't know what to do and sometimes i feel i can't keep up conversation with him what do i do to get him to maybe look into me as maybe more than a friend i broke up with one of his friends about a month and a half ago too which is also weird i mean when we hung out it was obvoius we wer flirting a lot but i want a guy that won't use me for just ass i feel stupid what should i do? it seems i always find myself getting hurt (link)
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take a break and chill...find wut u rele want in a guy
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hey...ok im gona be a freshmen in hs. and ive played soccer ALL of my life. and im having a hard time deciding wherther or not i wanna play for my hs team. i mean soccers ok. im good at it and everything but its just getting old...and lyk i went to tryouts this past week and lyk all the freshmen kno eachother and i dont kno ANYONE and i feel soo stupid...and lyk the other thing ive been wanting to cheerlead all of my life. and i have all the abilities to do cheerleading cept im not flexible. and im short and i weigh 85 pounds so i think if by a chance i did make the cheerleading team i think i would def. be a flyer. and if i would have to choose between cheerleading and soccer i would definitly choose cheerleading. but im so much better at soccer. so my ? is...if i did try out for cheerleading do u think i would make the jv squad? and do you thnik i should still play soccer.? help!! (link)
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u probaly wud make the jv squad....and if ur passion isnt soccer anymore dont play because it will show wen u play
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i'm in 8th grade and ive been best friends with my next door neighbor since i was in 2nd grade. hes in 9th grade now, and he moved to another neighborhood in our same town..and since last year, ive had a crush on him...and he just moved like 3 months ago, and i never wanted to go out with him when he was my neighbor cause i thought that would be weird. our families are best friends, and now that they have moved and we are still really close, would it be weird to go out with him now? (link)
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family friend make the best boyfriends in ur case... i wud go 4 it...but would u rather stay friends and stay close or go out break up and be in an awkward kind of position since ur families r close?
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me. (link)
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plan a romantic nite with her
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what are some good deoderents that dont leave white marks on ur clothes ANND work well to stop sweating???
thanks, Manda (link)
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there is this suave deodorant that is in a blue container.... on the cap is sez "slides on clear" it work really well... i used to have the same problem...but now that i used suave... it stoped...i hope i could help.
~courtney~
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I have a lot of girl friends, and a bunch of guy friends but i want more guy friends and i dont remember how i got the ones i have...how can i seem more friendly to my guys? (link)
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be nice flirt.... try to relate to them on their level
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How do I meet my favorite celebrity? (link)
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be a groupie...a persistent groupie
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when u slightly cut ur wrist does it bleed bad... just a small tiny slit...
thanks-
~worried~ (link)
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ur wrist is EXTREMELY sensitive
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me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all! (link)
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excerise is the key... jus doin fruits and veggies... will purify ur system... excersie...hit the gym.
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well im 14 and im not like...ugly actually ppl think im pretty and stuff but thats with make up on...well sometimez it comes off and its just hard to look cute...for me...and lately ive been so unhappy with myself...EVERY gurl i see i want to be..il b like well if i could have her lips id be pretty...i just want like certain features of EVERYONE im so jealous it makes me not have a good time...i just stare @ them..i want ot be them....or i want just ther hair or watever...im so unhappy....wat can i do to stop doing this..and if ur gonna say o think of the good things of urself...i dnt have ne good things..i MAKE them look good...my skin- has freckles and zits...i use make up...my hair...frizzy and wavy-i IRON it with a clothw iron...just everything is fake it seems like...and im stil not that pretty...wat can i do? wats wrong with me?? =( (link)
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ur just very insecure...sry to say that... there is nothing rong w/ ironing ur hair...but sometimes...if u use make up...doin things so that it goes well w/ ur natural hair... go buy products to clear up ur face... clearisil works REALLY well... as for ur freckles ...they are there for life...learn to love them... be comfortable in your owm skin....and and i wud LOVE to have frizzy wavey hair... that is honestly my favorite type of hair...i no ppl who wud kill to have freckles....so wen u wake up in the morning ...as cheesy as this may sound complement your self... and drink lots of water...ur supposed to drink at least 8 glasses a day ... to do three.... thats wut i did...in three weeks my skin was clear... but i dont no how long it wud take you b/c ive neva seen u b4. but its natural to be insecure at 14...dont worry..everyone has there insecurities.
hope i could help!
~Courtney~
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My husband is almost 40, I am just 34. We have been married 10 years but have known each other for 18 years. Sex was always good between us. Lately we haven't had any. I keep asking him if there is someone else in his life because a man can't go as long as he does without it. He says no, he just doesn't need it. I do and have considered leaving him because he doesn't meet my needs. When we do have it, it's almost like it's a chore for him. How can I deal with this? Is it possible there is someone else? (link)
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yes it is......sry to say but ur husband mite be cheating on u ....especially at his age.....HE NEEDS HIS sex like how a baby needs a bottle...i would defintely do sum investigating...but for u... go buy sum stuff...get freaky wit ya self...aint no shame in that
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early? (link)
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no....its ok to please ur self sexually
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hey, ok this is kinda long and confusing i will rate high.
Theres this kid lets call him Joe. Well Joe and i liked each other. we talked all the time and have been friends 4 a while. So we were talking and then Joe just kind of stopped talking 2 me, i mean he talks 2 me but i have 2 talk 2 him first. i asked him about who he liked and he was sort of unsure and i dont no what that means for me. so thats confusing me, then theres this other guy, lets clal him Mark. Well Mark and I used to go out but then we broke up and we tlka occansionally, but i cant stop thinkin abut him and i dont no what 2 do or think bcuz i liked joe then he stopped talkin 2 me! im so confused!! i dont no what should i do? (link)
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its natural to think abtur ex... so dont worry abt that... but it sounds like u shud 4 get abt "joe"....if he stopped talkin to u .... stop talkin to him....4get abt him. its like i always say..." Find better, Do better.... YOU better!"
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Well...I met this girl name Jenni and we started talking and then my brother was single so I started to get them to talk since she's one of m oldest friends and I thought they'd hit it off... suprisingly they did...well a few months later...after they started going out...Jenni told me that she cheated on my brother...with one of her friends Roxie's brother Chad...and I know them too...Jenni swore up and down that they only made out...and I trust her...but I also promised I wouldn't tell my brother...well one night my sister was saying how my brother and Jenni made a pact that they could do whatever whenever with whoever and I was like Wut the heck...so me and my sister confronted my brother and told him about her cheating on my brother...the pact was made after she cheated on him...turned out my sister heard wrong...and they never made a pact...like that...should I have told my brother...or should I have not told my brother to keep Jenni's trust with me? (link)
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u did the rite thing.....ur relationship w/ ur brother is more important than the relationship w/ jenni ur friend.
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ok, well this is long so i'll rate good.
I'm going in 2 the 10th grade this year. Last year was not the greatest for me. I had some problems with relationships and i just wasnt happy, and my grades dropped. I'm not the prettiest grl at all, and i had sum people talk about me behind my back. This year though I just want things 2 b different. I want 2 make more friends and be well liked and pretty. i just dont no how. any advice? (link)
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well... look through fashion magazines 4 fashion hair and make up tips... be very helpful to ppl... and do rele well in school...even gte a tutor if need be....dont give ppl attitudes..dont alk abt ppl...this will definetly help ur name to stay out of the rumor mill!
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I have this sisgusting red thing on the lip of my eye. My mom said it's a "sti?". How do i get rid of it! ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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go to the optomotrist...get it checked out...and do research... there must be a way to get rid of it.
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