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Question Posted Friday August 27 2004, 8:34 pm

Well...I met this girl name Jenni and we started talking and then my brother was single so I started to get them to talk since she's one of m oldest friends and I thought they'd hit it off... suprisingly they did...well a few months later...after they started going out...Jenni told me that she cheated on my brother...with one of her friends Roxie's brother Chad...and I know them too...Jenni swore up and down that they only made out...and I trust her...but I also promised I wouldn't tell my brother...well one night my sister was saying how my brother and Jenni made a pact that they could do whatever whenever with whoever and I was like Wut the heck...so me and my sister confronted my brother and told him about her cheating on my brother...the pact was made after she cheated on him...turned out my sister heard wrong...and they never made a pact...like that...should I have told my brother...or should I have not told my brother to keep Jenni's trust with me?

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Sunshine answered Saturday August 28 2004, 3:00 am:
You did the right thing by telling your brother. He's your blood and he should be more important to you than any friend. Just look at it this way, if he found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you, wouldn't you want him to tell you?

My brother's ex-wife cheated on him while they were married, but I didn't know until after he found out. But if I had known, I definitely would have told him, even though I was close to her.

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Beccah answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:30 pm:
You should have told him because he needs to know... cheating is pretty wrong... its mean and always hurts omeones feelings and if she decides she doesnt want to forgive you then she isnt a very good friend... hope u guys make up and i helped! :)

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Sekcbabygyrl007 answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:27 pm:
u did the rite thing.....ur relationship w/ ur brother is more important than the relationship w/ jenni ur friend.

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Friday August 27 2004, 9:48 pm:
definitly you shoulda told your brother! for one thing he's family to you. and family *a good one* is always going to be there for you! also, if you were dateing one of your brother's good friends wouldn't you want to know if she was cheating on you? yea it was wrong of you to say something to him but it was also the right thing to do! n i think it was wrong of jenni to put you in a situation like that. so you definitly did the right thing

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Karen answered Friday August 27 2004, 9:45 pm:
Yes, you did the right thing. She shouldn't have cheated on him because you aren't supposed to cheat in a relationship but some people do. What kind of girlfriend does that? Don't worry, you did the right thing! Hope I helped :)

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CoLeMaRiE answered Friday August 27 2004, 9:45 pm:
yeah you shouldve told ur brother!! that girls a lil hoe and hes ur blood! tell him even if it hurts him he would be more hurt if u didnt tell him!!

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LostAngel answered Friday August 27 2004, 9:40 pm:
you should have told you brother...he has a right to know the truth and why they made that "pact"..and all in the 1st place -hope I helped

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