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im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do?
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well y dont u go out AS FRIENDS and see what happens, hey if you dont like him in dat way, or arnt ready then u havent commited ureself to anything!! if u do like him thoe, go out again!!
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Ok i know what ur going through... Believe me ive went through it... Like most people say age (or even grade) is no matter... But thats all bullshit... Grade does matter cause u dont feel like u have things in common or his to immature... But dont! i mean dont go out with him just cause he likes you and u dont want to hurt him... Thats just hurting your self... I say wait it out a little... Just remember dont make him ur whole life... Cause this guy would probably mean nothing to u when ur older... So make a decision based on ur happyness... -k-
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well obviously if ur havin doubts, dont go for it. sounds like ya do...keep him as a friend, friendships tend to last longer (i kno that from expirence) lol
*jesikuh
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dont worry about the grade, u said hes ur age, nd if ur not ready for a relationship try hangin out with him nd bein around him nd spend a lot of time with him nd maybe the 2 of u will get closer nd u'll feel more comfortable with him nd try to have a relationship..good luck babe =)
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Well, you've gotta keep in mind that guys are always less mature than girls. It's just how we're programmed - girls always mature faster than guys.
If you're not ready for a relationship, don't get into one. *Shrug* Don't let him push you into it if you don't want it.
But, if you like him most of the time, go for it. It's up to you. Make a list, maybe, of the pros and cons of hooking up with him, look it over, and make your decision.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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don't do it! if you have to think about it and have these moodswings where one moment your happy about it n the next your not, then you're definitly going to be miserable if you guys try to start a relationship
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if the age really matter to u then dont let that be an issue because soon u will be out of school and wutever grade level u r in it wont matter at all.if he seems a bit imature then y don't u just try to be friends with him and wait till he hits maturity or something and by the time he does then u might be ready 4 a relationship.
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You shuldn't let the grade thing bother you because the only thing that should matter is that you two like each other and should let a little thing like what grade you are in to stop you.
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Hey, don't worry. My friend has been going out with her boyfriend for 10 months and they are a grade apart from eachother. Some people even go out with people who are ahead by three grade levels. Don't worry, it's alright to be a grade higher than him! Hope I helped :)
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