Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sekcbabygyrl007 answered Monday August 30 2004, 10:43 pm: of course not....move on.....yes it will be hard.but we've all gotta do it sometime....obviously he's content playing ppl...you'd jus but another girl added to his list... he sed he'd change to make sure he had u under his thumb.... u gotta move on....ppl like taht deserve hoes...and it sounds like ur a good person who desevers much betta... and the only way ppl like him change is by being hurt by some 1 that they actually might...dare i say "love"...and im sorry to say but obviously thats not u so u have to move on...dont talk to him agen.....have more pride than that...i rele hope i could help.....i hope u come bak to me 4 more advice
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