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Flirty Friend
Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops?
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i think i would tell her to stop. if she dont stop, i would tell her that either she had to tell her boyfriend that she does it, or that i would. i think her boyfriend would much more hear it from her than somebody else! keep me updated! *Bethers*
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Dear Friend of Flirtation Device,
Ugh, that happens every year. There's always a girl who flirts with every guy. I mean EVERY guy. I find that the best way to deal with it is to talk about it. Tell her that it's bothering you, and to please not do it in your presence. If she persists, remind her that she has a boyfriend and should be faithful to him.
Good luck,
Osiris
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Tell her to just stop hanging all over guys cause U know she has a boyfriend and tell her that Its stupid and its like cheating anywayz
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I know how u feel thats the same thing with my friend but her bf goes to our school and i cant believe he hasn't said anything but in ur case i would just tell her and if she doesnt listen well it be cause she will soon get wut she deserve. "what goes around comes around" so ya dont put much attention or tell her would u like ur bf to do that to u then she will have to think about it and hopefuly change her acts.well hope i helped.
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tell her
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Girl please, don't make the same mistake i did. I had the same exact friend (by the way were not friends anymore). She flirted with everyone even when she did have a b/f. The most important thing to do is to stand your ground. Confront her about her discusting problem. If she cant deal, then sionara to her if she cant understand what she is doing is totally hurtfull and wrong, and if she cant listen to her friend. If she gives in, mabye you can reconsider, but if she ditches you, than start on a clean slate. Make new, better friends. That is exatcly wut i did. Sure it hurts watching your best friend flirt with everyone, but in the end you will be the one everyone notices
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Nah she wont stop... ya just need to tell her.. Hey look are you forgeting about your boyfriend... girls at a young age their hormones get them acting all freaky and stuff. Believe me I went threw it all my 8th grade year! It'll pass. meanwhile i'd tell her boyfriend.
-holly-
hope i helped
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Ok I have the perfect answer for you! my best friend is alot like that, but she doesnt hang all on them or have a b/f she just flirts WITH EVERYONE!!! YIKES!!! ok this is what you do...
a. stop hanging out with her
b. Tell her nicely that you just wanna remind her she has a GREAT b/f and that she looks silly on all of the guys!! and say im really sorry but this is how i feel and if u love me and u are my friend you will respect my opionion...
alrighty hope it helps!!!
sincerly,
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Tell her that what she's doing you think is wrong. If i found out that my girl was flirting with every guy in site, i wouldn't be very happy, alot of trust issues would come up, and it seems she just isnt ready for a relationship. Maybe she is just unsure of what she wants, so before you go judging her, have a talk to her, explain what your seeing, and how you feel, mabye theres more to it then what it seems. Hope i helped, good luck :-)
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well everybody flirts sometimes pplz plan it and sometimes well just happens you can't really tell someone to stop flirting I tried it and it fucked up my relationship with her and well it was because I had bad edvice although I said it nicely but if you get a bf and she still does it tell her...if she flirts with some one elses boyfriend I mean or urs
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I think you should tell her, if she's a true friend she should understand. Just politly say "Hey, you know I have been noticing something that you flirt with a lot of people" or something like that.. If it doesn't stop, just let it go or if it bothers you so much just stop being her friend or something or you can even talk to her again. I hope this helped! Rate me =)
xoxoxo
mandah
xoxoxo
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You should not worry about it. She hasn't cheated. And everyone likes to be a flirt but if you can't get over it then maybe you should stop hanging out with her.
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hm.. 1 of my closest friends used 2 b like that.. me nd my other friend talked to her about it nd she sed she understood wut we were sayin nd she would stop cus she knew it was wrong but sometimes she just couldnt help it.. im stil really good friends with her nd she barely flirts with ne1 ne more =] xOxO _ Des*
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Well I don't know how your friend responds to things...but being honest with her would be my best advice. If you think she's too flirty just nicely tell her. For example you could start a conversation about dating, or about boys in general and then bring up flirting and say "yeah I don't think its good to flirt with guys all the time..." You could tell her why it's a bad idea because guys get misled and it's not good to lead a guy on. Plus it's not good to be flirting when you have a boyfriend...ESPECIALLY when he's not around. Hope I helped out. Ask me for advice any time!
-Godsman
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well this kinda thing is difficult for everybody. i cant really answer this ? but u should make sure to not cross the line between friends and personal lives. what she does is her bussiness. hopefully she'll stop being a slut and be a true gf. hope it helps!
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