I have blonde hair and brown eyes, i am 5'2", i have a best friend named Chrissy, and my dogs name is chuckie.
E-mail: Sarnica@ptd.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvaina
Occupation: none (yea i have no job!)
Age: 14
Member Since: September 13, 2004
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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Girl please, don't make the same mistake i did. I had the same exact friend (by the way were not friends anymore). She flirted with everyone even when she did have a b/f. The most important thing to do is to stand your ground. Confront her about her discusting problem. If she cant deal, then sionara to her if she cant understand what she is doing is totally hurtfull and wrong, and if she cant listen to her friend. If she gives in, mabye you can reconsider, but if she ditches you, than start on a clean slate. Make new, better friends. That is exatcly wut i did. Sure it hurts watching your best friend flirt with everyone, but in the end you will be the one everyone notices
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this is going to be long...
I have this gut feeling that my brother is gay. I really believe that he is. I don't have a problem with it or anything because I love gay people. His best friend is bisexual even though he won't admit it. He's kissed guys in the back of school and I've seen him and he also kisses girls. So I pretty much know he's bi. So getting back to my brother, I just really think that he's gay! I swear it's like i have gay-dar or something like that, he's always staring at my boyfriend when he comes over, when he has his friends over, they are in his room for like 2 freakin hours WITH THE DOOR LOCKED and if he hears me walking up to the door he yells at me. I mean come on, he's never had a girlfriend and he always says he doesn't want one and that he'd never get married. He says, and I will quote, "Girls are a waste of my time." When I told some of my friends that I thought he was gay, they all responded with "I always knew something was up with your brother." Or something along those lines. Even guys that barely know my brother say that he's gay. My only worry is that my dad is homophobic, and my mom said that she'd be really upset if she found out that he was gay even though she has gay friends. How do I tell my mom of my suspicions? If it's true how would my dad react in the future when he comes out? How can I deal with this?? (link)
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Ok, despite the upsetting truth about your brother, i love the way you used gay-dar! LOL
anyway, lets be serious. If your brothe is gay, just ask him for five minutes of his time, and talk to him about your suspicions. I mean come on, its not like u 2 are strangers! If he cant connect with you, talk to your school guidance counselor. They are perfect with solving problems, and everything stays confidential.
On another note, if your parents cant accept the fact that their son is gay, than they arent very understandable parents(no offense). to make your parents understand (that is if your brother is actually gay) is to come out like this," hey mom,dad, if i started wearing dark gothic looking clothes, would you still love me?" if their replys is yes and you tell them about your brother, they should say the same thing. But if they don't, Explain.
I really hope i helped!
sarah742
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Ok, my brother has a snake. She is a 1 year old ball python. Shes about 14 inches long. My question is, when shes in her cave, she likes to pick it up, and then crawl under it. Is this a normal thing? Shes not shedding, so that can't be why shes doing it. Sometimes she gets stuck, and goes to sleep while its laying on her. Is she going to be ok? (link)
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Ok, as soon as this snake goes under this rock, dont flip out and immediatly call nine one one!!
You seriously need to chill. Snakes are reptiles, cold blooded little freaks. they do what they please. Going under rocks and then sleeping when the rock is sitting on top of her is perfectly normal. usually baby snakes don't shed right away. So just leave her to her business, and STOP WORRING!
Happy i helped!
Sarah742
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My Bf is really shy around me..if I try to talk to him or something he just kind gives me a thumbs up..i don't know if he just to shy to say something back or hes just doesn't care..I like him alot!! What do I do?
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I seriously thank you for asking this question!
since you 2 are dating, you need to be totally open to him, even if it means not going to your favorite movie on a weekend cause hes mad at you.
If hes shy about BEING around you, than everyone knows that boys are wierd, not under control, and not understandable. I mean, you never know, you could be his first GF!You probably need to take things alittle slow if you really truly want to be with him for a while.
Glad i could answer!!
Sarah742
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ok my little problem is...that I've had many gurlz ask me to Homecoming...I mean I got gurlz from 6 different schools asking me...and like 2/3 or 4 from each school..c im very flattered..but if I go with 1 of them the others will get really pissed..if you got any idea on what I should do or/and who I should choose..tell me
Kev (link)
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Ok, Kevin, I know you're really gonna hate this but, YOU NEED TO MAKE A DECISION!!!! thats what growing up is all about!. To make it easier, narrow it down to five girls that you would most want to take to homecoming. After that, review mentally what you like about each one of them,deciding which one you would most want to say yes to. Then, pick one. Simple as that. If the other ones get pissy, thats just too bad. You cant take EVERY GIRL THAT ASKS YOU OUT TO HOMECOMING!
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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!? (link)
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Well, the question you have to ask yourself is wether you like Jake or not. Maybe your friends won't get off your back because they think you like him. But if you dont like him and their just mad at you for kissing him without actually liking him, you need to tell them that you know how they feel, and tell them to get over it in a friendly way.
Hope i Helped!
Sarah742
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