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Hi, My name is Shayla A.K.A Shay. I'm from Church Point,Louisiana. Im in the 8th grade and I wanna give yall some advice the best I can..! And if you want you can IM me and ask me for advice on there too. ShAyLa LyNn 3 Plus i love meeting new people=)

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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?

If you don't like him anymore then don't go out with. Just tell him you just want to be friends.

Xo,Shay!

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Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you

Chick your 13 years old. Why would you want to spoil the surprise now I know you think you love him but do you really think yall are going to be together the REST of your life? Think about that..i mean don't spoil it now..wait a while and let it be special..but hey it's your life but personally i wouldn't go any further..!

Xo,Shay!

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so how come everybodys into scrunching their hair now(not that i havent tried it)??? anyways...is there any other way i can get my "scrunch" to hold without adding hairspray? it makes my hair stick out....i add gel to make the curls and then i add the spray to hold it...can i do this without adding spray? will it still hold?

Hi,ok what i do after u finish washing your hair(don't blow dry it) keep it wet and comb it out and then but it in a bun(like wrap all your hair around and then put the ponytail..kinda what they do in ballet) then after it dries take it down and juss kinda scrunch it a little bit..it should already b curly though and then there ya go! Hope i helped;)

Xo,Shay!

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ok i was thinking about taking up fast pitchpitcing. ive been practicing amost everyday for a couple of weeks... i play 15&under how do u think i could ever be good enought to be in a game? what could i work on to make me good?

Ok i went to a camp @ UL (in Lafayette)and i wanted to get good so we drove so Baton Rouge and he started working with me every other weekend..it does take alot of practice. You need to practice alot with the flip the wrist drills and i have alot more drills you can do juss email me redhotsftballplaya00@yahoo.com and i can give u some drills. You do need to practice 4 atleast 2-3 hours EACH day!

Xo,Shay!

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In my old school, I wasn't all that popular, and this year I want to be way more popular than I was before. I want to know how to act and how not to act and stuff like that. Please help ASAP!!

Defintly don't act conceited or nothing like that..try not to b preppy either..juss go up to different groups of people and start up a conversation and flirt a bit..if you do this everyday you'll have way more friends;)


Xo,Shay!

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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months?

If your just getting your first hole done then i'd say about a 2. It doesn't really hurt just afterwords it can kinda sting. Yeah you should get the second one done..i did..and i didn't hurt really bad maybe a 3..but it don't hurt anymore and it's realli cute;)

Xo,Shay!

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so my best friend has been goin out wit this guy 4 almot 6 months n i think its great cuz sehs she much happier now n i love hanging wit them but the problem is i like her b/f n ive liked him ever since i met him but never mad my move n now i think he likes me 2 cuz we have all these inside jokes n but idk if were just really close or he likes me waat do u think i should do
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Hi,ok why not tell your friend and your best friend's boyfriend too. She shouldn't get mad at you..she should be understanding as what a real friend would do. If you think the guy likes you then flirt around a little bit more and im sure you'll be able to tell. Hope i helped..!

Xo,Shay!

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Okay I am 13/f and I have never kissed a boy before. Well my boyfriend and I were playing Truth or Dare online and I dared him to kiss me. He said he would but he would have to do it between two of the buildings at school so we don't get a PDA refferal. This is not what I am asking advice on. I am nervous to kiss him because like I said I have never kissed a boy before. I need to know like what to do, how to do it, how to keep myself from being nervous and stuff like that thanx.~*Never Been Kissed*~p.s.I rate, good.

OK..take a deep breath..and just calm down. There is no right or wrong to kissing a guy..but if you tend to be really nervous then your thinking about everything and something might go wrong..noo im juss pickin..but juss close your eyes and let it go with the flow..you'll do fine trust me.!

Xo,Shay!

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Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him?

TRY and forget about him and do more things with friends or something..eventually you will meet new guys and keep your eye focused on one of them;) He's a jerk anyway for doing that to a girl!

Xo,Shay!

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ok welll.. im 14 and i gave head to someone and i told ONE person or two .. i forgot buh now everyone at schoool is talking about it . and tha kid i gave head to is yelling at me because people are saying that i told people when i didnt. right now i am in like trouble because ppl call me names like slut and stuff like that and they are like starting to hate me so idk. so right now i dont even no what to do. someone please help.

Ok first off..i would juss 4get about it..they're juss being immature and probably because they have never done that before they are shocked that you've done it. Well I would just ignore them..it's your life you only live it once so live it the way you want to and don't care what others think about u! But I'm hoping this would be a lesson learned from experience. That when you do something sexual like that..don't go and tell other ppl..lol!

Xo,Shay!

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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do?

People pick certain lifestyles that they want to live with. This is her's and I can understand that your uncomfortable. Just go with the flow and im sure after a while you will forget about it and just accept her the way she is. I mean hey..there's nothing you can do about it riight?

Xo,Shay!

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Does anyone play volleyball? Can you wash your kneepads or will it ruin them?!?!
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I've washed mine and nothing happened to them..but I didn't dry them or anything. GOod Luck

Xo,Shay!

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper?

He would probably would have to go in further than what he did..so most likely you not pregnant.

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U c i like this girl who goes to my school and we r great friends. But the prob is she is goin out w/ one of my best friends. At first i was just gonna wait and c what happened but they've been goin out for a while. I dont wanna mess anythin up but i cant stop thinkin bout her. And when i'm w/ her i feel sumthin.
HELP!
thnx in advance

Tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way she could possibly break up with her boyfriend. If she does wait it out and see what happens then try and ask her out and see what she says. You might want to wait a while because your friend could get mad at you. Hope everything works out..!

Xo,Shay!

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Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/

X.oX.o --> aShLeY

Just relax sweetie..im sure your not prude ok. Stop worrying about it because it's not that much of a big deal..but im sure if you calm down and relax you'll know when the time comes..and it will be so special. Just let it flow..!

Xo,Shay!

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i like this guy and him and his girlfriend just broke up today.. if i ask him out, is taht bad? because me and his ex are like friends but not really

I say..wait about a week and then ask him out and see what he says. I mean if you and his ex aren't REALLY friends whuts the harm..?

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