Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us




Question Posted Monday September 13 2004, 5:36 pm

i like this guy and him and his girlfriend just broke up today.. if i ask him out, is taht bad? because me and his ex are like friends but not really

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?


Beccah answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:42 pm:
no but dont ask him out so soon. wait a few days or even weeks and make sure it is ok with his ex first... less conflict... good luck!
please rate!
~Beccah~

[ Beccah's advice column | Ask Beccah A Question
]




LilMia811 answered Monday September 13 2004, 8:06 pm:
if you like him than go for him. but if you and his ex are kinda close, you might wanna discuss it with her first, that way you'll no what everything is hitting for, like whether or not there will be drama.

[ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question
]



thirteen answered Monday September 13 2004, 8:03 pm:
well if you are close friends dont go out with him because thats just well evil lol. but if you are close but you really truely like him she should understand. I say give it a shot, you never know what will happen. go for it.
-hope I helped!

-Tess-
(tesslindsey13)

[ thirteen's advice column | Ask thirteen A Question
]



Mexicanchic62820004 answered Monday September 13 2004, 7:18 pm:
Just wait a little while (like a month) and then u can ask him out.

[ Mexicanchic62820004's advice column | Ask Mexicanchic62820004 A Question
]



BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday September 13 2004, 6:31 pm:
Well, you two aren't like "best friends" or anything, so she shouldn't get too mad at you for trying to hook up with her ex boyfriend. But, give him some time to get over the break up and everything. Like a couple of days or a week. And then tell him how you feel about him. I mean be there for him and stuff, be his friend and then tell him how you feel. Just be like "I hope I'm not rushing things or anything, but I want to tell you something, I've began to develop feelings for you, I started to awhile ago, but you and your girlfriend had just broken up, so I was trying to give you some time, but I just wanted to tell you and I want to know if you like me too.." Just say something like that. I hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

[ BlueEyedBlondie725's advice column | Ask BlueEyedBlondie725 A Question
]



Laura answered Monday September 13 2004, 6:20 pm:
If you wait a few days to a week, you'll have a better chance. Right now he probably wants to be alone to get over it, and even if he said yes, it might be because he's desperate for someone.

~Laura~

[ Laura's advice column | Ask Laura A Question
]



Dreams1370 answered Monday September 13 2004, 6:19 pm:
I think you should give him a little bit of time to get over the break up. Wait for about a week or a few days. Then try to make your move.

[ Dreams1370's advice column | Ask Dreams1370 A Question
]



SNAKE answered Monday September 13 2004, 6:16 pm:
just give him a few days then ask him or else it will seem 2 his ex that hes been cheating w/ u

[ SNAKE's advice column | Ask SNAKE A Question
]



Alexa answered Monday September 13 2004, 6:04 pm:
I would wait a little bit since they just broke up...so good luck wih him and i hope when u ask him out he will say yes..
<3 Alexa

[ Alexa's advice column | Ask Alexa A Question
]



XxLSUhUnNiEXx answered Monday September 13 2004, 5:59 pm:
I say..wait about a week and then ask him out and see what he says. I mean if you and his ex aren't REALLY friends whuts the harm..?

[ XxLSUhUnNiEXx's advice column | Ask XxLSUhUnNiEXx A Question
]



united_python_cheerleader answered Monday September 13 2004, 5:56 pm:
Go out with him you might hit it off and i did that once and we went out for 8 years and we are still going out

Love YA good luk

[ united_python_cheerleader's advice column | Ask united_python_cheerleader A Question
]



Mercy_x_Me answered Monday September 13 2004, 5:46 pm:
nope not bad at all. its cool for girls to ask guys out , totally. If you and his ex are 'friends but not really' she obviously cant be too important in which case dont worry about it. good luckk hun xoxo

[ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question
Next Question >>> guitar

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker