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ok welll.. im 14 and i gave head to someone and i told ONE person or two .. i forgot buh now everyone at schoool is talking about it . and tha kid i gave head to is yelling at me because people are saying that i told people when i didnt. right now i am in like trouble because ppl call me names like slut and stuff like that and they are like starting to hate me so idk. so right now i dont even no what to do. someone please help.
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Ok first off..i would juss 4get about it..they're juss being immature and probably because they have never done that before they are shocked that you've done it. Well I would just ignore them..it's your life you only live it once so live it the way you want to and don't care what others think about u! But I'm hoping this would be a lesson learned from experience. That when you do something sexual like that..don't go and tell other ppl..lol!
Xo,Shay!
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people are so immature now days! You know what they do that cuz they are jealous and just young! when you get older its no big deal like that nobody goes around ohh my god guess what she did ohh shes a slut.....dont worry just blow off those hatters.
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well the only thing i can tell u is...if im in ur place i wouldnt give a shit wat pplz say..and if they call me names like slut,hoe,bitch or anythin like that ill smack the shit out of them....i think thats wat u should do...just fuck them up if they talk shit on u....k!bye K.I.T
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That's really tough to be in that situation. The sad thing is, there is nothing you can do to stop people talking. Kids are like that, they'll talk and be callous and mean when they latch on to a piece of gossip.
Hold your head high. You might feel like hiding and trying to apologise for what you did, but that will not get you anywhere. People will only jeer more if they sense you are embarassed and ashamed, as this means that their bullying is working. Ignore the gossip as best you can. Don't rise to any bait if people jeer at you. It will take time, no matter how maturely you deal with it, but the less you react, the quicker people will let it go. Good luck, and I'm sorry this happened to you.
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Well, at the age of 14 you really shouldn't be giving head in the first place much less telling people about it. Keep this in mind for the future to avoid further similar incidents. As for right now, the people below are answerrign rather immaturely, and punching someone who calls you a slut is only going to get you into bigger trouble. Just don't take the words to heart and let it die down. Teenagers have the attention span of flies. They will find someone else to pick on rather quickly.
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Laffo someone below said suck it up.
Please tell me you get it.
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It's not the end of the world. Just suck it up and move on with your life...But, if you really want people to stop calling you names, get a baseball bat or a folding chair and bash one of the punks who called you a slut. All you need is one person, that way it shows their friends that if they call you a slut, they are leaving school in a body bag.
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