I am not much of an empathic person. I will not give pity or attention to cry babies. But, I will give you the honest, uncensored advice of an experienced man. So, as a wise man once said, "Because I am hard, you will not like me. But the more you hate me, the more you will learn. I am hard, but I am fair!"
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Hi well see I met this guy from Paris, France, well he is sweet and everything , but my boyfriend dosnt like him , he said if I talked to him that he would break up with me , what do I do?Plz
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Don't talk to him. The french aren't worth it anyway, he'll just end up getting you smashed off of cheap whine, knock you up when you are asleep, and then give cigarettes to your baby.
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Ever since I was a small child, I have always wanted to be a pilot. However, my vision is terrible and 20/20 vision is a strict requirement of US Air Force aviators. There is the possibility of Lasic surgery, but that is expensive and sometiems unreliable, and it has risks and side effects involved. And it can sometimes be a disqualifier from the flight program of the USAF.
Now, when I was a Senior in High School, I was originally going to sign up for the US Army Warrant Officer program. My counselor managed to persuade me not to. I applied to and got accepted to Saint Joseph's University because of their Air Force ROTC program. Then came something I was not prepared for. As always, there is a lady involved. I found, or actually, a lady found me. We have been dating for the past 4 months and I know I sound like some puppy-eyed immature teenager when say this but I love this woman, and I plan on marrying her when we get out of college. It sounds stupid, but I know what I feel and I know she feels the same way. Now here is my problem. Do I join Air Force ROTC and waste 4 years of my life as an Air Force Officer only to be rejected for my vision to the pilot program when I could be living a nice steady life with my lady? Or is there a small chance that I could possibly get accepted to the pilot program and fulfill my dream? Is that small chance worth it? It pains us both to go to separate colleges, and my lady fears having to wait for me to return from year long tours of duty. And she fears the current war going on as well. What do I do? (link)
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Dump the girl. She'll only get the way of things and probably wouldn't wait for you to finish four years. Besides, you have barely even been going out with her; don't waste your dreams for some woman you just met.
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alright well whenever i get upset i feel the need to cause myself pain. sometimes i do and sometimes i just cry. and i used to cut but i dont anymore and im never going to again so that will not be a way of hurting myself...but i want to know if there's anyway to control these feelings. i really dont want to end up hurting myself badly. but i get upset do easily...i dont know im just so confused. (link)
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If you get the feeling you want to hurt yourself, go do something physical like running, weight lifting, or wood cutting. But if you really feel the need to cause some pain, do it to other people. No need to hurt yourself when there are others.
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Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do??? (link)
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Take them both to the dance. Of course, you'd end up with twice the complaining and bitching, but if you can pull it off it'd probably be the best night of your life. But, if you just want to take your friend, just tell her straight out you don't want to go with her, to hell with her feelings.
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ok welll.. im 14 and i gave head to someone and i told ONE person or two .. i forgot buh now everyone at schoool is talking about it . and tha kid i gave head to is yelling at me because people are saying that i told people when i didnt. right now i am in like trouble because ppl call me names like slut and stuff like that and they are like starting to hate me so idk. so right now i dont even no what to do. someone please help. (link)
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It's not the end of the world. Just suck it up and move on with your life...But, if you really want people to stop calling you names, get a baseball bat or a folding chair and bash one of the punks who called you a slut. All you need is one person, that way it shows their friends that if they call you a slut, they are leaving school in a body bag.
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i have a huge problem!!! im like 5 feet but i weigh like 140 pounds! im not fat or anything, its really mostly muscle but i could loose weight... plz write back!!! (link)
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Get a treadmill, a set of 10 pound arm and leg weights, and some 20 pound dumb bells. Run four miles every day nonstop in under an hour. Do 10 push ups after you wake up, 30 after each meal and 10 before you sleep. Use the dumb bells whenever you get free time. When you are not working out, wear the body weights. Do that for a couple months and you'll be set.
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Hey, I'm a female of 14 years old. My boyfriend dumped me 2 and a half months ago. I love him more then any thing and I just can't get over him. My best friend likes him too and says she likes him just as much as I do... which is hard to believe because she just recently started REALLY hanging out with him. He seems like he likes her too, but I've asked him countless times and every time he's said no. What I'm getting at is if he does like her and if he does decide to ask her out, what do I do? I love him more then any thing and to see them together and happy would kill me. I know I should be happy for them if they do decide to take it to the next level but I don't think thats possible. What do I do? How do I go along with this? How can I get over him? Thank you in advance!! (link)
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Get over it. Don't ruin your friend's possible relationship with him just because you are jealous.
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