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homecoming dance
Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do???
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since you already told your friend that you would go with her than still go with her. Tell the other girl that you like your reason you cant go but tell her that yall can hang out at the dance and afterwards.
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You should just go wit ur friend... cuz she did ask u first... & it wouldnt be nice if u had asked her and she dissed u for sum guy she likes... but tell that girl that u like... that u would love to go wit her... its just that she asked u first & it wouldnt be nice to diss her... tell her you'll go wit her to the next dance that comes up :)
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Like it or not-here's my opinion: I think you should call the girl you really like and tell her the truth. Say something like this, "I really like you, but I didn't think you would ask me so I said yes to my friend. I wish you had asked me earlier. But just because I said 'no', doesn't mean I don't like you. I'm sorry." HOPE I HELPED you!
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casey
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explain to the girl why you turned her down, but go with your friend so that you aren't being rude...you can still spend time with the girl you like and dance with her and stuff, just don't completely ignore the girl you are with
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Well, only an asshole would ditch their friend. If the girl likes you, then she'll dance with you. You don't have to dance exclusively with one person, you know.
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just tell your friend the situation!! im sure she'll understand.
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I think you did the right thing! Just explain to your girlly friend what you just told me! No harm should be done if you do this. She should understand where your coming from. Good Luck!
-Katie-
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Well, you can be a good friend and keep the date with your pal. Be sure to explain to the girl you liked that you are interested in her, but that you made a committment already.
That will show you her a trustworthy guy.
So really, you keep your friend AND know the other girl likes you. Best of both worlds, hey?
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You have two options. You can go with your friend or you can go with the girl. I personally think you goign with your friend is the right thing to do, since she is the one who asked first, and you agreed to be there for her when she needed you. Now, what you can do is explain to the girl you like that you already have a date to the hoemcoming dance and she is just a friend, but you are still interested in dating her and you can set something up. Homecoming is not the only date in the world.
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Well, since you are just going with a friend to homecoming, I'm sure she wouldn't mind that you danced with that girl you like. When you're talking to the girl you like just be like "Well, I promised my friend I would go with her, but we're just friends, we don't like each other like that, but do if you would like we could dance to some of the songs.." and then when you're talking to your friend, just be like "Since we're just going as friends, the girl I liked asked me to homecoming, but I turned her down because I'm going with you, but I just want to make sure if it's okay if I dance with her a couple of times.." Just say something like that, I hope that works out! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Take them both to the dance. Of course, you'd end up with twice the complaining and bitching, but if you can pull it off it'd probably be the best night of your life. But, if you just want to take your friend, just tell her straight out you don't want to go with her, to hell with her feelings.
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Honestly... go with both of them... explain to the two of them the situation and they most likely won't have a problem with it. I know my friends wouldn't and then you'll look like a pimp with two ladies at either arm. lol good luck
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I think it's really nice of you to stand by your friend. I say keep the date with your friend, and just tell the girl you like that you promised a friend you guys would go together, but that maybe you two could go to the next school event. Or, if it's ok with your friend, save her a dance. :P
~Laura~
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Ask her to something else so she knows your not just blowing her off. A movie or something.
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